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  • Jul 31, 2008, 11:48 AM
    Romefalls19
    I most certainly do, bring a shovel, we can bury together
  • Jul 31, 2008, 11:50 AM
    drummergirl6
    But cheers for your comments.. an we are just friends an that's how it will stay so thanks xx :)
  • Jul 31, 2008, 11:51 AM
    Rabbit91
    Comment on Altenweg's post
    Bugs Bunny - "wheres that wabbit at" haha <3
  • Jul 31, 2008, 11:53 AM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by drummergirl6
    but cheers for ur comments.. an we are just friends an thats how it will stay so thanks xx :)

    I'm glad to hear that. I'm also glad that you took our comments the way they were intended, to help you and your friend. You will meet many people in your life, and many of them will turn out to be just another experience, until you meet the one that will change your life. You are still young as well, but as you get older you'll understand why we give the advice we do.

    Good luck. :)
  • Jul 31, 2008, 11:54 AM
    Romefalls19
    Congrats on making the right decision drummer, sorry it didn't work out the way you wanted but eventually you will find the right person.
  • Jul 31, 2008, 11:54 AM
    Alty
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Romefalls19
    I most certainly do, bring a shovel, we can bury together

    I'll bring a tarp, or would a body bag be better?

    Kidding people, really, just kidding! :D :eek:
  • Jul 31, 2008, 11:56 AM
    Romefalls19
    Tarp is good

    And yes, this is nothing more than good clean fun... But my note will still read that, just maybe worded differently for legal purposes
  • Jul 31, 2008, 11:56 AM
    drummergirl6
    Yeah.. I think it's the right decision I didn't know what to do about her an I didn't know what was right and wrong about it as I see her as she is an she a wicked person... but yeah I understand why you say what you do an thanks
  • Jul 31, 2008, 11:58 AM
    tolerance
    Romefalls, my mother was okay with me dating at 16 but my father was against it. Even though I was allow to date it was a process. My parents had to meet him and then my dad at to have a private meeting with him. It was worst then get a job and being interview and you don't even what to know what he said or did to them. Next, one of parent had to to with us whenever we went out and I hated when my father went because all he talked about was his gun collection. It got to the point where I did not want to date but my daughter father is going be the same way.

    To kissme, age does not matter once you're an adult. Your 22 dating an 37 year old and he can't go to jail and your mature enough to handle that. Your have more than a 10 years difference. So would you allow your 14 year old to date an 24 year old? If someone that age was even interested in someone that young then something is wrong with that guy.
  • Jul 31, 2008, 11:58 AM
    Rabbit91
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Romefalls19
    tarp is good

    And yes, this is nothing more than good clean fun...But my note will still read that, just maybe worded differently for legal purposes

    Soo.. how old is your daughter?
  • Jul 31, 2008, 12:00 PM
    Romefalls19
    My girlfriends daughter is 5 years old. We were discussing what ifs, because I do plan on spending considerable time with my girlfriend so we were talking about the future as mature adults and determining how each other feel about boundries and such.
  • Jul 31, 2008, 12:03 PM
    Romefalls19
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by tolerance
    Romefalls, my mother was okay with me dating at 16 but my father was aganist it. Even though I was allow to date it was a process. My parents had to meet him and then my dad at to have a private meeting with him. It was worst then get a job and being interview and you don't even what to know what he said or did to them. Next, one of parent had to to with us whenever we went out and I hated when my father went because all he talked about was his gun collection. It got to the point where I did not want to date but my daughter father is going be the same way.

    To kissme, age does not matter once your an adult. Your 22 dating an 37 year old and he can't go to jail and your mature enough to handle that. Your have more than a 10 years difference. So would you allow your 14 year old to date an 24 year old? If someone that age was even interested in someone that young then something is wrong with that guy.


    Now, that's something I might be able to be okay with. Supervised dating, I like the idea of that.
  • Jul 31, 2008, 12:05 PM
    tolerance
    Rabbit91, I hope all 16 years old don't act like you. How are grades in school?
  • Jul 31, 2008, 12:05 PM
    KissMe10der
    LMAO, Im only 21, if you want to use comparison.. please count correctly. Only 7 years since I was 14.

    And the age difference between me and my boyfriend is 16 years.

    There is a difference, yes I see that. But what's in high school should be OK. They wouldn't put high schoolers and elementary kids together due to maturity levels. So high school, they are about the same in maturity.

    I agree with meeting of parents. I have always done so.. Even with this boyfriend.
  • Jul 31, 2008, 12:09 PM
    Rabbit91
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by tolerance
    Rabbit91, I hope all 16 years old don't act like you. How are grades in school?

    Pretty awesome, thanks for asking.

    I currently am riding on a 89 avg. and I got a scholership to go to Algonquin College. Most likely going to pursue in Firefighting but also looking at Personal training and/or becoming a Professional Athlete. :p

    And yourself?
  • Jul 31, 2008, 12:10 PM
    drummergirl6
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Rabbit91
    Pretty awesome, thanks for asking.

    I currently am riding on a 89 avg. and I got a scholership to go to Algonquin College. Most likely going to pursue in Firefighting but also looking at Personal training and/or becoming a Professional Athlete. :p

    And yourself?


    Cool.. I'm studying sport development I'm looking into personal trainer
  • Jul 31, 2008, 12:13 PM
    starbuck8
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Rabbit91
    Soo.. how old is your daughter?

    That question just creeped me right out! I believe you may be a predator yourself.

    :eek: Lock up your daughters people!
  • Jul 31, 2008, 12:14 PM
    Romefalls19
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Rabbit91
    Pretty awesome, thanks for asking.

    I currently am riding on a 89 avg. and I got a scholership to go to Algonquin College. Most likely going to pursue in Firefighting but also looking at Personal training and/or becoming a Professional Athlete. :p

    And yourself?


    Sure hope you don't try and date girls that aren't legal. Would hate to see you screw up your future because of it
  • Jul 31, 2008, 12:15 PM
    KissMe10der
    Ok you guys, this post wasent meant for a lets pick on Rabbit. Despite him acting very immature latley. Lets move on.
  • Jul 31, 2008, 12:17 PM
    Romefalls19
    Kissme, I am not picking on him(if you said it towards me, which I doubt sweetie lol) I was simply answering his questions and then giving him food for thought

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