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  • Sep 14, 2009, 03:42 PM
    4cheese3
    To many erections
    I keep getting erections from almost anything what do I do
  • Sep 14, 2009, 07:11 PM
    Clough
    Hi, 4cheese3!

    How old are you, please?

    If you're in the early stages of puberty, what you're experiencing wouldn't be all that uncommon and is normal, that is, to have them frequently. However, what are some of the things that you're doing that are the most likely things to cause the erections, please?

    For instance, sitting in a classroom and thinking about a girl or girls that you like; having your pet lie down on your lap; lying on your stomach in bed, being close physically to someone to whom you're attracted, etc.

    Thanks!
  • Sep 18, 2009, 05:04 PM
    4cheese3

    I am 15 and its everything
  • Sep 18, 2009, 05:11 PM
    zippit

    The best thing you can do for school is wear loose pants and boxers
  • Sep 18, 2009, 05:47 PM
    Clough
    Hi again, 4cheese3!

    Wearing long t-shirts can also help. Also, have you spoken with a doctor about the problem that you're having?

    Thanks!
  • Oct 1, 2009, 03:17 PM
    4cheese3

    I have a dress code so I can't do that stuff
  • Oct 2, 2009, 11:33 AM
    Clough
    Hi again, 4cheese3!

    So, what types of clothing are you allowed to wear to school, please?

    Thanks!
  • Oct 2, 2009, 11:45 AM
    artlady

    When you find yourself in this position,think of something awful.Something that really turns you off.
    Or do a calculus problem in your head.
    Recite the alphabet backwards.
    Use your books to hide it during school.
    You could try wearing two pairs of boxers.
    It is not uncommon.
  • Oct 2, 2009, 11:48 AM
    Alty

    This is totally normal.

    You're 15, you body is growing, you penis has a mind of it's own and won't listen to you.

    Heck, at 15 a breeze could cause an erection.

    Don't worry too much about it.

    Now, to avoid embarrassment, do what Artlady suggested, think of something that's a complete turn off. Kicked puppies, math homework, Bea Arthur. ;)

    Don't worry, this too shall pass.
  • Oct 2, 2009, 11:48 AM
    Clough
    Hi, artlady!

    Yes, it's not uncommon, and I was going to get into the "thoughts" thing. But, thank you for pointing it out!

    As a former school music, choir and band teacher for a number of different grades, I always was careful for mixed choruses as to when to ask everyone to stand up!

    Thanks!
  • Oct 2, 2009, 02:58 PM
    artlady

    I asked my son what he did during these awkward times and he said he sort of took care of business before school,if you get my drift.
  • Oct 2, 2009, 06:54 PM
    Clough
    Now, that was good, artlady! :D

    But, then again, not all guys have a choice at that age, even if they go to school "prepared".

    I remember how I was...

    Thanks!
  • Oct 2, 2009, 08:40 PM
    artlady
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Clough View Post
    Now, that was good, artlady!! :D

    But, then again, not all guys have a choice at that age, even if they go to school "prepared".

    I remember how I was...

    Thanks!

    When you are that age you need to maybe take care of things more than once.
    My son also said he went to the boys room and either put cold water on hand to stop it or went below and took things in hand again.
    Just repeating what worked for him.
  • Oct 4, 2009, 11:09 AM
    jrsg

    I just got over this problem!

    I handled my problem in the same way artlady's son did, and it worked okay for me. Actually, in the morning, never at school.

    A popular place is the shower. It's in the morning, you get privacy, and there are a couple other pros that I don't want to mention ;).
  • Oct 7, 2009, 05:54 PM
    4cheese3

    What do you mean take care of business
  • Oct 7, 2009, 06:01 PM
    friend4u178
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by 4cheese3 View Post
    wat do you mean take care of business

    Uhmmm... masturbate ;)
  • Oct 9, 2009, 10:08 AM
    bigim

    Pull it up and put it in your waist band until it goes down
  • Oct 9, 2009, 06:00 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    Yes, this is a very common issue that almost all teen males deal with.
  • Oct 9, 2009, 08:06 PM
    bigim

    To Altenweg:

    No, it doesn't hurt, unless your pants are real tight or something. Its just uncomfortable and you need to make sure its not noticeable, but that's better than walking around with it full on, right?
  • Oct 12, 2009, 07:32 AM
    4cheese3

    Thank you
  • Oct 18, 2009, 09:55 PM
    BigDaddyR
    You know dude, you need to take care of the business... try doing it before school, it helps... I remember how I was when I was your age...
  • Oct 27, 2009, 07:44 PM
    4cheese3

    Not to sound like a rookie but I tried to hint at my friends to figure out what masturbating was and they wouldn't tell me how so I'm stuck if it is legal please advise
  • Oct 27, 2009, 07:56 PM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by 4cheese3 View Post
    not to sound like a rookie but i tried to hint at my friends to figure out wat masturbating was and they wouldnt tell me how so im stuck if it is legal please advise

    Yikes, that's a gray area.

    I don't think it's illegal to tell you but moral, I'm not sure about that. I know I wouldn't want my son learning about masturbation on the internet.

    I almost want to tell you to Google it but I'm worried about the misinformation you may get.

    Legal eagles, Scott, Judy, Chuck, Exy, am I going to jail if I give a 14 year old instructions on how to masturbate?
  • Oct 27, 2009, 07:58 PM
    friend4u178

    Google it ;)
  • Oct 27, 2009, 11:46 PM
    MYDEARFRIEND

    As you grow up going through puberty you are going to have to deal with erections in the best way possible.

    Most have given you advice on how to deal with them and the way I did was to relieve myself and then try not to think about things that give me erections, its going to be hard [sorry] to keep them at bay, but over time this will settle down.. my friend had a jock strap on most of the time at school so that his erection could be kept hidden from others.
    I also tried meditation for a while or when I got an erection I thought of the most ugly looking thing on earth and after a while it went down.

    Hope that helps.
  • Oct 27, 2009, 11:55 PM
    Clough
    Hi, MYDEARFRIEND!

    I had a friend who would wear a jock strap starting in the later elementary school years.

    Thank you for "bringing up" that idea! Pun intended! :)
  • Oct 28, 2009, 06:44 AM
    slapshot_oi
    Tuck down to the right or left leg, or straight up in the waist band like someone already said. Problem solved.

    And if you can't adjust 'cause you're in public, carry a notebook in front of you.
  • Oct 28, 2009, 08:25 PM
    Alty

    Right now I'm really glad I'm a girl. :D
  • Oct 28, 2009, 08:30 PM
    MattyRamone

    You can flick your balls, it takes your mind off the erection and focuses on the pain thus no erection.
  • Oct 29, 2009, 03:09 PM
    4cheese3

    That sounds really painful thanks anyway
  • Oct 29, 2009, 04:08 PM
    Clough
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by 4cheese3 View Post
    that sounds really painful thanks anyways

    Yes, it does sound painful, 4cheese3!

    Have you taken other ideas that have been given into consideration, please?

    Thanks!
  • Nov 3, 2009, 08:43 PM
    4cheese3

    I was going to try masturbating but I don't know how so any other idea
  • Nov 3, 2009, 09:11 PM
    plonak

    Ok people here have given you good suggestions! Take them!

    As for the masturbation.. you use your hands.. just touch yourself and do what feels good, you should get it in no time
  • Jan 4, 2010, 10:22 PM
    Giggidy

    LOL I know exactly what you're going through buddy.. this used to happen to me ALL the time. It always seemed to be the worst times as well, like in class when your teacher wants you to move seats or do a problem on the board (cue the feeling of sheer dread).

    Don't worry though it will pass TRUST. Its just your age.. the best thing to do is tuck the overactive chap tightly (no too tightly mindfor obvious reasons) into your belt when he's *ahem* sleeeping? Then your sorted bruv.. and no I didn't get the idea from superbad.. they got it from me! ;)

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