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  • Jan 4, 2010, 08:37 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by am3201993 View Post
    really half of the studentbody have relationships

    That means the other half doesn't.
  • Jan 4, 2010, 08:39 PM
    Wondergirl
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    Originally Posted by am3201993 View Post
    yea they graduated

    So everyone is in a relationship except for you.
  • Jan 4, 2010, 08:49 PM
    Wondergirl
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    Originally Posted by am3201993 View Post
    yes that is what I'm tring to say in the last few days

    EVERY PERSON at school has a girlfriend or boyfriend -- the fat ones, the ugly ones, the stupid ones, the smart ones, the handicapped ones, the mentally challenged ones, the tall ones, the short ones -- ALL are in a relationship. But not you.
  • Jan 4, 2010, 08:51 PM
    Wondergirl
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    Originally Posted by am3201993 View Post
    sad I know that is why I am asking this

    Ummm, you do not live in the real world.
  • Jan 4, 2010, 08:56 PM
    Wondergirl
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    Originally Posted by am3201993 View Post
    really everyone has some one in my school!!!!!!!

    And little green men are going to invade Earth tonight while we are sleeping.
  • Jan 4, 2010, 08:59 PM
    Wondergirl
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    Originally Posted by am3201993 View Post
    lol but really trust me they do

    You and I know better than that.

    Is there school tomorrow, or are you still on break?
  • Jan 4, 2010, 09:04 PM
    Wondergirl
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    Originally Posted by am3201993 View Post
    I have school tomorrow yea

    I want you to go up to the shyest boy you know (and yes, you know at least one) and start a conversation with him--and keep him talking. Then report back here tomorrow night.
  • Jan 4, 2010, 09:13 PM
    Wondergirl
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    Originally Posted by am3201993 View Post
    their are no shy boys and 4 or 5 girl are pregos

    How many students are in your school?
  • Jan 4, 2010, 09:18 PM
    Wondergirl
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    Originally Posted by am3201993 View Post
    100 or 200 I don't really know how many but I know how many prego girls

    Why are we talking about pregnant girls?

    Are you male or female?
  • Jan 4, 2010, 09:29 PM
    Wondergirl
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    Originally Posted by am3201993 View Post
    I am a girl I have one friend that is a prego

    She must have gotten a boyfriend okay. What was her secret?
  • Jan 4, 2010, 09:33 PM
    lovebird120

    Don't you have another thread about an ex who was going to propose to you? https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating...nd-431126.html
    So now I'm confused you obviously had a boyfriend before and you know HE wants to be with you (I agree with everyone though you should say no) but what do you need another boyfriend for and why are you saying no one wants you?
  • Jan 4, 2010, 09:36 PM
    Wondergirl

    We may have a troll on our hands.
  • Jan 4, 2010, 09:37 PM
    lovebird120

    Yeah but what I'm asking is
    1-why do you need a boyfriend if you just had one, take some time to get over him, because based on your last thread your not over this one.
    And 2-dont say your this "ghost girl" or "invisible" because you had a boyfriend.
  • Jan 4, 2010, 09:43 PM
    lovebird120

    But you still got a boyfriend, so its not impossible and people do like you.
    I think if your always quiet and trying to separate yourself from people boys will be more likely to NOT talk to you. You need to show everyone your there speak up participate in activities, I know you said you like to stay away from your school but then how will anyone know that you want to be a part of anything? And if your going to be out of high school soon then won't you get a job and go to college? Well make friends there and have fun there make LOTS of friends both boys and girls and make sure you participate in things because if you don't people may think you have other things to be doing or someone else your seeing and they won't ever have an opportunity to be able to talk to you or get to know you.
  • Jan 4, 2010, 09:51 PM
    Wondergirl
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    Originally Posted by am3201993 View Post
    I will go to collage I don't have to work really

    Then stay away from boys this term and study hard to learn spelling and grammar and punctuation so you will be able to get into a college and add some punctuation to what you write.

    "I will go to college. I don't have to work, really."
  • Jan 4, 2010, 09:57 PM
    lovebird120

    You may not HAVE to work but it could be good for you to socialize and meet people...
  • Jan 5, 2010, 08:00 AM
    I wish
    Multiple threads merged. Please keep all questions regarding the same issue in the same thread.

    You need to lower your expectations when you meet new people. You can't expect every new person that you meet to be a potential boyfriend.

    When you meet new people, enjoy the conversations and enjoy the process of getting to know them better. Once you've gotten to know each other better, feelings can potentially develop and a relationship would naturally form. You don't need to force the issue.

    Why would you date someone if you don't really like them? That doesn't seem fair to the other person.

    Secondly, you don't let other people bring you down. If you're sure that's the type of person you want to be with, then be happy for yourself. If you're unhappy in a relationship, then don't drag out the relationship. Find someone else to be happy with.

    However, the problem I see here is that you have the need to be in a relationship. You're only 16, what's wrong with being single? What's wrong with waiting until you find the right guy for you?
  • Jan 5, 2010, 08:08 AM
    Wondergirl
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    Originally Posted by am3201993 View Post
    well some of the people that I know bicker about the guys I date and ask me why I always date the ugly ones and I say I don't really know I guess that is all I can get.

    Why are you online? Isn't this a school day?
  • Jan 5, 2010, 08:48 AM
    lovebird120

    In another thread (or something I'm confused about the merging now) that your boyfriend just broke up with you January 2 2010 but when we were talking before you said that happened 2 years ago?
  • Jan 5, 2010, 08:53 AM
    HistorianChick
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    Originally Posted by lovebird120 View Post
    in another thread (or something im confused about the merging now) that ur boyfriend just broke up with you january 2 2010 but when we were talking before you said that happend 2 years ago?

    And, in another thread, you said that your ex boyfriend was going to propose to you.

    We're all confused.

    You're 16. Marriage shouldn't even be on your radar screen.

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