He said--you said and so on and so on. Young lady its really in your hands what you want to do. Do you want to be with a man that lies,cheats, and will even blame you for getting caught doing those things. You can't stop him from cheating, if someone is going to cheat that is part of their character it has nothing to do with how much the person they are with loves them or pleases them, they will cheat period. Come on do you want to put up with type of person, or would you like to have someone who really cares and that you can trust to be there because he wants to be by YOUR side and no other woman could fill that spot. Good luck
