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No one can possibly know the answer to that.
Time will tell. You really need to stop stressing about it, your young, it's summer-go enjoy it.

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Ok.. And my friend just texted me saying she talked to hailey and she sounded really upset about all of this.

So what! You already knew that. Tell your friends to stop talking to you about this.

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So what! You already knew that. Tell your friends to stop talking to you about this.

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I know she's not going to give up and everything. And I didn't even tell my friend to talk to her about it

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I know she's not going to give up and everything. And I didn't even tell my friend to talk to her about it

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But you could have said don't talk to me about it.
She may give up if people keep bugging her

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But you could have said don't talk to me about it.
She may give up if people keep bugging her

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No ones bugging her and she wouldn't give up like that...

If people are asking her what's wrong (for the past two days anyway) and she is saying this situation has her stressed, they are bugging her.
You believe what you want to believe, but I'm telling you, when you get tired of being asked about something sooner or later you are going to say "forget it, I'm done"

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If people are asking her what's wrong (for the past two days anyway) and she is saying this situation has her stressed, they are bugging her.
You believe what you want to believe, but I'm telling you, when you get tired of being asked about something sooner or later you are going to say "forget it, I'm done"

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Ok.. I'll tell them not to ask her anymore

The less she is stressed the better.

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The less she is stressed the better.

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So now her dad is being a douche bag and filed another report on me for assault and battery that I never even did

When and how did all of this happen. I did not know there was a first charge.

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When and how did all of this happen. I did not know there was a first charge.

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It's in this whole conversation we have been having... I even told you.. But her dad went to the court house today and wanted to file another report on me for assault and battery in April when I truly and honestly didn't even do anything like that.. Her father wants me to really go down.. And so does her aunt and uncle..

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It's in this whole conversation we have been having... I even told you.. But her dad went to the court house today and wanted to file another report on me for assault and battery in April when I truly and honestly didn't even do anything like that.. Her father wants me to really go down.. And so does her aunt and uncle..

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How do you know he did this. He is charging you with assault because you had sexual contact with his daughter?

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How do you know he did this. He is charging you with assault because you had sexual contact with his daughter?

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I know for a fact he did because the lady called my parents and she said he's the one that went down there to file the report.. I listened to the whole conversation

What was the assault, and what happened with the first one he filed?

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What was the assault, and what happened with the first one he filed?

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Supposivly hitting her when I really didn't and her aunt wanted to say that she had bruises when she really doesn't.. All she has is cuts on her arm from when she cut my name on her arm

This is a mess. What happened to the first set of charges? Were they dismissed?

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This is a mess. What happened to the first set of charges? Were they dismissed?

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Exactly... And I'm not sure if they are or not..

Your mom would know. Did you have to go to court? Was there ever a case brought?

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Your mom would know. Did you have to go to court? Was there ever a case brought?

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I know but I'm saying the lady at the court didn't say they dropped it.. And what do you mean

And do you think she will defend me in court?

You said he filed another report. Did you ever go to court for the first one?

I would hope and assume that she would tell the truth if she had to testify.

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You said he filed another report. Did you ever go to court for the first one?

I would hope and assume that she would tell the truth if she had to testify.

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No because we don't know the date yet and I think she would defend me

Well try not to think about it.
What does your mom think about her?

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Well try not to think about it.
What does your mom think about her?

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Don't you think in your own opinion she would too? And she thinks that it's the family trying to get me in a lot of trouble and dig a deep enough hole

I would hope she would. I don't know her. I don't know how much control they have over her.
That is something else you need to think about. If she is totally controlled by her family to the point that she would lie, you need to dump her because your life will be nothing but trouble.

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I would hope she would. I don't know her. I don't know how much control they have over her.
That is something else you need to think about. If she is totally controlled by her family to the point that she would lie, you need to dump her because your life will be nothing but trouble.

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Well she can't get in contact with me right now.. And they are just saying that she isn't allowed to talk to me.. But I know she wouldn't lie.. And she isn't the kind of person that would just say "f you" then leave that person.. We been through too much and when we couldn't talk for days last summer when her parents found out we had relations.. But then she found a way to talk to me and she never gave up cause our love is that strong

Well you be very careful. Stay away from her. Let her call you and still be careful until all of this mess is settled.
Do you have plans for the weekend?

Plus I think she would get in trouble for lien in court anyway.. but I think she will defend me.

I'm planning on going to the beach with some friends tomorrow

Well have fun

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Well have fun

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I'll try.. Hopefully her dad won't try to get me in more trouble...

You just concentrate on having fun.

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You just concentrate on having fun.

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Ok.. You think in your opinion that she's stressing too?

I'm sure she is. Don't worry about it.
Have fun this weekend

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I'm sure she is. Don't worry about it.
Have fun this weekend

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I'll try.. And I think I should pray as well..

I'll try.. And I think I should pray as well..

For sure and I will be praying for you.
Enjoy your weekend

Thanks, I can write you on here again later if that would be OK?

OK

Thanks for your help and support