Then live your life, have fun. Stop dwelling on this so much. It does not change the situation and it does no good.

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Then live your life, have fun. Stop dwelling on this so much. It does not change the situation and it does no good.

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I know.. Do u think she will come back to me

I don't know, which is why you need to start living your life and moving on.

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I don't know, which is why you need to start living your life and moving on.

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I just feel like he trying to please her family first so that she will come back to me. And I even promised her that I wouldn't move on to anyone else.. I can't break that.. Plus it wouldn't feel right with anyone else but her

How are you going to please her family? How do you plan to go about doing that when they don't even like you?
How long are you going to wait for her to call you?

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How are you going to please her family? How do you plan to go about doing that when they don't even like you?
How long are you going to wait for her to call you?

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Noo, I'm saying that I think she is trying to please her family by not talking to me and when that cools down then she will talk to me and stuff..

Well I hope so, but for you to sit around in a funk waiting is just foolish and it's going to get old. Life is too short. Don't waste too much time waiting for this girl to call you.
If she really wanted to talk to you, communicate with you, she would find a way.

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Well I hope so, but for you to sit around in a funk waiting is just foolish and it's going to get old. Life is too short. Don't waste too much time waiting for this girl to call you.
If she really wanted to talk to you, communicate with you, she would find a way.

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I am going to go places. And I know she will. She will when she's not around her family

Well I hope she does, but it would be so much easier if she were not sneaking around. All this does is cause more friction with the family and your back to where you are now.
Maybe you two should just break up. If you two are meant to be you'll find each other again when you don't have this family stuff hanging over you. She will be older and more independent of them

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Well I hope she does, but it would be so much easier if she were not sneaking around. All this does is cause more friction with the family and your back to where you are now.
Maybe you two should just break up. If you two are meant to be you'll find each other again when you don't have this family stuff hanging over you. She will be older and more independent of them

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She not done with me.. I'm just going to wait until I hear from her but I will go out..

Ok.

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Ok.

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Or do u not think the same as I do

It does not matter what I think because you are going to wait.
I think you two should break up. Her parents don't like you, she is ill and probably stressed by all of this and you are waiting for her to what, disobey her parents and call you?

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It does not matter what I think because you are going to wait.
I think you two should break up. Her parents don't like you, she is ill and probably stressed by all of this and you are waiting for her to what, disobey her parents and call you?

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I know she wants to talk to me though

I have told you what I think. You do what you want.
She may want to talk to you but this whole situation is not a good one.

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I have told you what I think. You do what you want.
She may want to talk to you but this whole situation is not a good one.

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That's why I'm trying to fix things

You need to leave things alone. Your trying to fix things can make them worse.

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You need to leave things alone. Your trying to fix things can make them worse.

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So I should just wait to hear from her

You can wait to hear from her but get on with your life. Prepare yourself for the fact that she may not call you, she may not come back.
Other than that, I don't know what else to tell you.

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You can wait to hear from her but get on with your life. Prepare yourself for the fact that she may not call you, she may not come back.
Other than that, I don't know what else to tell you.

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All right.. This is hard for me