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  • Jan 7, 2006, 04:53 PM
    nwsflash
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by andydude88
    Uh hey I always thought guys didn't shave unless they were gay or something. It's just wrong and weird. One kid says he does that but I think he's just joking. Says it prevents crabs or something.

    But anyway I'm wondering if it's about time to start shaving because it's getting rather long. I always used to think pubic hair just grew like half an inch or less and then just kind of stopped, but it seems be going quite alot more than that. Also, the hair seems to be growing almost halfway up the shaft of the penis. That's not normal is it? Occasionally it does itch but I'd rather not shave it and keep being manly.

    Sometimes it interferes in oral sex and or masturbation because the hair is so long it gets caught and hurts slightly. Perhaps I should just trim it down halfway or so. But if I start doing that it'll grow faster and longer, which I don't want...

    Only you can make your mind up which way to go, for me I think its go with what your happy with... Regards the long hair thing, like going to get your hair cut you could always just trim every now and again! I mean at home not at the hair dressers lol :D they may not be too happy trimming there
  • Jan 7, 2006, 05:11 PM
    andydude88
    Yeah I know what you mean

    I just hate when it gets too tangled but that's sort of what its supposed to be

    I mean who combs their pubic hair haha?

    It's the only part of the body that's curly everything else is really straight

    But anyway ill figure out what to do

    In regards to leg shaving ill never do that. I know some people who are on the swim team do that to be more "hydrodynamic" and faster in water
  • Jan 7, 2006, 05:15 PM
    nwsflash
    Agreed
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by andydude88
    yeah i know what you mean

    i just hate when it gets too tangled but thats sort of what its supposed to be

    i mean who combs their pubic hair haha?

    its the only part of the body that's curly everything else is really straight

    but anyway ill figure out what to do

    in regards to leg shaving ill never do that. i know some people who are on the swim team do that to be more "hydrodynamic" and faster in water

    I have to agree I'm with you on the shaving thing, but it does not make it wrong if people do -- its down to what ever we feel happy doing --

    I had my legs waxed once for charity and I'm a hairy dude, lord god I thought I was going to die with all the itching as it grew back, would never, ever have it done again :D
  • Jan 10, 2006, 01:34 PM
    smoothy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by andydude88
    Uh hey I always thought guys didn't shave unless they were gay or something. It's just wrong and weird. One kid says he does that but I think he's just joking. Says it prevents crabs or something.

    But anyway I'm wondering if it's about time to start shaving because it's getting rather long. I always used to think pubic hair just grew like half an inch or less and then just kind of stopped, but it seems be going quite alot more than that. Also, the hair seems to be growing almost halfway up the shaft of the penis. That's not normal is it? Occasionally it does itch but I'd rather not shave it and keep being manly.

    Sometimes it interferes in oral sex and or masturbation because the hair is so long it gets caught and hurts slightly. Perhaps I should just trim it down halfway or so. But if I start doing that it'll grow faster and longer, which I don't want...

    It doesn't grow any faster or thicker if you cut or shave it... I've been doing it for over 15 years and its no thicker than it was before... thats an old wives tale... don't fall for this "its gay" thing... lots of Hetero guys do it and the ladies love it...
  • Jan 10, 2006, 01:37 PM
    smoothy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by nwsflash
    I have to agree im with you on the shaving thing, but it does not make it wrong if people do -- its down to what ever we feel happy doing --

    I had my legs waxed once for charity and im a hairy dude, lord god I thought I was going to die with all the itching as it grew back, would never, ever have it done again :D

    it itches worse shaving than waxing... from my experience... could just be a sensitivity to the shave cream however... I use my wife's depelitory machine... becasue it stays smooth longer and doesn't itch at all when it starts to grow in. Besides... wife loves it... no razor stuffle to iritate her face and no hair to gag her...
  • Jan 10, 2006, 02:18 PM
    nwsflash
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by smoothy
    it itches worse shaving than waxing......from my experience....could just be a sensitivity to the shave cream however....I use my wifes depelitory machine....becasue it stays smooth longer and doesn't itch at all when it starts to grow in. Besides...wife loves it...no razor stuffle to iritate her face and no hair to gag her.....

    I would love to say I would give it another go, but I'm a once biten, twice shy kind of guy LoL :p And its cool where I live you got to keep all the hair you got's to keep you warm.
  • Jan 11, 2006, 05:52 AM
    smoothy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by nwsflash
    I would love to say I would give it another go, but im a once biten, twice shy kinda guy LoL :p And its cool where I live you gotta keep all the hair you got's to keep you warm.

    Number one thing is do what YOU like... not what you think others expect you to do. This isn't high school and what others might think really doesn't matter. True its not extremely common among guys but that is changing... If YOU like it and your girlfriend/wife likes it that's all that matters... its not like tattooing your face... it does grow back if you get tired of it. Trick is giving it a chance try it for a few months... then base your decision.. most guys.. me in particular appreciate a smooth kitty on our woman a lot.. I hate stray hairs in my mouth with a passion... and it wouldn't be any different for her.
  • Jan 17, 2006, 11:20 AM
    SHAVED
    Shavin Pubic Hair
    Hi Guys,
    I am shaving my pubic hair on every two weeks. Shaving keeps the area neet and clean. I love to have a clean pubic area so I can apply some moisturizers there too. When I have sex with my wife who is also shaving it regularly we feel very comfortable. It is easy to clean if you have clean shaved area. That part gets dirty very quickly and if you grow a jungle there where some ladies wants play on the jungle. It will smell like a rotten place. You may tell that you are taking bath and using soap or shampoos but it is easy to get perspired if you are in a hot country.
    Then this issue is strictly personal. It is not necessary that all other guys in the world should like my idea of shaving the pubic area on a bi-weekly basis. Some might shave there on a weekly basis, some on a monthly basis, some on a yearly basis and some others never. So those who shave and keep that area clean continue and enjoy a clean shaved pubic area and those are not shaving also continue as usual.
  • Jan 17, 2006, 11:27 AM
    priscilla2006
    Well I am female and I shave mine. It makes me feel way cleaner. I prefer men who keep theirs shaved as well BUT only if they plan on keeping it shaved on a daily basis. If a man doesn't keep it shaved on a daily basis where it is nice and smooth... let me tell you from experience it can be slightly uncomfortable for a woman. It pokes and it hurts! Everyone is different though. Just because one woman may like a man that is shaved, another woman may prefer the JUNGLE!
  • Jan 17, 2006, 12:57 PM
    smoothy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by priscilla2006
    Well i am female and i shave mine. It makes me feel way cleaner. I prefer men who keep theirs shaved as well BUT only if they plan on keeping it shaved on a daily basis. If a man doesnt keep it shaved on a daily basis where it is nice and smooth............let me tell you from experience it can be slightly uncomfortable for a woman. It pokes and it hurts!! Everyone is different though. Just because one woman may like a man that is shaved, another woman may prefer the JUNGLE!

    Mmmmmm where where you before I got married... :)

    Wife grew to like it however but took a few years of proding to get her to do it (like 10 years worth), now she keeps it that way on her own... and .now she askes me to do it and I happily oblige her... I like it anyway, so I have zero problems with it... even better in the summer as its cooler and itches less.
  • Jan 18, 2006, 07:51 AM
    bizygurl
    From a girl's view, I've seen both on a guy and I really don't care either way. It looks sexy to me, shaved not shaved? Im not really focusing on the hair when Im looking at that area,lol! As for me, I can't stand having hair down there so yeah, I shave it and I shaved it for so long that it doesn't really bother me (itching) when it growns in a little. Plus the sensation during sex is more intense if its shaved, for me at least. I can't believe I'm even posting this, lol
  • Jan 23, 2006, 09:00 AM
    rustynail
    Glad you did!
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by bizygurl
    From a girl's view, Iv seen both on a guy and I really don't care either way. It looks sexy to me, shaved not shaved? Im not really focusing on the hair when Im looking at that area,lol! As for me, I can't stand having hair down there so yeah, I shave it and I shaved it for so long that it doesn't really bother me (itching) when it growns in a little. Plus the sensation during sex is more intense if its shaved, for me at least. I can't believe im even posting this, lol

    Glad you posted. A while back I was trying to let folks know that ones sexual experience can be more intense if one is free of hair. Soft skin against soft skin is great and when the juices flow... what excitement:eek:
  • Jan 26, 2006, 10:45 PM
    jipoes
    Shave what??
    What if you don't have a hair to shave at your public area?? :confused: :confused: :confused: :confused:

    http://n.domaindlx.com/jsilangit
  • Jan 27, 2006, 07:05 AM
    rustynail
    Interesting
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jipoes
    What if you don't have a hair to shave at your public area????:confused: :confused: :confused: :confused:

    http://n.domaindlx.com/jsilangit

    I would have to say it would depend on your gender. Some of us males who shave would consider that a good thing. Females who shave would think its great.

    But I guess my question to you is how did you come by no hair there:rolleyes:
  • Jan 27, 2006, 07:07 AM
    bizygurl
    Yeah, how is it that you have no hair down there?
  • Jan 27, 2006, 07:11 AM
    JoeCanada76
    Okay, shaved it once or twice. Its not a good idea. It gets all itchy and irratated.
  • Jan 27, 2006, 07:13 AM
    smoothy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by bizygurl
    yeah, how is it that you have no hair down there?

    I knew a guy in the Army that had a profile... (medical issue) he had no hair... no eyebrows, no eyelashes, no body hair no facial hair, nothing anywhere...


    Whenyou sweat it runs into your eyes... no eyebrows or eyelashes to deflect it.
  • Jan 27, 2006, 07:13 AM
    nymphetamine
    I have heard of people not having hair down there even though they are grown. I know a guy who can't even grow any hair on his legs. Im not sure what causes it.
  • Jan 27, 2006, 07:18 AM
    bizygurl
    Actually I'm not sure if this would work for a guy, I don't see why it wouldn't but, I use to shave with regular shaving cream but when I would it would really itch and get irratated, so I heard somewhere that it was good to shave with regular hair conditioner. It suppose to give you a cleaner shave and moissturizes the skin down there so it doesn't get irratated. And it has worked for me.

    There is a product on the market for woman called Coochie Cream, usually you buy it a sex novelty parties or at adult stores, but that's basically what it is, it has the same stuff as conditioner does. Just a little FYI for you fellaz, if your having irratation problems.
    I think its worth it, like I said I think it looks hot when a guy shaves down there. I think maybe a lot of girls ilke it.;)
  • Jan 27, 2006, 05:20 PM
    jipoes
    Grass Grow around palm tree
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by baldcock
    I would have to say it would depend on your gender. Some of us males who shave would consider that a good thing. Females who shave would think its great.

    But I guess my question to you is how did you come by no hair there:rolleyes:

    I don't know how it haven't.:confused: It just no grass grow around the palm tree.:rolleyes:
  • Jan 27, 2006, 06:19 PM
    jipoes
    What Expert Says About Public Hair
    Just an opinion, but it seems likely that in the areas where body hair remains it is to retain odour and so to concentrate pheromones.

    Gordon, South Shields, Tyne and Wear

    Source:

    http://trilili.cjb.net
  • Feb 2, 2006, 09:03 PM
    joshd28
    Yea I'm 15 and I shaved my whole pubic region the other day it looks so much better and my **** looks bigger and my girlfriend likes it.if I wer you I would shave my whole pubic region including balls and shaft:)
  • Feb 10, 2006, 12:51 AM
    Jimbob51
    Well, I guess I might be one of the oldest guys to post on this topic, but here goes. I'm 54 and have been shaving my balls and around the base of my **** for years. It DOES make me look bigger, is more comfortable especially in warm weather, and I don't sweat as much down there. AND my wife loves it! We've recently gone to using a new triple-blade Venus razor by Gillette; it's great! Since it has a pivoting head and flexible blades that have never nicked or cut me. I bought it so I could shave my wife better, since she was really bugged by razor burn from time to time; since using the Venus, she more responsive in EVERY way (woohoo! ) and she can shave as a prelude to our lovemaking instead of it being a chore (not really) prior to us having fun. Give the Venus a try! Oh, yeah, she and I leave matching little crops above our equipment, so we're not totally shaved, but the sex (oral & otherwise) is the best we've had in years!
  • Feb 10, 2006, 01:02 PM
    sunnyblonde
    Well, Iam a female in my thirties and for myself, I love to be shaved. The only thing that drives me crazy is it still itches sometimes. As far as for my man, I have to say that I do like it trimmed rather than shaved.:)
  • Feb 10, 2006, 01:12 PM
    spyyder
    Ok I've tried (by 'tried', I mean still frequently do :) ) doing this loads. But here is the main thing... it itches so much (and you've attempting to do this on your balls..? :eek: ).

    Most women like it trimmed (based on my experience - unless it's the kind of women that like womanish looking men... I've got clue about that part), but obviously you don't want it to look like you've trimmed it (unless you're a shaggy fan) because then it seems quite homosexual.

    I've been thinking of getting laser hair removal on that part.. but I've been told that its not possible on balls = probably will sugar strip it off.

    But still... your 15... shouldn't be thinking about this stuff :cool:

    But anyway... go for sugar stripping it off (or using an epiliator.. not sure if that's the right spelling but... it's a device that rips hair from the root).. but remember to put ice to numb your skin in that area of pain before doing any of the stuff I've just said.
  • Feb 10, 2006, 01:14 PM
    giggles
    For the love of god don't use sugaring on your testicles as suggested! It's like wax and will hurt A LOT. Not that I know too much about testicle pain, being female!
  • Feb 10, 2006, 01:25 PM
    nwsflash
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by giggles
    for the love of god don't use sugaring on your testicles as suggested!! it's like wax and will hurt A LOT. Not that I know too much about testicle pain, being female!

    Don't use sugaring on your testicles --->> That would KILL <<---:(
    Put it like this you would be in some real pain and may even end up in the E.R:confused:
  • Feb 10, 2006, 01:25 PM
    DrJ
    I agree!! I would NEVER do that! I shave/trim and have for years. An electric razor with the right extension works just fine.

    I have even waxed there (no, not on the testicles, for the love of God! Lol) but close enough. Not worth it... besides, you have to let it grow out too much before you can wax again.

    Anything else like sugaring, nair, or any chemicals to remove... just don't do it. There are easier, safer, and less painful ways.
  • Feb 10, 2006, 04:11 PM
    sunnyblonde
    OMG that has got to hurt... I get my eyebrows waxed and can't imagine doing it down there... oh boy... too close for comfort
  • Feb 10, 2006, 07:04 PM
    Jimbob51
    Has anyone else tried the Venus razor by Gillette? If you had, I think you'd really like it and NOT be talking about nicks and itching. It's great!
  • Feb 10, 2006, 08:47 PM
    SHAVED
    Hi Jimbob,
    I will try that. At present I am using Schick.
  • Feb 13, 2006, 06:42 AM
    smoothy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by desii
    okay this might be werid to ask ill ask anywayz

    im 15 and i shave my pubic hair. i started about a yr ago. now i dont kno if girls like it when a guy does that or no. i do it for two reasons. 1. it keeps that area clean and it doesnt itch. 2. my **** looks bigger lol.

    now i dont get why some guys get all crazy when they find out a person shaves that area. whasts soo wrong about that? i mean its not that bad...does it make me less of a man? i dont see how that would be but does it?

    also do girls like it when its shaved or they want a jungle going on down there?

    It makes you MORE of a man because you are doing what you want and not doing what others think you should do. Not bowing to peer pressure is a sign of maturity. I've done it for years and so does my wife... Like you said... its cleaner and doesn't itch in the summer when you sweat. More guys do it now than when I started, same with women. We however pluck most of ours which does not take much to maintain as unlike shaving it all doesn't come back at the same rate, a half hour every week is all it takes... we do each other and don't have to deal with massive razor stubble between shaving.
  • Feb 13, 2006, 06:50 AM
    bizygurl
    Plucking? Doesn't that hurt down there? I pluck my eyebrows and even that stings.
  • Feb 13, 2006, 06:53 AM
    smoothy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by bizygurl
    Plucking? doesn't that hurt down there? I pluck my eyebrows and even that stings.

    Actually no... and trust me its nothing like waxing even if the result is the same. On the shaft and scrotum it does sting a little as well as close to the vaginal opening.

    The level of discomfort is really very low. THe tradeoff it it takes about an hour the first time and about 30 minutes a week to maintain. It only hurts worst the first time... any following times the discomfort is noticibly less.
  • Feb 13, 2006, 07:04 AM
    bizygurl
    Well your braver than me. I don't think I would have the guts to pluck down there. I shave down there on a regulat bases, before a lot of hair comes back so it doesn't take too long for me. I give you credit! Lol!
  • Feb 14, 2006, 12:46 AM
    lubavlada
    Use shaving gel for men to avoid irritation.
    www.skinproductsusa.com
  • Feb 14, 2006, 06:59 AM
    rustynail
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by bizygurl
    Well your braver than me. I don't think I would have the guts to pluck down there. I shave down there on a regulat bases, before a lot of hair comes back so it doesn't take too long for me. I give you credit! lol!

    You could also try using

    http://www.drugstore.com/products/pr...=BUY-GFI-0-MWS

    Can be bought at any drug store

    I have found it works great on my g/f in her hard to get area (lips and closer) and on my sack no hair any where on either of us.


    I trim her every other day so... LIFE IS GOOD :) :) :) :) :)
  • Feb 14, 2006, 08:01 AM
    fi_fi_trixabelle
    As a girl I find that when your giving oral you want to be able to actually get to his cock without having to pull hairs out of your teeth afterwards but whether you shave or just trim is up to u. u appear to feel quite strongly about it religiously so if you want 2 shave 4 religion then you should shave.

    I shave that region if I'm expecting a visit. Lol an I find that it only itches 4 like a day when it has gone just past stubble stage. I think because it makes your cock look bigger and gives me less problems with giving oral then it makes the sexual experience better for both people. I find it quite a turn on actually.

    Just out of interest does it attract you guys or would it put you off if mine was completely shaven? Let me know.

    Fi xxx
  • Feb 15, 2006, 06:59 AM
    rustynail
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by fi_fi_trixabelle
    as a girl i find dat wen ur givin oral u wanna be able to actually get to his cock without having to pull hairs out of ur teeth afterwards but whether u shave or just trim is up to u. u appear to feel quite strongly about it religiously so if u want 2 shave 4 religion then u shud shave.

    i shave that region if i'm expecting a visit. lol an i find that it only itches 4 like a day when it has gone just past stubble stage. i think because it makes ur cock look bigger and gives me less problems with giving oral then it makes the sexual experience better for both ppl. i find it quite a turn on actually.

    just out of interest does it attract u guys or would it put u off if mine was completely shaven?? let me know.

    fi xxx

    For me I find women who shave it all off all the time very sexy and very tasty. If you look back through the posts you will find many of mine highlighting the extra enjoyment that is had by me being shaved and g/f being shaved

    10 years of no hair there I started going shaved at 15 and would never think of having hair there again. I was a swimmer in high school and had 10 or 12 girls that would give me oral anytime I wanted it cause like you said no hair in the teeth. Senior year was getting it during school in a storage room near the pool every day.


    LIFE WAS and IS STILL GOOD :) :) :) :) :)
  • Feb 15, 2006, 10:07 AM
    smoothy
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by fi_fi_trixabelle
    as a girl i find dat wen ur givin oral u wanna be able to actually get to his cock without having to pull hairs out of ur teeth afterwards but whether u shave or just trim is up to u. u appear to feel quite strongly about it religiously so if u want 2 shave 4 religion then u shud shave.

    i shave that region if i'm expecting a visit. lol an i find that it only itches 4 like a day when it has gone just past stubble stage. i think because it makes ur cock look bigger and gives me less problems with giving oral then it makes the sexual experience better for both ppl. i find it quite a turn on actually.

    just out of interest does it attract u guys or would it put u off if mine was completely shaven?? let me know.

    fi xxx

    Let me put it this way... I PREFER a fully shaved kitty, as it displays the woman all all her glory without a bunch of weeds obstructing the view.

    That holds true with my wife.. and any woman I see on stage or in a movie.

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