Ask Me Help Desk - I don't know what to do with her

Yes I've had men approach me, but I've never been one to sit around and wait. Back when I was single (many, many, many years ago;)) I had no problem going up to a guy and talking to him, still don't, I'm a notorious flirt. ;)

It's just as hard for women, maybe even more. How would you feel if you had 5-6 guys coming up to you, buying you drinks, asking for your number, sometimes harassing you? It can go downhill pretty quick.

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of course nothing to do with violence...

Phew, you had me worried there for a minute. ;)

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Originally Posted by Altenweg

Yes I've had men approach me, but I've never been one to sit around and wait. Back when I was single (many, many, many years ago;)) I had no problem going up to a guy and talking to him, still don't, I'm a notorious flirt. ;)

So true. I'm a notorious flirt as well, even when I don't mean to be. My best friend showered me with compliments yesterday (yes to a blushing point)

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Originally Posted by Altenweg

I have no problems talking with guys, but it still is hard.... especially if you like someone, like: like, like. :p
It's just as hard for women, maybe even more. How would you feel if you had 5-6 guys coming up to you, buying you drinks, asking for your number, sometimes harrassing you? It can go downhill pretty quick.

Hehe that can be very hard for a woman!

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hehe that can be very hard for a woman!

We do have it tough, don't we? ;)

Yes we do ;)

Aκόμα ρε φίλε?.

I have a question for you : are you a man?
STEP 1 : Please take a moment to check between your legs.You are supposed to find stuff hanging there...

Now,I don't mean to be harsh,no wait,I do,but aren't you a poster boy for the turning-gay-next-week club?

LISTEN

A MΑN LEADS,doesn't follow
A MAN ACTS,doesn't re-act
A MAN WANTS,but doesn't need sh!t
A MAN MOVES THE F.. K ON WITH HIS LIFE
A MAN CAN FACE THE TRUTH
A MAN IS IN CONTROL OF HIS FEELINGS,not the other way around
A MAN TAKES RESPONSIBILITY AND DOESN'T BLAME LUCK,SOCIETY,THE GOVERNMENT,GOD,HIS DOG OR ANYONE
ELSE FOR HIS OWN F.. K UPS

.. but if you were a man,you wouldn't be in this f-ing mess in the first place,you would be too busy having sex.

But hey,maybe you're on to something here,maybe you're just a closet gay case,maybe you're just envious of her because she has a boyfriend and you don't.

Which brings us back to STEP 1..

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Originally Posted by ka1111

Aκόμα ρε φίλε?..

I have a question for you : are you a man?
STEP 1 : Please take a moment to check between your legs.You are supposed to find stuff hanging there...

Now,i don't mean to be harsh,no wait,I do,but aren't you a poster boy for the turning-gay-next-week club?

LISTEN

A MΑN LEADS,doesn't follow
A MAN ACTS,doesn't re-act
A MAN WANTS,but doesn't need sh!t
A MAN MOVES THE F..K ON WITH HIS LIFE
A MAN CAN FACE THE TRUTH
A MAN IS IN CONTROL OF HIS FEELINGS,not the other way around
A MAN TAKES RESPONSIBILITY AND DOESN'T BLAME LUCK,SOCIETY,THE GOVERNMENT,GOD,HIS DOG OR ANYONE
ELSE FOR HIS OWN F..K UPS

..but if you were a man,you wouldn't be in this f-ing mess in the first place,you would be too busy having sex.

But hey,maybe you're on to something here,maybe you're just a closet gay case,maybe you're just envious of her because she has a boyfriend and you don't.

Which brings us back to STEP 1..

Wow, and I don't mean that in a good way.

What they heck?

What you just described isn't the work of a man, but the work of a little boy. Grow up!

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Originally Posted by Altenweg

Wow, and I don't mean that in a good way.

What they heck?

What you just described isn't the work of a man, but the work of a little boy. Grow up!

No,actually,that is what a man is supposed to be like and what every woman will respond to,regardless of all the "I just want a nice,sensitive guy" BS women say.

And I don't blame anyone here,it's just nature.

How is taking responsibility for your life boyish exactly?
And anyway,what this guy needs is a slap in the face to wake him up from all the disillusion and the self pity hole he dug himself in.Patronizing won't help.Enough with the hypocrisy.

No maybe a GIRL responds to that "manly" behavior but a WOMAN responds to a respectable, responsible well mannered MAN!

Since when is it unmanly to show emotion? This isn't the movies where guys can just hide their emotions. What you describe is a heartless person, someone who can give everything they have to a relationship and have it end and feel nothing, that's the true BS! I have no shame is saying that when my last relationship ended, I shed some tears, because it was the ending of part of my life and I knew that. We are not always totally to blame for it falling about, they take two to fall apart in most cases.