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  • Sep 18, 2007, 07:02 PM
    GlindaofOz
    Hey its better to hear from everyone that you are okay over and over again then for you to sit and worry alone.
  • Sep 18, 2007, 07:06 PM
    kayyoss
    Yeahh. But the only thing I don't understand, is that I've never had pms before, so why would it be starting now? Like normally I won't show any signs of having my per. Until a few days before... not a few weeks.
  • Sep 18, 2007, 07:12 PM
    J_9
    You are only 15. Your body will change for years to come. Most women are not TRULY regulated until the age of 28 if ever. So, I wouldn't worry for now. It's too early to tell anything anyway.
  • Sep 18, 2007, 07:58 PM
    star3114
    You mentioned that you never had PMS before. When I had sex for the first time, it really messed with my body too. I got crampy for about a week after. You have just introduced your body to a new experience, it needs some time to adjust. Think about how much pain you can be in after starting a new exercise program. Well, you did that but internally. :O) It is going to take some time for you to feel "normal" again. Hang in there.
  • Sep 19, 2007, 12:25 PM
    kayyoss
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by star3114
    You mentioned that you never had PMS before. When I had sex for the first time, it really messed with my body too. I got crampy for about a week after. You have just introduced your body to a new experience, it needs some time to adjust. Think about how much pain you can be in after starting a new exercise program. Well, you did that but internally. :O) It is gonna take some time for you to feel "normal" again. Hang in there.


    I never really thought of it that way, but wow that makes so much sense! :O
    So its nothing wrong that I've been having small cramps every so often this past week? Today I didn't have any at all really. Maybe like 2 or 3 near my ribs but that's just cause I got tackled in the halls at school. Lol uhm- but yeah the stomach problem changed from cramps, to feeling hungry and nervous all the time.
  • Sep 19, 2007, 02:26 PM
    kayyoss
    Can someone answer that?? Like is that normal for my stomach to change from cramps to feeling hungry and nervous a lot?
  • Sep 19, 2007, 04:08 PM
    star3114
    Yep and it is all related to stress. Have you seen in the movies where chicks get upset and indulge in Ben and Jerry's? There you go. Also the nervous feeling is part of the stress too. I would keep yourself busy and stop focusing on this so much. Go exercise, go to movies with friends and have fun. Make plans for this weekend with the girls. It will help. Have fun!
  • Sep 19, 2007, 04:09 PM
    worthbeads
    You know, you might not be so nervous if you never had sex in the first place.
  • Sep 20, 2007, 03:58 PM
    kayyoss
    Uhm- I have never been sick during my per. Either. Sooo its not a worry problem just a question, can my period become late if I have a cold or something? Cause I have one and I just got it like last night...
  • Sep 20, 2007, 04:13 PM
    kayyoss
    I got my cold last night... not my per. I worded that wrong.. sorry. But yeah. And like all day today I've been like blahhhh cramps, hungry... nerves.. blahhhh
  • Sep 20, 2007, 05:00 PM
    GlindaofOz
    For about 4 years I would actually get flu/cold like symptoms right before my period. It was super annoying but I always knew my period was coming. Maybe its your bodies new thing
  • Sep 20, 2007, 05:18 PM
    kayyoss
    oye I hope not I hate being sick. I just have a sore throat and stuffy nose and I'm sneezing a lot =X it sucks
  • Sep 20, 2007, 05:24 PM
    GlindaofOz
    It could also be allergies. I know mine have been pretty bad the last couple of days. Pollen is pretty high down here in South Jersey
  • Sep 20, 2007, 05:26 PM
    kayyoss
    :[ I never had allergies... ughhh why must everything start now?? Lol
  • Sep 20, 2007, 05:29 PM
    GlindaofOz
    Welcome to young adulthood ;)
  • Sep 20, 2007, 05:34 PM
    kayyoss
    Both.
  • Sep 20, 2007, 05:35 PM
    kayyoss
    that wasn't supposed to post. =X lol
  • Sep 20, 2007, 05:39 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by kayyoss
    me and my boyfriend finally had sex.
    he used a condom and did put it on right.
    Well, he used a condom but he DID not ejaculate at all.
    could i still get pregnant?
    i'm only 15 and im really scared. but i can't tell my parents anything :[
    help?:(

    Wait a sec. Stop the bus. A teenage boy did not ejaculate when having sex for the first time with his girlfriend of six months? How did he manage that?

    Did he show you that the condom was empty?
  • Sep 20, 2007, 06:00 PM
    kayyoss
    Yes mam he isn't an a s s hole or anything. He would definitely tell me if he did or not, he told me flat out that he would tell me. And he really didn't ejaculate.
  • Sep 20, 2007, 06:03 PM
    Wondergirl
    How did he do that then--have sex and not ejaculate?

    (I'm not saying he's anything, but that is highly unusual at his age, to have that much control.)

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