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Simone a girl i went to school with did something similar but she posed nude on web cam.

A few weeks later the guy she posed nude for threatened to tell her cousin. She did not realise that he knew who she was. thought he was a stranger. He had recorded her and held it over her head for months. One day he tried to blackmail her into doing things with him. Which is when she told her parents what had happened.

This ended up getting around the whole school. She got so embarrased and wouldnt come to school anymore.

Your lucky your mum found out before it got too far and you couldnt turn it around.

Dont do it again. Its not worth a few minutes of fun.

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Simone... I'll be thinking of you today and saying a prayer. You can turn your life around starting today. Aimee and the others have given you great advice. Love yourself and think of the great young woman you can be by making good choices... Blessings:)

Ok. I will really try not to do these things again. Thank you for your advice and concern for me.

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Ok. I will really try not to do these things again. Thank you for your advice and concern for me.

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Be good and study hard and no more sending nude pictures of yourself to anyone at school or anywhere... :)

OK, I have 1 more question. Should I tell my boyfriend about what I did? My mom taking away my phone really hurt our relationship. I bearly get to talk to him now and I definitely can't see him. Were putting our relationship on hold for now. This is all my fault. Should I tell him?

Hi again, Simone21295!

What have you told him so far about why you can't see each other, please?

Thanks!

I told him 1 of my ex bfs was trying to get back with me by sending me pictures while my mama was checking my phone. I told him about last year when I did that but we weren't dating then.

Was what you told to him the truth?

Concerning you sending images, unless there is the chance of your images being found somewhere, my thought would be not to tell him. It's one of the things that's now in your past.

Kind of a tough call though...

Simone.. What's past is past. The important thing is to be the best person you can be and learn from your mistakes.

No, its not the truth. He doesn't know I sent pictures too. He thinks I told the guy not to but he did it any way.

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Simone..What's past is past. The important thing is to be the best person you can be and learn from your mistakes.

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Thanks for the help. Ill just keep this to myself.

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No, its not the truth. He doesnt know I sent pictures too. He thinks I told the guy not to but he did it any way.

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If he were to find out that you also sent pictures, then there will be a problem. So, it's best that you tell him.

Just be upfront with him and begin by telling him that there's something that you really need to get off your chest and that you're sorry for lying to him and that you know how much trouble it causes and that you won't do it again.

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If he were to find out that you also sent pictures, then there will be a problem. So, it's best that you tell him.

Just be upfront with him and begin by telling him that there's something that you really need to get off of your chest and that you're sorry for lying to him and that you know how much trouble it causes and that you won't do it again.

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He won't find out.

How can you be sure about that, please?

In different states, Ive heard of people your age going to jail about stuff like this. You may think you are innocent, but when it is reported you can be in serious trouble. I would hate to see anyone else go to jail for something like this. Im just a year older than you, but keep what you have private, and you won't have to ask.

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He wont find out.

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So you're not willing to come clean with someone who thinks that he knows you? You should consider even being in a "relationship" right now if you're going to insist on being so irresponsible and selfish.

Just because you get a cheap thrill out of sending guys your naked image doesn't mean that "it's not hurting anyone". Your mother should be commended for keeping close tabs on you. It sure looks like she needs to.

You are worried about your phone, when you should really be ashamed of yourself.

Use your better judgement, and common sense, in the future.

I was just up late thinking about this old account and I just wanted to let those who cared to know I'm all right. I don't do these things anymore and I'm still with my boyfriend and I still never told him and never will =). He came to my graduation, my mom likes him, and I think my life is just a lot better now than it ised to be.

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I was just up late thinking about this old account and i just wanted to let those who cared to know im alright. I dont do these things anymore and im still with my bf and i still never told him and never will =). He came to my graduation, my mom likes him, and i think my life is just a lot better now than it ised to be.

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Thanks for letting us know. Im glad things are better for you and I hope your future is even brighter. Congrats on your graduation. Great job!!

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I was just up late thinking about this old account and i just wanted to let those who cared to know im alright. I dont do these things anymore and im still with my bf and i still never told him and never will =). He came to my graduation, my mom likes him, and i think my life is just a lot better now than it ised to be.

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I'm so glad you came back to let us know how you're doing. So often we give advice and the poster never comes back to tell us how it worked out.

Congrats on your graduation. You should be very proud of yourself. I hope you keep us posted on how things go from here on out. You can do great things, you just need to set your mind to it. :)

This deffinately NOT okay child Pornography is ILLEGAL this behaviour is deffinatly innapropriate.You don't want to be labeled as a sl*t or sc**k this can make experiences at school awful .DON'T do it ,It's not right and obviously you already know that due to in your question you asked "is it bad".

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Thanks for letting us know. Im glad things are better for you and I hope your future is even brighter. Congrats on your graduation. Great job !!!!

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thank you =)