I'm pregnant does he care?
OK here's the deal this guy and I have been friends for a while now and we gone up and down in our relationship/friendship whatever you want to call it and over spring break we took our relationship further and it got pretty intimate. I have other post about this particular event. Anyway for a while he stopped talking to me and now he's talking to me again. He said things to me like I care about you I trust you I feel safe with you etc. and that was all during and shortly after this event had happened. Once I told him I was pregnant he got really angry with me stopped talking to me and wanted nothing to do with me. Now we are talking again buit we haven't discussed me being pregnant or our relationship or anything. I've come up and told him flat out"i love you" and he just didn't care now it's been 2 days and we have not talked or anything. No teats nothing.
How do I get him to talk about what is going on or what we are going to do?
Why would he say those things if they weren't true especially if we were 'best friends'?
What do I do if he really doesn't care? (I've been known to get extremely depressed and suicidal)
What do I do with the kid?
Do all guys want relationships with their children?
I'm coach surfing right now I can't raise a child in that condition Can I nicely force him into helping me?
What do I do now?
How do you tell if a guy is hitting on you
I was out with a couple of friends and I am pretty sure my friends boyfriend was hitting on me. He was really flirty kept texting me and when all 7 of us pack into the car I was practically forced to sit on his lap and he kept touching me and like rubbing on me. What are othwer signs of guys hitting gon a chick and how do you tell if a guy is hitting on you
The ex boy friend confussion
OK I guess I'll just dive in and tell you. Lol. OK I was with this guy for two years and we broke up because of the way he treated me. It was a big love huge love the good love. We broke up in August of 2008 and ever since it's been on again off again. Recently I filed a restraining order because my current boyfriend wouldn't shut up. We think that he shot out chris' window in his truck. And before he had kicked in the front door at chris' house. There were many ups and down in our relationship but looking back now all I remember was the good stuff the stuff that would be love. For example laying in the hammock for hours on end staring at the blue sky and talking about the future. And time we went to the lake and played for hours on end looking at each other with such love and understanding. Why I gave it up I'm not exactly sure. Maybe it was when we moved in together things went wrong. I did all the cooking all the cleaning yeah we went out and had fun but looking back cleaning wasn't bad niether was cooking I think it was maybe the fact that he expected me to do it. Or maybe it was the arguments and him hitting things when we got into fights. I mean at least it wasn't me. I'm so confussed and I hate being with the guy I am with right now. But if I leave him I cna't go back to the other because of the restraining order and if I do it gets lifted and not there when I need it. I'm so confussed what do I do? I need another perspective on the relationship an un bias opinion. Kind of hearing only my side makes it a little bias already
I need assitance with a couple things
I have no idea where to start when it comes to starting over and dumping my boyfriend. I mean I really don't have any idea where to start I wish there was like a guide to starting over. This is what I want to accomplish.
1. I want to get rid of crazy ex boyfriend even though I already have a PPO (personal protection order) on him. He's getting people to call my phone constantly and it's keeping me up all hours of the night. Not to mention he is trying to appeal the order and in which case he can follow me stalk me etc.
2. I want to get rid of my current boyfriend. He's clingy, obsessive, annoying, talks too much, nothing attractive about him, enjoys nothing but video games and being lazy and being with him I've gained 30 lbs because he's not active what so ever and doesn't let me leave the house.
3. I want to move but I don't have a job both of these guys know where I live and can come over at any time. I just can't say no. For those of you reading some of my other post it's the suicidal current boyfriend and the abusive ex. My parents are dead to me thought I could clear that up and no I'm not pregnant I did end up beating up the guy who played his game on me. I want to move over an hour away to be closer to a guy I am really interested in. but it sounds weird but he did tell me that dating him would be hard because of the distance.I wish he would just tell me f I moved if we would start dating. Oh did I mention I don't have a car or my license because current boyfriend forgot to pay my ticket that was his fault.
I'm so confused and don't know what to do.
Please help