Ask Me Help Desk - Love Problems. Answer!

Love Problems. Answer!

Well. It's quite a long story. I only want people ages 10-14 answering PLEASE. OK, here goes the long story, make sure you read it all please.

I was in the 4th grade a new boy came in the school, and everyone in the girl's bathroom said he was oh sooo hot [i haven't seen him yet.]I was like "no way" and I looked out that bathroom door and my heart jumped and I fell in love from looking at him. I fell on the floor and I said slowly "oh my god." "he is so hottt" So I kept bugging his lttle brother poking him and saying "your brothers hawt" and stuff so finally Lawrence [the hot guy was lawrence]wrote me a sweet note asking me out and I said yes and we were off and on through 5th grade. But before I get there I have to tell you something. He was my first kiss. He was just ohh myy godd he was my 1st love,my 1st boyfriend,my 1st hold hands,my 1st make out,my 1st kiss. God. I love him. But as the days went by and the months then years. In November of 5th grade I was devatated to hear he had to transfer schools. I cried all night. After he moved everything was dull in my neighboorhood. My school was dull. Everything was blah. Now. We are in middle school. [7th grade now] he claims this never happened and he HATES MY GUTS. HE CALLS ME NAMES AND HURTS MY FEELINGS. I am so confused and I already tried talking to him and his friends and the counselors! I don't know what to do now so if you could PLEASE give me some advice on what to do :(

I have a good answer, but apparently I am not allowed because I am not 10-14. Shucks.

I had a good one too, but because I am older than 10 - 14 I can't answer. Maybe I could wake my 13 year old daughter up. LOL

Hun, this is a public board and anybody can answer most any question.

Consider that us older ladies may have some very interesting advice for you, well since we have already been there, done that, and got the t-shirt.

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Originally Posted by Carolyn_Emma

Well. it's quite a long story. i only want people ages 10-14 answering PLEASE. ok, here goes the long story, make sure you read it all please.

I was in the 4th grade a new boy came in the school, and everyone in the girl's bathroom said he was oh sooo hot [i havent seen him yet.]i was like "no way" and i looked out that bathroom door and my heart jumped and i fell in love from looking at him. i fell on the floor and i said slowly "oh my god." "he is so hottt" So i kept bugging his lttle brother poking him and saying "your brothers hawt" and stuff so finally Lawrence [the hot guy was lawrence]wrote me a sweet note asking me out and i said yes and we were off and on through 5th grade. but b4 i get there i have to tell you something. He was my first kiss. he was just ohh myy godd he was my 1st love,my 1st boyfriend,my 1st hold hands,my 1st make out,my 1st kiss. god. i love him. but as the days went by and the months then years. In November of 5th grade i was devatated to hear he had to transfer schools. i cried all night. after he moved everything was dull in my neighboorhood. my school was dull. everything was blah. now. we are in middle school. [7th grade now] he claims this never happened and he HATES MY GUTS. HE CALLS ME NAMES AND HURTS MY FEELINGS. i am so confused and i already tried talking to him and his friends and the counselors! idk what to do now so if you could PLEASE give me some advice on what to do :(

Well its been a few years I think u should just try be friends or something cause it sounds like he doesn't like you any more. But that was a really touching story

K if he's going to be a jerk like that find another guy or better yet show him you don't need a guy be single and super awsome! Lol honestly I'm 17 but I've been there iight and not long ago, but if I were dating a guy and we broke up and I missed him so bad then next time I talked to him my hopes would be up and I would be so happy because mabey we could get back together and then he was rude and hurt my feelings like that I would be like fine shows who the real loser is. P.S. your in 7th grade so many better guys are out there for you just wait and keep your standards up. Also I know your in the 7th grade so don't start rumors or get angrey or lose hope or get bummed out just seriously ignore the guy eventually you'll find a better guy. (its always the hotties that are a$$hole$)

J_9, there's a T-SHIRT?? No one told me! I got only a pair of kneesocks.

LMAO, WG!!

I think I still have the extra one I got, you can have it.

Arrrrgh, a used, hand-me-down one just wouldn't be the same!! (Hey, a 17 y/o answered this question. Aren't there consequences for that?? )

Geeze I hope not and I'm krista hii :D

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Arrrrgh, a used, hand-me-down one just wouldn't be the same!!! (Hey, a 17 y/o answered this question. Aren't there consequences for that????)

Nah, not used... still in the original wrapper. I just got an extra one. I'd just have to dust it off. LOL

(It's probably some yukky color.)

What's wrong with Pea green? LMAO!!

Well I'm an old hag and going to give my 2 cents anyway... you will have plenty of time to fall in love this was lust you are only in the 7th grade. You think dating is giving you problems now just wait for the good times to roll. Like Pat Benatar sings "love is a battlefield.

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Originally Posted by jrb252000

this was lust you are only in the 7th grade.

Lust or puppy love?

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Originally Posted by jrb252000

Like Pat Benatar sings "love is a battlefield.

I doubt she knows who Pat Benatar is. BUT I DO!! LOVE HER!!

Your first love is usually not your best love. Meaning there is better to come. Just sucks right now.

So move on. Don't spend another minute wasted on him. It was great at the moment. That moment is over. He's denying it cause its easier that dealing with pain.

By the way, some people do this when they are 30, not just 10 or 12 or whatever.

Awwwwe! The little girl thinks she is in love:)
Hunni listen, I thought I had found my first love at 11, despite the fact that he was 18 and worked for my aunt at the time and that he did not see me in any other way then little sister kind of way. Look, maybe you have found your first love but trust me, you're going to be getting over him prettty darn soon. When you get into high school, you're going to see that there are plenty of fish in the sea and you're abrely going to remember old whats-his-faces' name.
Just let it go and try finding someone new.:)

I'll make T-Shirts if I can join:p Haha!

Of course you can!

L0L! Of course not... they will come in every colour of the raindbow AND in black, white and 7 different shades of grey.:D

Sweet, can I pre-order a black one please?

Yes.. but I get the first black one....... black is my faourite shade.:cool:

Okay... you can... but I want #2 because your mi wife... and you would do that for me, right? Lol

Haha! Of course... dear?:p

Can we please get back to answering the girl's questions. As noted it is a public board, any age can actually answer, she was just hoping for someone of her age group.

Yay! :) its so nice being married now lol

But yeah back to the question...

Srry hun, I don want to go against your will... but I did have a good one :)

Sorry... but in all hoesty, what are the odds of someone 10-14 actually answering this question, let alone checking it out.

You have a point... but I am respecting the young ladies wishes...

I see your point J_9 but I just want to be nice and respect her wishes, but that's only my opinion! But back to the subject people :)

My appologies and I'll leave it...

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Originally Posted by Carolyn_Emma

Well. it's quite a long story. i only want people ages 10-14 answering PLEASE. ok, here goes the long story, make sure you read it all please.

I was in the 4th grade a new boy came in the school, and everyone in the girl's bathroom said he was oh sooo hot [i havent seen him yet.]i was like "no way" and i looked out that bathroom door and my heart jumped and i fell in love from looking at him. i fell on the floor and i said slowly "oh my god." "he is so hottt" So i kept bugging his lttle brother poking him and saying "your brothers hawt" and stuff so finally Lawrence [the hot guy was lawrence]wrote me a sweet note asking me out and i said yes and we were off and on through 5th grade. but b4 i get there i have to tell you something. He was my first kiss. he was just ohh myy godd he was my 1st love,my 1st boyfriend,my 1st hold hands,my 1st make out,my 1st kiss. god. i love him. but as the days went by and the months then years. In November of 5th grade i was devatated to hear he had to transfer schools. i cried all night. after he moved everything was dull in my neighboorhood. my school was dull. everything was blah. now. we are in middle school. [7th grade now] he claims this never happened and he HATES MY GUTS. HE CALLS ME NAMES AND HURTS MY FEELINGS. i am so confused and i already tried talking to him and his friends and the counselors! idk what to do now so if you could PLEASE give me some advice on what to do :(

Iya hunni yes I think he might not won't to bring up the past and he might of moved on but still likes you but there is a little part of him that tells him to move on so he is trying to be though to be kind if you get me don't worry hunni he will come roundto it in the end

Hun, you keep saying he is HAWT, but we haven't seen him yet, how do we know if he is really hawt or not!:D
U better show us his pic ,huh?;)

He sounds like a jerk move on and find a new guy. He's out there somewhere

Why thank you!

Its funny I'm 17 older then 10-14 age group and I gave advice so did what like 2 other people I guess there were no 10-14 yr olds