True, but I've posted things that were a month old and checked up on it. It's a samll possibility that she is still reading. I hope it all works out though.
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True, but I've posted things that were a month old and checked up on it. It's a samll possibility that she is still reading. I hope it all works out though.
Sorry Rayne, she is not reading it. Her date of last activity here was February 5, 2007, so that means that she has not even signed on to the site since then.
That's fine, even if she's not, I thought id give my two cents.
Well first of all I'm 14 years old and I think I'm pregnant! And I would want my parents to understand and be reasonable... if they really love me then they'll be kind and help me through it! So just put yourself in her shoes and think about how you would feel and your reaction as a young teen!
My friend is going through the same thing, and she is keeping it, but just make sure she knows you care and will help her take care of it! IF SHE KEEPS IT!
I Personally Don't Think 14 Year Olds Should Be Having Sex... when Do They Have Time To Have Sex?? They Go To School Til 3:30 Or So... then They Should Be Coming Home To Do Homework Eat Dinner And Get Ready For School The Next Day... I Don't Understand Why Girls Are Having Sex At Such A Young Age... Babies Having Babies... I Mean Really Theirs Nothing You Can Do.. The Only Thing You Can Do Is Help Her Raise The Child... how Old Is The Guy She Was Sleeping With?
And if the left her, get him to pay child support, it wasn't only your daughter that is going to hgave the kid, the dad should be there or giving money to help pay for diapers, food, everything!
I think you should talk to her about the choices she has. Explain to her the pros and cons of keeping the child and having an abortion.
If you want your daughter to have the baby then put the baby up for open adoption. Or whatever its called when you give the baby to a family but you let the child see and spend time with her real mother.
Is this thread REALLY still going?
Now I understand your concern about having babies at such a young age. I agree with that part because I'm 15 and I don't believe it is very emotionally healthy to raise a child at such a young age in our era. Life would be a constant struggle and hardships would be ultimately crushing.Quote:
Originally Posted by Shaunta
The thing is Young Teens don't and can't function like that. They thrive for affection and communication with the opposite sex. This is natural drive. The problem is identifying love. Read my post and you may understand. I personally don't need sex and to be honest I feel guilty thinking about having sex with the woman I love because I don't know how she feels about me yet, but I cannot even fathom the joy to have it with the girl I love especially if we do it safe.
I just thought I'd give my opinion on this.
This girl is now 6 months pregnant.
The mother has NEVER come back and posted again.
Have any of those posting lately even read through any of the other answers?
Hi it's a very difficult situation for you. But if your daughter does want to get rid of this child go ahead but if not don't pressure her cause she will grow up hateing you. I no she is only young but she will learn how hard it is.Quote:
Originally Posted by jmb6364
I don't know if you are upset or mad or what but the best advice I can give you is make her know that you are there for her and you care. I know it is emotionally confusing but if you down her she will feel worst and you never know she may end up pregnant again. Love her and let her know that you are there and you two can work through it together. Im sure she is the pride and joy of your life. Let her know the responcibility of being a mom and help her learn to love and take care of her child like you have for her. Im sure it was just a mistake. A lot of yound people make mistakes I'm sure when you were young you made some too. Im 16 going on 17 and I got pregnant at 16 but I ended up having a miscairage.My mom was there for me and I know it helped me a lot
The girl referred to in the original post is now 7 months pregnant, and we've never seen the OP again.
Can we please close this thread? The newest posters are not reading what has already been posted anyway.
Do not get an abortion. It can cause more serious issues like depression for killing it. My chose would be either keep it for her to become more responcible and learn that she shouldn't do that until she's married. Or give it away into a loving family if she can't handle the baby.
Talk to her and let her know how you really feel. I never told my mum I was pregnant... my older brother told her with out me even knowing he knew. She needs to know what you are feeling and what you think she should do. She is most likely going to be scared... work with it through her. There is going to be lots of tears and emottions. I'm sure you know how it is to be prenant ;) She needs you right nowQuote:
Originally Posted by jmb6364
Stand with her and know that she has support
Ally
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