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  • Jun 8, 2008, 05:20 PM
    levipuppy
    First kiss
    Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 1 week
    And I don't know if I should kiss him on the lips or on the cheek?
    Can someone help
  • Jun 8, 2008, 05:43 PM
    ChihuahuaMomma
    How old are you? I would do what is most comfortable... don't do something just because other people are, or tell you to.
  • Jun 8, 2008, 07:04 PM
    jrsg
    Wow, I just saw on your profile that your 11 years old...

    I didn't even have my first girlfriend until 14. Well, anyway, do what you feel most comfortable with.
    Don't kiss him because you see it in the movies, or hear about it in songs. Do it because you want to feel closer to him, and want a stronger relationship. If that is what you want, then do whatever you feel comfortable with.

    ... kids are growing up so quick these days
    I say that, even though I'm 16. :)
  • Jun 8, 2008, 07:09 PM
    ChihuahuaMomma
    I was 11 when me and my first boyfriend started dating. We were 13 when we shared our first kiss. We were together for 7 years, until we graduated high school and started separate lives.

    I would honestly suggest doing what is most comfortable for the both of you. If you are worried about when the right time is, wait for him to intiate the kiss, then that worry goes away.
  • Jun 8, 2008, 07:37 PM
    koolhawk
    If your ready give it a shot
  • Jun 8, 2008, 08:03 PM
    jrsg
    Wow, ChihauhuaMomma, your first relationship lasted longer than most marriages...
    That's quite the achievement.
  • Jun 8, 2008, 08:16 PM
    Baby-_-Girl-_-19
    My question is what is causing your uncertianty; from the way you worded your question it seems to me you're trying to base your decision on what other people think; not neccisarily us on here but just in general. Honestly I will tell you like I've told others on here, if you're asking like that you already know the awnser as for what's best for you but your STILL uncertian. Do what's best for you, if you think you should kiss him on the lips be my guest, if you'd rather just kiss him on the cheek that's fine to; when it comes to ANY type of relationship no matter how old you are, go at the pace your comfortable with; heck if your this conflicted maybe neither is a good solution maybe you should just wait it out for a little bit and see how much you REALLY like this boy.
  • Jun 9, 2008, 02:54 PM
    ChihuahuaMomma
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jrsg
    Wow, ChihauhuaMomma, your first relationship lasted longer than most marriages...
    Thats quite the achievment.

    Haha, yeah, high school sweethearts... awwwwww...
  • Jun 9, 2008, 10:40 PM
    andy305mia
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by levipuppy
    me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 1 week
    and i dont know if i should kiss him on the lips or on the cheek?
    can someone help

    Lol this is puppy love you got to kiss him its going to be the happiest day of your life when you kiss him on the lips.
  • Jun 9, 2008, 11:15 PM
    ChihuahuaMomma
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by andy305mia
    lol this is puppy love u got to kiss him its going to be the happiest day of ur life wen u kiss him on the lips.

    LOL... I highly doubt that, maybe her life so far, and that's still a stretch.
  • Jun 9, 2008, 11:32 PM
    JBeaucaire
    I think you should kiss him on the altar.
  • Jun 10, 2008, 12:04 AM
    ChihuahuaMomma
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by JBeaucaire
    I think you should kiss him on the altar.

    Are you suggesting 11-year olds get marrried? ;)
  • Jun 10, 2008, 08:22 AM
    JBeaucaire
    No, silly... (pokes you)... I'm being funny and saying wait and kiss your man at the altar when you ARE getting married years from now... I know that ain't going to happen, but you know me, no joke too small... I thought it was cute play on words.

    Kiss 'em on the cheek?
    Kiss 'em on the mouth?
    No, kiss 'em on the patio.
  • Jun 10, 2008, 10:48 AM
    ChihuahuaMomma
    I know JB! I was playing along! To the OP, like I said, just go with the flow.
  • Jul 9, 2008, 03:35 PM
    Alty
    Eleven year olds kissing? Seriously folks, I'm moving to that cabin in the woods, taking my 9 year old turns 10 in September and my 5 year old 6 in August and moving where there are no neighbors. Home schooling, and isolation until they're 18! This scares the crap out of me.

    OP you're eleven, go play hopscotch or skip or something, NO KISSING! :)
  • Jul 9, 2008, 08:18 PM
    ChihuahuaMomma
    LOL, hopscotch is rad!! 1
  • Jul 9, 2008, 08:23 PM
    Alty
    Hopscotch rocks! :)
  • Jul 9, 2008, 08:24 PM
    ChihuahuaMomma
    What was that toy that you twist around your ankle and jump over? I loved those things! 1
  • Jul 9, 2008, 08:30 PM
    Alty
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    I remember those, they're called many things, look like this;

    Attachment 10043

    OP, buy one, use it, no kissing, wait a few years. :)
  • Jul 9, 2008, 08:35 PM
    ChihuahuaMomma
    YES! I loved those things. I want one. I liked the one that had a counter on it. I would make it surpass 5,000 every day. I loved those!
  • Jul 9, 2008, 08:38 PM
    Alty
    My generation didn't have the ones with counters, sigh. Are we hijacking this thread? Not again! :);)
  • Jul 9, 2008, 08:38 PM
    ISneezeFunny
    What the...

    ... what was I doing when I was 11?

    ... I think... I was still disappointed I couldn't be the white ranger.
  • Jul 9, 2008, 08:40 PM
    Alty
    I was playing with my barbie dolls. Boys were still yucky when I was 11. Ah, the good old days. :)
  • Jul 9, 2008, 08:43 PM
    ChihuahuaMomma
    Thread jackers!! I think that has more of a ring than Power Rangers! Either who's, I might be a tad younger than you, but I don't even know how old you are so I don't know. I had one with a counter on it. I was around 12 though. When I was 11 I was dating someone, but we didn't kiss until 14, and dated until 17.
  • Jul 9, 2008, 08:44 PM
    ISneezeFunny
    Who me?

    My first kiss... was when I was 13. I was ambushed by a girl named Amy.

    My first girlfriend... was when I was 15. Again, ambushed.
  • Jul 9, 2008, 08:50 PM
    theguywithnolife
    Single my Entire life o.o

    But I'm not going to worry about it, Girls at my school have rabies and crabs
  • Jul 9, 2008, 08:51 PM
    ISneezeFunny
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by theguywithnolife
    But I'm not going to worry about it, Girls at my school have rabies and crabs

    My initial reaction to this: :eek:

    My second reaction: ::under my breath:: both rabies AND crabs.. that's kind of hard to do...
  • Jul 9, 2008, 09:11 PM
    ChihuahuaMomma
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by theguywithnolife
    Single my Entire life o.o

    But I'm not going to worry about it, Girls at my school have rabies and crabs

    Being single your entire life when you're 15 isn't too difficult. But sounds like you have some pretty adventurous girls at your school!
  • Jul 9, 2008, 09:56 PM
    Alty
    Kids, we might scare the OP. I think we already went too far. ;)
  • Jul 9, 2008, 09:57 PM
    ChihuahuaMomma
    How about you guys just hug and then go play wall ball... That game is rad too!
  • Jul 9, 2008, 09:59 PM
    Alty
    Now I'm showing my age. Wall ball?
  • Jul 9, 2008, 10:02 PM
    ISneezeFunny
    Oh goodness alty.

    Wall Ball - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

    And chi too... rad?!
  • Jul 9, 2008, 10:02 PM
    ChihuahuaMomma
    Wall Ball - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
  • Jul 9, 2008, 10:04 PM
    ChihuahuaMomma
    Are you mocking me for saying "rad"?
  • Jul 9, 2008, 10:04 PM
    ISneezeFunny
    What can I say... we're googling fiends.
  • Jul 9, 2008, 10:05 PM
    Alty
    Ah, yes, wall ball, nope, no, never heard of it. :(
  • Jul 9, 2008, 10:08 PM
    ChihuahuaMomma
    Wow.
  • Jul 9, 2008, 10:10 PM
    Alty
    It's sad, but true. I'm 37, that's a way different generation than you 20 something's. :)
  • Jul 9, 2008, 10:12 PM
    ISneezeFunny
    ALTY! You let your secret out!!

    ... besides, 40's the new 30... which means you're 27.. . not too far off, eh?
  • Jul 9, 2008, 10:13 PM
    ChihuahuaMomma
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by ISneezeFunny
    ALTY! you let your secret out!!!

    ...besides, 40's the new 30...which means you're 27. ...not too far off, eh?

    But this theory I'm 12... I don't like this...

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