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You asked me what I thought and I told you. She has not said she is done but that does not mean that once all of this blows over she won't be. There is too much drama in this relationship for it to continue.
This is just my opinion

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It's drama with her family not wanting her to be with me

The drama is there no matter where it comes from. How long have you two been dating?

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The drama is there no matter where it comes from. How long have you two been dating?

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A year and 6 months and the love is so strong

How long have you been having problems with her family? So you started dating her when she was 14 or so, almost 15? She does not even know who she is. This relationship is too intense. You need some growing up time.

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How long have you been having problems with her family? So you started dating her when she was 14 or so, almost 15? She does not even know who she is. This relationship is too intense. You need some growing up time.

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Ever since last summer when they found out we had relations.. She was only in trouble for a little bit but got her phone back and everything. And we were dating when she was 15 and I was 16.. And that's a long relationship and I don't know why your trying to turn on me when I'm just talking about my feelings...

I'm not turning on you. You asked my opinion. Just because it is not what you want to hear it does mean I'm turning on you. I just want you to be prepared and think realistically.

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[QUOTE=noko2149;3166329]Ever since last summer when they found out we had relations.. She was only in trouble for a little bit but got her phone back and everything. And we were dating when she was 15 and I was 16.. And that's a long relationship and I don't know why your trying to turn on me when I'm just talking about my feelings... [/QUOTE
So when did her dad file charges against you? There is a lot of drama here

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Ever since last summer when they found out we had relations.. She was only in trouble for a lil bit but got her phone back and everything. and we were dating when she was 15 and I was 16.. And that's a long relationship and I don't know why your trying to turn on me when I'm just talking about my feelings ...[/QUOTE
so when did her dad file charges against you? There is a lot of drama here

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I am.. I'm out I'll contact you later

Have fun

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Have fun

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My girl friend called me

Good!

You and she's willing to work things out and everything

Good. Did you ask her about the charges filed?

Is she going to be able to see and talk to you freely?

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Is she going to be able to see and talk to you freely?

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We couldn't talk for long because her family was around her and she was whispering.. But she did say that she isn't mad at me or anything. She just doesn't want to get us in trouble and that she loves and still wants me and everything but seeing each other, we have to see what happens in court but her and I are on the same page and everything and both are relieved.

Good.
Have a good evening.

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Good.
Have a good evening.

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Can I hit u up tomorrow

Are you surprised that she called?

Not really. I think you two need to be careful. You still have these charges against you. In fact I think you need to not communicate at all until this is settled. This is really a mess.

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Not really. I think you two need to be careful. You still have these charges against you. In fact I think you need to not communicate at all until this is settled. This is really a mess.

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I am being careful. It just feels good to know that she never gave up or anything and loves and wants me and wants to work things out. But I know we still have court but I know it's not going to get between us. When she had called, she seemed upset and was whispering on the phone and she was telling me that she has been in hell and I asked her what do you mean been in hell? And then the call hung up and I'm thinking she had to hide from her parents... But I know everything isn't 100% yet.

Well I'm glad she called. Maybe you will relax a little bit.

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Well I'm glad she called. Maybe you will relax a little bit.

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I am it's just a lot going on.. What could you have think she was talking about when she said that she's been in hell?

I don't know. Maybe her parents are talking about you, maybe she misses you. I don't know.
Stop wondering so much. She called you, now chill out a bit.

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I don't know. Maybe her parents are talking about you, maybe she misses you. I don't know.
Stop wondering so much. She called you, now chill out a bit.

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..? I was just asking a question...

And I'm just saying... stop thinking so much about it.

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And I'm just saying...stop thinking so much about it.

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I won't be though.

It will be hard I know but at least you know where you stand with her. So just remember that thought and stop thinking about the negative.

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It will be hard I know but at least you know where you stand with her. So just remember that thought and stop thinking about the negative.

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I will just praying that this court thing will go smooth

If your girl friend tells the truth, and Im sure she will, it should be OK.

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If your girl friend tells the truth, and Im sure she will, it should be OK.

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I'm sure she would because she wouldn't have talked to me last night if she wasn't on the same page as me

I'm sure she would because she wouldn't have talked to me last night if she wasn't on the same page as me

I'm sure she would because she wouldn't have talked to me last night if she wasn't on the same page as me

Well there you go. Stop worrying about your place with her.

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Well there you go. Stop worrying about your place with her.

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Why do u think I'm worrying

Because you keep bringing this up.
Go out and have fun.

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Because you keep bringing this up.
Go out and have fun.

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Couldn't go out today cause of the storm.. But I didn't mean to keep bringing it up like that.

That's OK. I just don't want you to dwell on this. Think positive

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That's OK. I just don't want you to dwell on this. Think positive

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I will.. I'm about to go fishing with my friend I'll talk to u in a few

OK. Enjoy yourself

So around 10:50 last night when I was fishing with my friend, there was a cop shining his spot like in front of the houses down my street and he stopped at my house and got out the car and gave my dad the court papers and it said that I have court on the 9th of July.. Which is the day before me and my girlfriends anniversary... :(