Excuse me but I don't monitor this site every minute. I've just read your response and now I will say my piece. You just helped me prove, yet again, how immature you are. You let me shame and goad you into answering my questions. Not only that but you answered the one question I agreed you didn't have to. And you didn't answer one of the key questions; What are you going to do when she goes back to the UK.

Now I will deal with the info you did provide. I won't respond to her medical condition because I don't know enough about it to judge. But you have known her only two months. That is hardly enough time for anyone to know they are truly in love, especially children like you. You met her in a romantic setting and that probably influenced you a bit. But it is totally clear that you are rushing into something you shouldn't even be considering. Let her go back to the UK. Keep in touch with her as a friend. When she is 16 or, better yet, older and you want to pursue a romantic relationship, then and only then should you consider such a relationship.



Me: first of all, stop calling us children, I know it's what we are, but it makes us look less intelegent than we are, and secondly, when she heads back to the uk I plan to stay in touch online and try to make it work.

Girl: I agree with you in a sense, but when I head back to the uk I will also be trying to keep in contact with him online

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me: first of all, stop calling us children, I know it's what we are, but it makes us look less intelegent than we are, and secondly, when she heads back to the uk I plan to stay in touch online and try to make it work.

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You aren't as intelligent (notice the spelling) as you think you are. Calling you children isn't an insult. You are children, and not nearly as wise as you think you are.

And I agree you should keep in contact, AS FRIENDS, nothing more.

Being children has nothing to do with intelligence, but it has everything to do with experience. And without experience intelligence doesn't help much. As you admit, you ARE children. So I will refer to you as what you are.

I think you may be a depressed young man who is taking advantage of a depressed and ill child and trying your best to justify what you are doing.
You know you are wrong which is why you don't want your parents to know, perhaps you don't want them to know because you have done this before.
What you are doing is wrong and dysfunctional. Your attraction to this child is sick and I hope you have not touched her already and are trying to see if you are not going to be in trouble when her mother finds out.

I think you know exactly what you are doing and if you have touched this child I hope you get what's coming to you. If you haven't I hope you have the sense to leave her alone and get some help for yourself. This attachment you have to this child is not normal.

And I agree you should keep in contact, AS FRIENDS, nothing more.

Being children has nothing to do with intelligence, but it has everything to do with experience. And without experience intelligence doesn't help much. As you admit, you ARE children. So I will refer to you as what you are.


Me: does that mean I should start referring to you as a ****, cause that's what you are? And if we want to continue this relationship online then we have every right to. As far as the laws concerned an online relationship is meaningless.

Girl:we'll stay friends until I'm 16, it's my choice

-homegirl

Me: I haven't touched her, and the reason I came to this site is to learn what our rights are, but then I had to put up with people like you that automaticaly assume that I am some sex crazy, horemone filled teen, who only thinks about one thing. Did you ever stop to think that not every teen guy is the same?

Girl: were not dating we were considering it but we will stay friends until I'm 16/18 and well date and no he haven't touched me

I don't think you ought to keep in touch with this child at all.
You need to leave her alone. I don't think her communicating with you will be good for her. You have intruded on her growing up process enough. You have her doing things she has no business doing and you know this.
You have problems and you know it, you just don't want to own it. That or you're hiding something.

Instead of kissing and cuddling ("no he haven't touched me"), please spend time working on your spelling and grammar.

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me: i haven't touched her, and the reason i came to this site is to learn what our rights are, but then i had to put up with people like you that automaticaly assume that i am some sex crazy, horemone filled teen, who only thinks about one thing. did you ever stop to think that not every teen guy is the same?

girl: were not dating we were considering it but we will stay friends until im 16/18 and well date and no he haven't touched me

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If you are as smart as you think you are you would have found out what the law says about this on your own.
So are we now to believe she is right there with you?
I cannot believe you have no clue that a 16 year old messing with an 11 year old is messed up. But this is why your parents don't know.
I didn't say you are sexed crazed I said you have a problem, that you are taking advantage of a child, and you are. At 16 you should know better and I think you do.

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me: does that mean I should start referring to you as a ****, cause that's what you are? And if we want to continue this relationship online then we have every right to. As far as the laws concerned an online relationship is meaningless.

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It depends on what you do and say online.

Wondergirl-

Me: okay yes I messed that grammar up a bit, what's your point, I can't be expected to be perfect at everything I do

Homegirl-

Me: I'll admit it's strange, but I will not say that it's messed up. Following how you feel isn't messed up and any reasonable person would realize that

Girl: it's my choice as much as it is his.

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me: okay yes i messed that grammer up a bit, what's your point, i can't be expected to be perfect at everything i do

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But I was quoting "girl". So that was really you?

Grammer is grammar

You are far from perfect when it comes to grammar and spelling! And you're 16?

Where do you do the kissing and cuddling and deep conversations? At her house? When her mom is there?

Messed that grammar up a bit* sorry I'm laging

I repeat: But I was quoting "girl". So that was really you?

And even after being corrected, you can't spell "grammar" (or lagging) correctly?

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But I was quoting "girl". So that was really you?

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What about this part?

Are you pretending to be her, posting as her?

Wondergirl-

Me: I'm typing for her when she tells me wants to say. We have not kissed, we wanted to be e sure of the laws before we did anything like that. By the way, I'm rushing my sentances, so I can be expected to make mistakes.

And so everyone knows, this is her las day here in Australia, she goes tomorrow, so leave us alone. We'll go about this relationship however we agree on

Stop rushing and show us that you're as smart as you claim to be. Intelligence does including being able to spell properly.

By the way, it's sentences, not sentances.

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and so everyone knows, this is her las day here in Australia, she goes tomorrow, so leave us alone. we'll go about this relationship however we agree on

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Leave you alone?

If you no longer want to talk about this, stop posting. You have the option to walk away any time you want to.

Get over it. But from everything I've seen while I've been here, it's that people seem to have a problem getting over things

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Admit it, you didn't come here for advice, you came here expecting someone to tell you that what you're doing isn't wrong, because deep down you know it is.

You don't like being told that you're wrong.

What exactly should I "get over"? Your atrocious spelling, the fact that you seem intent on using an 11 year old?

You posted, you told us what's going on. We told you the truth, and we told you why it's wrong. You either accept that, move on, learn, do the right thing, or you act like a child, do what you want, and suffer the consequences.

The fact that you won't listen just proves once and for all that you're not as mature as you claim. A mature person would actually listen to what wiser people have to say. A mature person would walk away from a potentially illegal situation. A mature person wouldn't try to have a romantic relationship with a child.

You are far from mature.

You brought all of us into this mess. The sad fact is, we do care. We care about the damage you will do to this 11 year old child. We won't walk away from this, because you need to have it drilled into your head that what you're doing is WRONG! If that means repeating it over and over again, so be it.

Where do you do the kissing and cuddling and deep conversations? At her house? When her mom is there?

Following how you feel can be very messed up. Charles Manson followed how he felt. Hitler followed how he felt.