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Originally Posted by xxmissconfusedxx

who the heck are you to tell me i haven't grown up?

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Your argumentative and immature responses tells it all. Parents don't need to be friends to their kids, and the good parents do what they have to do, to protect their children from harm, whether they get mad about it or not. This whole thread has become about you, a 17 year old who would argue with adults and parents about how to raise children. Don't you think enough is enough, and maybe you should show the good sense to stop posting as you will change no ones mind. :rolleyes:

at 11, I would be tempted to wring his (the 16yr olds) neck if I even thought he had interest in my daughter, by the way, my daughter is 13. And I still remember what was on my mind at the age of 16. I'll give you a hint it was a 3 letter word that began with an S and ended with a X and somewhere in the middle was , hmm, lets see which letter that was, ohh, yeah, it was an E!! That spelled SEX, wake up world!!

Kids are having Kids, and the Kids parents find out too late they should have been raising their kids, because now they have to help raise their grandchildren as well, and think, What Happened?

Enjoy your childhood girl. U can date when u're older and you'll be certain that the guy really likes u... and if he really loves u as he said he does... he'd wait for u

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Originally Posted by despreteneedtobeblonde

Hello. Im 13 and Im going to sey this. Your not going to take all the advice given to you & in the end your going to take your OWN advice. But i am going to say this. I once ilked a kid way older then me ; I was infactuated. The older people dont really understand cause back in the day they didnt have people hanging out withh younger people & they hung out withh people theyre own age. Now its different. How did you meet this kid? How did you to start to like each other? I think if you truly believe that he wont do anything to you or try & make u to do anything then you should continue with it. But keep in mind that theyre are many many many! boys out there that all they want is sex and to try & suduece little girls. Did you talk to your paretns or siblings about this ? If so what do they think. - Alexandra

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Older people don't understand? Some older kids have been trying to hang out with younger kids since I can remember. Its not just your generation. Not to mention, some of the "older people" have kids and know how they would deal with this if it was going on with one of their kids.

It is not normal for a 16 year old to want to hang out with an 11 year old, period. She can "truly believe" that he doesn't want sex all she wants, but nobody knows what he wants besides him. People are capable of lying, so he can lie to her all he wants about not wanting sex, and if she believes him, she could be put in a situation she doesn't want to be in. Suggesting to continue with this boy is bad advice, in my book anyway.

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Originally Posted by xxmissconfusedxx

who the heck are you to tell me i haven't grown up?

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I will assume you are actually a teen pretending to be a parent, or at least I hope and pray you are, no real parent should ever be more concerned about being a "friend" than being a parent.

You have a job and a responsibility, it often means saying NO and not letting children do things.

If you are really a parent I feel sorry for your child.

I have to say, I'm the around the same age as you and I have a crush on a 17 year old boy, except he doesn't like me back, which makes it normal for me to just linger and think about him. I'm sorry but it's not really normal for him to like you back.
The guy I like doesn't like me back and makes sure to be very careful around me so I don't get ideas and he ends up hurting a confused little kid's feelings.
Go have a sleepover with some friends or whatever, keeps your mind off things!:p

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Originally Posted by iminovewithryan281

ok..
I'm 11 years old and I'm in love with a 16 year old.
Can I date him without one of us getting in trouble?
We dont want to have sex.
We just want to hangout,hold hands, hug and a kiss every now and then,
Thats all.
What do I do?
I love him soo much and he loves me back.
Can i date him?

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Uhm... thats not wise... and your "crush" is DESPRATE.

You can date him for a while but it will be very inconvenient and embarrassing to ask your Mom or Dad for ride down to prison to see your boyfriend. The Law frowns on such age differences.

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Your age difference is too great at this time.
As you get older, the acceptable age difference widens.
An 11 year old shouldn't be dating, I had a girlfriend at somewhere between 13 and 15, and she tore my heart out, then the next time I see her, she hooks me up with her best friend, who also tore my heart out.
I'm 16, and itd be wrong for me to even think about an 11 year old, let alone go out with one, and any other 16 year old guy who does that, well, if I weren't a pacifist, id deck him lolz, its sort of wrong and not very legal and sort of... pedoish.

Just a repeat of the answer that I just posted.

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Then we'll never know if true love bloomed or she threw him over for a 17 yr with better rims...

Um yea doesn't matter by the age

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Originally Posted by kween get krump

um yea doesent matter by the age

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Are you actually saying that a 12 year old could date a 22 year old when you say this?

I think he could get in serious trouble for dating you, especially if your parents don't agree.

NO ONE UNDERSTANDS IM 13 grown ups would never ever think we can be in love this early but we have I know how it feels you will give anything for their life and you think about them every minute of the day and think about them until you fall asleep then dream about them every night and when your sad you just want to snuggle up with them right then and there and having sex with them comes to your mind but MOST OF US are smart enough to just be physically flirtatious but you only do these things because it feels right not that to be cool or ANYTHING so if you think 11 year old are just little kids who play with barbies and go to soccer practice because WE Aren't THAT INNOCENT!!

If you love him don't let anything stop you but don't do stupid things like having sex... wait till your married!!

What if her parents say NO, what should she do then? Disobey? Is it worth him getting into big trouble??

Thing is cpalmist, kids aren't as mature as they were then, it's a proven fact.
You can have kids, when you are both holding a solid, adults career, living in your own place, and paying tax, that way you can properly support the child. That's my opinion, and 12 in this day and age, is way to early.
I'm not a full grown up, I'm only 16, and I understand how it feels. But I'm a realist.

Girl I understand exactly what your going through because I lived that reality once too, I was 12 and I Thought I luved a 16yr old. But hence the word, "Thought." In my advice I suggust you wate to date, both of you, if you really love each other you will wait. The boy I liked said he loved me back too but turns out all he wanted was something I couldn't give, sex, and chances are, that's going to be a subject your man is going to want to consider too soon for you as well. I'm not hating and Im not dissing you or your man but I suggust you wait and see how things work out as you 2 being friends if things don't go so well, being friends is perfectly fine for you, and if things go well then maybe you could date but I think you should wait till you're a little older. I also don't know how well the thought of an 11 yr old and a 16 yr old dating will fly with the Mr. and Mrs. (rents) So think about my advice and take it into consideration because I know from experience.
Much Luv -
Sarah<3
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