Ask Me Help Desk - How can I possibly get her back

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Ugh I just broke down out of no where.. :"(

That is understandable. You will be OK. Hang in there

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

That is understandable. You will be OK. Hang in there

I'm trying I really am.. Like everything on TV is about relationships especially movies and stuff and Facebook, people are talking about their relationships and everything..

I'm trying I really am.. Like everything on TV is about relationships especially movies and stuff and Facebook, people are talking about their relationships and everything..

Stop watching that stuff. You will be okay .It is late here
We can talk tomorrow

Ok.. Have a good night..

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Originally Posted by noko2149

Ok.. Have a good night..

Morning.. I had another restless night..

Morning.. I had another restless night..

You will probably have quite a few of those, but it will get better, you will get through this.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

You will probaly have quite a few of those, but it will get better, you will get through this.

I cried a lot in the shower.. Do u think she is thinking about me?

I cried a lot in the shower.. Do u think she is thinking about me? Just really having a bad morning...

I'm sure she is. There is a lot going on and you are in the middle of it

Get out today and have some fun

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

I'm sure she is. There is a lot going on and you are in the middle of it

Get out today and have some fun

I know.. I'm going to the beach again with some people and I'll let you know how that goes

Have fun

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

Have fun

Thanks

The beach was good.. Was there practically all day. Didn't think about the situation.. But yet I saw couples and thought of me and her

That is normal and understandable, but you didn't think about the situation. Good!

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

That is normal and understandable, but you didn't think about the situation. Good!

Do you think I will end up having her in the end?

I don't know. I will say that at your age, not likely. It is very rare that the person you are with in your teens id=s the one you end up with.
But that is not true in all cases.

I think she needs to be more independent from her family and that is not going to happen until she is older

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

I don't know. I will say that at your age, not likely. It is very rare that the person you are with in your teens id=s the one you end up with.
But that is not true in all cases.

I think she needs to be more independent from her family and that is not going to happen until she is older

Our love is too strong to let go like that.. We've been through a lot together for it to end up like that..

Our love is too strong to let go like that.. We've been through a lot together for it to end up like that..

I'm just telling you how things are. It's late here, have a good night.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

I'm just telling you how things are. It's late here, have a good night.

Can we talk about this tomorro?

Sure

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

Sure

Ok

Hey you don't listen to the other comments telling you that you shouldn't trust her did she tell you she didn't trust you?? If you truly love her go to that hospital and show her( GRAND GESTURE ) you NEVER let anyone stop you from loving the person you love, love is what keeps us all together without love people would be killing each other so you keep your head up and your smile on and you go see that girl and explain to her parents that she is one of the reasons you can't wait to wake up in the morning don't stop trying if you really love here like you say keep trying till her/your heart stops beating <3

ALWAYS and FOREVER

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Originally Posted by ommi_kosher

hey you don't listen to the other comments telling you that you shouldn't trust her did she tell you she didn't trust you ??? if you truly love her go to that hospital and show her( GRAND GESTURE ) you NEVER let anyone stop you from loving the person you love, love is what keeps us all together without love people would be killing each other so you keep your head up and your smile on and you go see that girl and explain to her parents that she is one of the reasons you can't wait to wake up in the morning don't stop trying if you really love here like you say keep trying till her/your heart stops beating <3

ALWAYS and FOREVER

She's at her cousins house phone and Im just waiting to hear from her.. But she never said she didn't trust me. She knows I love her and that I'm busting my butt to keep her and I just hope that she will contact me soon when her parents aren't around. But I'm not going to give up my love for her because it's too strong and I know she wouldn't just throw that away.. Neither would I.

I'm really upset... :(

ommi_kosher there is a lot involved in this and obviously you have not read enough of this thread to know that. She is no longer in the hospital and there are reasons he can't just go waltzing up to her.
He is on the right track

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

Noko2149 there is a lot involved in this and obviously you have not read enough of this thread to know that. She is mo longer in the hospital and there are reasons he can't just go waltzing up to her. He is on the right track

Homegirl

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

Noko2149 there is a lot involved in this and obviously you have not read enough of this thread to know that. She is mo longer in the hospital and there are reasons he can't just go waltzing up to her. He is on the right track

Homegirl50... I'm really upset and trying to keep my tears in but it's not working..

I did not mean to post that one thing yo you but to the other person who replied.

I know this is hard for you but you will get through this.
I'm going to suggest you stop talking about it so much. It keeps you too focused on it.
If her dad has charges filed against you, that should be your biggest concern, not this girl.
You need to get back to living. Do you have a job?
Do some volunteer work at an animal shelter or something. But stop obsessing over this girl

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

I did not mean to post that one thing yo you but to the other person who replied.

I know this is hard for you but you will get through this.
I'm going to suggest you stop talking about it so much. It keeps you too focused on it.
If her dad has charges filed against you, that should be your biggest concern, not this girl.
You need to get back to living. Do you have a job?
Do some volunteer work at an animal shelter or something. But stop obsessing over this girl

I'm not trying to make it seem like I'm obsessing over her. I just love and care for her.. We have just been through so much.. But I try every second to stay busy and I do but at the end of the day. I just can't stop thinking about her and the times that we have had.. My mom says that she thinks she won't move on either cause of what we have been through plus she isn't that type of person to let go of something that important..

Well keep doing what you're doing. It will get easier.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

Well keep doing what you're doing. It will get easier.

But what you think about it like your opinion

I have told you many times what I think.
I think once all this blows over that will be it. I will be surprised if she calls.
I think you ought to prepare yourself for that.

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Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

I have told you many times what I think.
I think once all this blows over that will be it. I will be surprised if she calls.
I think you ought to prepare yourself for that.

What do you mean? She's not done with me. She never said she was

You asked me what I thought and I told you. She has not said she is done but that does not mean that once all of this blows over she won't be. There is too much drama in this relationship for it to continue.
This is just my opinion