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  • Jul 25, 2005, 08:01 AM
    rustynail
    THANKS koolcow88
    It seems to me that we have those that shave (me included) and those that due to fear of public opinion or irritation do not... With that in mind here is my two cents

    You who do not shave are missing some of the greatest sex you could ever dream of. There is nothing like the sound when your shaved area comes in contact with her bare as you are pounding your shaft into her. My last 4 g/f got very hot as they heard and felt it... man did they gush. Which brings up another point. When she is riding you and she slids down your shaft and her juices are flowing that extra warmth on my shaved cock and area above and below makes me explode like nothing else I can think of except a real tight squeezing and milking my rock hard 9 inch for its load.

    If you read any of my other posts you are aware that I am a practicing nudist. When I first started shaving I was one of 3 males out of a membership of 90 men and 120 women which over half shaved their now it is about 40 males shaved and 90 women shaved in degrees. Of the 60 teens 90 percent of them shave 37 girls, 23 guys the youngest is 12.

    So the shaved look is here unless you are over 65 at least where I hang out.
  • Jul 25, 2005, 11:53 AM
    pedro888
    IM down
    Hey coolkow88

    I would prefer to go into a girls "jungle" then have it shaven so to you last comment about me. I would love to go into a girls jungle, but any ways its everyone's own opinion. So I'm sorry if I really offended anyone
  • Jul 25, 2005, 12:15 PM
    pedro888
    Eh
    Hey bladcock

    I have been wanting for a long time to be part of a nudist resort or club would you have any information for me
  • Jul 25, 2005, 12:36 PM
    rustynail
    Some info Pedro888
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by pedro888
    hey bladcock

    i have been wanting for a long time to be part of a nudist resort or club would you have any information for me

    http://bluebonnetnudistpark.com/www/frames.htm

    This is a fun place. :D :cool:
  • Jul 28, 2005, 04:12 PM
    monkey_luva
    Boyfriends!!
    What's with boyfriends? I have had only one but he was a total jerk! He would ignore me and made rumors about us at school. Am I the only one that has had any bad boyfriends in the past? STUPID BOYS!!
  • Jul 28, 2005, 04:43 PM
    Andyb43
    I shaved my pubes once, never again, itched like f**k. I have thought about trimming, but can't stop thinking about what people (mainly the lads) would say when they found out (if they saw it in the shower or somethin). Also, how short should you go with trimming, don't want to look like I haven't started puberty yet lol.
  • Jul 29, 2005, 01:22 AM
    comp1337_noob
    Hey, I can't get a electric razor because I'm only 15 and I cant' tell my parents I want to shave my pubes lol.. now.. I can't get shaving cream either because my parents know I don't sahve my mustache... what can I do? Would lotion make a good alterntaive?. like saoking in the bath for an hour then getting out applying lotion, then shaving? I'm interested in trying...

    Also, shaving balls, I'm HORRIBLY terrified by it.. but I SERIOUSLY want to do it.. I'm so afraid a razor will cut my balls... any tips?

    Sorry for my spelling its 4:30 am lol
  • Jul 29, 2005, 02:09 AM
    Lennox
    Monkey_luva, Andyb43, Comp1337_noob
    Monkey_luva, thinking long and hard about it, I've come to the conclusion that yes there are bad boyfriends out there. And I don't think you're the first to experience them. You've answered your own question. He's a Jerk! But Twats like that, are rare. I think your question is in the wrong thread, by the way.

    Andyb43, If you have sensitive skin, then shaving is out. Trim to what length you want. Re your mates, chances are they've also shaved their pubes at some point, or even still do. I was in the gym yesterday, and notice this guy with a mass of pubic hair. It was like a black shaggy Dog sticking it's head between his legs. If that's natural, then nearly everyone else in the gym must trim their pubic hair. Think about it! Oh, and pubic hair grows about 3-mm a week.

    comp1337_noob, Scissors, Twin blade razor, soap. That's all you need. Have a hot bath for half an hour. Read through some of the earlier entries, about 2-4 pages back. It will tell you how to go about it. PS The scrotum is very pliable and you'll not cut it unless you mean to.
  • Jul 30, 2005, 09:59 PM
    21not
    Shaving Down There
    I've been shaving my balls and around my shaft for about a year or so, mostly just cause I like the way it looks, the way it feels doing it, and feeling my balls afterwards. Last week I decided to shave everything. In the future, that's not for me. I recommend leaving a tightly-cropped patch, kind of like a triangle on either side of your shaft. Having some hair there doesn't make you look like a schoolboy, but really highlights your shlong. I shower at the gym four days a week, and just don't want too many questions about why I shave my junk. The balls and a tight trim is no big deal.
  • Jul 31, 2005, 06:59 PM
    robert_scotland
    Shaving
    well i`m 15 and have never shaved down below but it does seem to be sort of long for my liking, should i or should i not shave? I`m pretty confused about whether men do shave or not, Be gr8 if someone did reply , thanks. :cool
  • Jul 31, 2005, 07:02 PM
    robert_scotland
    Shaving
    Well I`m 15 and have never shaved down below before, Now I think that's its pretty long for my liking to be honest , should I shave it or not? I mean is it natural as well , so should I like cut some off or summit if I want to or leave it?
  • Aug 1, 2005, 12:53 AM
    Lennox
    Robert Scottland
    Hi Robert, perhaps you should have a think about it, you could always trim it first, to see how you feel about it. Shaving is a semi permanent thing to do. If you shave it off, and don't like the look, you've got a couple of months before your pubes are back to what they were like before. If you trim first, you can see how that looks, and if you feel ready, then shave. Make sure you do it properly though...

    Trim any long hair with scissors or clippers.
    Then have a hot bath, make sure you soak for at least 10-15 minuets.
    Get a brand new 2 or 3 blade razor.
    Apply shaving Cream/Gel/Oil (I find KY jelly is very good as it's very slippery and water-based), so it doesn't clog up the razor.
    The hairs are soft, and your skin is supple, some people run some cold water over the area, but I've never done that.
    Then shave in the direction of the hair once or twice.
    After that, if you want a closer shave, once against the growth of hair.
    When you're happy with the shave, and it feels smooth, use your finger tips. Dab the area dry and apply Baby oil. This will help keep the moisture in and help the skin to recover.
    Then twice a day apply a lotion to help the skin stay supple.
    You might get a couple of red bumps, but as time goes by the skin will get use to it. After a few weeks you'll no longer get the red bumps.
    Start shaving every 3-4 days, after a week or two start doing it every 2-3 days, and after 6 weeks or so, you'll be able to shave every day in the shower without having to soak in the bath/tub.
  • Aug 1, 2005, 07:06 AM
    rustynail
    21not
    21not it is not what others think it is about what you like and how you feel. Insecurity or being asked questions is not a reason to stop anything. I was asked many questions at the colony when I was one of three males who shave now more than half shave... have the balls to stand up for all your decisions in life... it is not about shaving it is what you feel is right
  • Aug 2, 2005, 09:15 AM
    21not
    Standing Up
    Okay, I'll stand up for what I believe in. I believe in people not being so %$#@ bossy. I'll do what I want, think what I want, and worry about what I want. Feel free to believe that yours is not the only view.
  • Aug 4, 2005, 10:44 AM
    Tallchick
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    Hi, I'm a 23yr old Female who just started shaving my puic area... I'v been shaving for a couple of weeks and I have to say its very uncomfortable... I itch like crazy and I have razor burn... it looks so ugly... I do like the feel of it when the hair is freshly shaven... but like I said this last time I shaved I have a case of razor burn... after I shave I usually put some of my CoaCoabutter loton... which helps for a short period but then it just goes back to itchhing like crazy... any advice?.
  • Aug 4, 2005, 10:53 AM
    rustynail
    Help tallchick
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Tallchick
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    Hi, I'm a 23yr old Female who just started shaving my puic area...I'v been shaving for a couple of weeks and I have to say its very uncomfortable...I itch like crazy and i have razor burn...it looks so ugly...i do like the feel of it when the hair is freshly shaven....but like i said this last time i shaved i have a case of razor burn....after i shave i usually put some of my CoaCoabutter loton...which helps for a short period of time but then it just goes back to itchhing like crazy...any advice?...

    Lennox posted this hope it helps
    Apply shaving Cream/Gel/Oil (I find KY jelly is very good as it's very slippery and water-based), so it doesn't clog up the razor.
    The hairs are soft, and your skin is supple, some people run some cold water over the area, but I've never done that.
    Then shave in the direction of the hair once or twice.
    After that, if you want a closer shave, once against the growth of hair.
    When you're happy with the shave, and it feels smooth, use your finger tips. Dab the area dry and apply Baby oil. This will help keep the moisture in and help the skin to recover.
    Then twice a day apply a lotion to help the skin stay supple.
    You might get a couple of red bumps, but as time goes by the skin will get use to it. After a few weeks you'll no longer get the red bumps.
    Start shaving every 3-4 days, after a week or two start doing it every 2-3 days, and after 6 weeks or so, you'll be able to shave every day in the shower without having to soak in the bath/tub.

    I feel for you as you've had a bad experience, but if you want to have a smooth pubic area, I'm sure you'll love it.

    It's a learning curve
  • Aug 4, 2005, 03:34 PM
    A.J.R
    That's about all you can do
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by baldcock
    Lennox posted this hope it helps
    Apply shaving Cream/Gel/Oil (I find KY jelly is very good as it's very slippery and water-based), so it doesn't clog up the razor.
    The hairs are soft, and your skin is supple, some people run some cold water over the area, but I've never done that.
    Then shave in the direction of the hair once or twice.
    After that, if you want a closer shave, once against the growth of hair.
    When you're happy with the shave, and it feels smooth, use your finger tips. Dab the area dry and apply Baby oil. This will help keep the moisture in and help the skin to recover.
    Then twice a day apply a lotion to help the skin stay supple.
    You might get a couple of red bumps, but as time goes by the skin will get use to it. After a few weeks you'll no longer get the red bumps.
    Start shaving every 3-4 days, after a week or two start doing it every 2-3 days, and after 6 weeks or so, you'll be able to shave every day in the shower without having to soak in the bath/tub.

    I feel for you as you've had a bad experience, but if you want to have a smooth pubic area, I'm sure you'll love it.

    It's a learning curve

    I started the same way and now I only have to shave about every other day. The itching and burning will go away with do time and if you do it more often. Besides, I personally think bare is better. And sometime we have to make small sacrafices for better things in our life. Well, at least my fiancé likes it the way I have it and we have lots of fun :D!! Right baldcock!! :p
  • Aug 4, 2005, 05:16 PM
    rustynail
    Lots of fun Tallchick
    I have found that girls who shave create some really great sex. I enjoy shaving myself. I am a totally shaven male and have been that way for the last 5 or 6 years. So Tallchick take a page from A.J.R. or read my other posts I think you made the right choice my x g/f had even helped he daughter to shave completely at the age of 11 and she was still doing so. On our last visit to the nudist camp all three of us joined 80 others with close to 2/3 of them being mostly totally shaven.

    Bare is better in ore ways than you can imagine :) :) :)
  • Aug 7, 2005, 06:02 PM
    Tallchick
    Good advice
    Thanks to all who gave me some advice... I'm going to start using it... Yeah.. my fiancé really likes me with the hair shaven... I have to admit, that I do like it as well.. I do like the feel of things when we are having sex... I'll probably shave Monday night so I'll let you all know how things turned out...
  • Aug 8, 2005, 06:36 AM
    rustynail
    glad for tallchick
    I am very happy for you I believe you will find it very enjoyable.

    I think if you can get him to ask a few questions he might find
    the experience mind blowing. I know the x g/f really enjoyed me shaved
    as much as I enjoyed her. If he wants some answer I'll throw in a thought
    or two.

    I did send you a message I would like to hear from you my reply please. :D :)
  • Aug 18, 2005, 07:50 AM
    lee1024
    Re: Shaving pubic hair
    Hey Desii,
    I totally agree with you... I am 15 almost 16, and have been shaving my pubic hair since I was 14. I shave it very smooth. It is so much more breathable... and comfortable. I love the way it looks and feels. I am not sure what religion says you should do that... but, I don't see why everyone doesn't. Desii, depending whether your gay or bi, try your legs. If not, then oh welll, you don't know what your missing. Well, keep me updated... Bye for now. ~Lee
  • Aug 18, 2005, 07:03 PM
    desii
    LOL HOW SAID I WAS GAY OR BI? And yeah I have tried my legs. Not shave but trim.. lol gay or bi lmao! HELL NO. ( no offence intended)
  • Aug 18, 2005, 10:33 PM
    lee1024
    Re: Shaving pubic hair.
    Desii,
    I wasn't incinuating that you might be gay or bi. I was simply stating the chance. I took no offence in what you said, no need to worry. Sorry if I startled you with that... I didn't mean to. Maybe, my frame of reference is incorrect but it almost souunds like you were appalled at the idea of being hinted at as gay/bi. Well, let me know... Ta ta.
    ~Lee
  • Aug 19, 2005, 12:21 AM
    desii
    Lol yeah I admit I thought you intended something. I was just thinking what the heck did I say to make someone think that. But its all good!
  • Aug 28, 2005, 04:48 AM
    SmartOne
    For the record, I just want to say that I do trim down there, and I think that is all you need. I shaved it clean one time and I loved it, it looked great and my looked huge. But I paid the price because for the next 2-3 weeks it was itching like a .

    And I have personally heard from some girls that they think it is hot when a guy shaves down there. :)
  • Aug 29, 2005, 10:21 AM
    trim
    Triming my pubes
    I see that people don't like shaed pubes yet other do but whot would you think of a grade 2 done over them all :D
  • Aug 29, 2005, 10:35 AM
    trim
    My girlfreind still hasn't give me the thumbs up yet but I'm thinking of saying I did it when I was drunk then if she doesn't care go an do it what do you guys think
  • Aug 29, 2005, 12:43 PM
    trim
    Yo this is for desii
    Yo desii because you're a teen I can guess you can relate to this aren't u ever worried that some people you don't won't to find out that you shave your pubes will actually will find out, I've got some friends hew I can trust with anything hew already know that I do my balls an they know one day ill do the lot but what if the wrong people do find out
  • Aug 29, 2005, 12:59 PM
    desii
    All right, yeah ill admit I think there has been some people that like over heard me telling someone, like this guy asked me if I did (hes a cool homie so you know its cool, but dam he's pretty werid lol) well I was like yeah, and I think some other dude over heard it and he's like eww what the heck your not a MAN. I'm like what the heck you talking about. Any person who thinks the only reason there a man is because of there pubic hear means there nothing. Its just hair. Give it a try

    So don't worry man.!
  • Aug 29, 2005, 01:07 PM
    trim
    Thanks
    Thanks for that I was rely imbaressed about it but if you put it that way well ye hew cares its your pubes they don't make you a man
  • Aug 29, 2005, 03:00 PM
    trim
    I'm so happy its over an done with
    I've literally gone and trimed my pubes to about a 1cm length it looks really good yet your not fully shaven I can't imagine my cock the way it was know, it makes my cock look even bigger but to tell you what it well itches is there a way to stop the itchin? But one thing I haven't told my girlfreind an I'm shore she would like it as she shaves her but I wudnt shave it compleetely until she sais its OK :) :) :) :) :) :)
  • Sep 5, 2005, 12:49 PM
    monkey120
    Shaving
    I just shaved today and I'm kind of regreting it... should I? :confused:
  • Sep 5, 2005, 01:16 PM
    trim
    Its is too late to complaine
    Well it is to late to complaine know what bin done has bin done we may be able to help if you give us reasons y u regret it
  • Sep 11, 2005, 02:08 PM
    helpmeplzz
    1st time shaving
    Yesterday was my first time shaving my pubic hair.. I didn't know EXACLY what to do.. but I figured it out :).. I didn't put any lotion on or anything after I shaved down there.. now.. today I'm getting these red bumps.. and they are itchy and kind of hurt.. anyone know how to get rid of these bumps? They are above my shaft :( help please! (without involving my parents or doctor ;))
  • Sep 11, 2005, 08:08 PM
    desii
    Did u even use cream? Bkus if u didn't then DAM that wasn't smart

    Just put lotion on, itlll get better
  • Sep 11, 2005, 09:16 PM
    helpmeplzz
    :o
    Yeah I did, was in a hurry and wanted it done :P so I shaved really fast lol.. not smart... thanks :P. Do you know how long it takes for the razor burn to go away?
  • Sep 14, 2005, 04:01 PM
    thomas2000
    Advice for couples
    Only couples should care about either way the hair is down there.But cherrish the way things are with your woman because someday she might leave you just like what happened to me today.
    Just do whatever the girl wants you to do because if you don't she might leave your heart empty.
  • Sep 15, 2005, 08:53 PM
    helpmeplzz
    rough =//////
  • Sep 15, 2005, 09:01 PM
    thomas2000
    Hely thanks
    Thanks for helping me by noticing but you really should take my advice seriously it is absolutely true.
  • Sep 16, 2005, 01:55 AM
    Teh Hammer
    Im 18, and I trim. Usuialy about 2cm long, and it gets a bit itchy but not too bad. I can let it grow for 2-3 weeks then trim it again. Its easy, keeps the smell down and is polite to my girl.

    I don't see the point in shaving it completely off the rest of me is covered in hair. Men are hairy... its what they do naturally. If you're a girl and you can't get over that F-off. I would shoot myself in the head before I shave my chest for a girl.

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