I'm actually in this problem myself. I'm 14 and I really like this 19 year old. I'm being super careful about it because everyone is telling me he only wants sex but so does every 14 yr old boy my age except they actually try. Guys mature so much slower than girls so a 19 yr old isn't too much more mature than a 14 yr old girl. And yes the experience and stuff is a big deal but what is experience really? It's a name we give to our mistakes. So what if he made more mistakes than me, that just means he should be more careful because I could possibly break his heart. Girls my age these days are so much more mature than people honestly think we are, come on give us some credit were not complete morons! I know guys well and if he uses me then that's where he messes up... forget about the jail factor I'm talking about some family members going crazy. And I've experienced more than most people I've been abused moved used cheated on I've been in love and have had my heart broken had serious depression which I over came I've been dirt poor and rich I've experienced probably more than most of you "mature" adults have