I just logged in right now to say "Hi!" to you Steven because I got an email letting me know that you had posted. I don't have time to do things right now on the site. But, I will be here later tonight around 10:00 P.M. Central Time. Am looking forward to continued dialogue with you!

lol.. I don't really no what central time of 10 P.M... but that I do hope that I around 9 or 10 in Colorado... but that means I am away... at a party of my friends... sorry.. but I do hope and wish you a happy new year... ^^

Uhm... problem... Clough...

I just recently find out how nice guy can't get girls in a hard way.. lol.. well not like get rejected again hard way.. but reading it on the internet... and it made me feel stupid for being a nice guy for so long lol..

But anyway back to the problem...

As far as I no.. can't be nice guy,, but you can be a good guy... it just the same as a nice guys.. but without being so insercure... and putting the girls on top of everything like "oh you are the source of my happiness" " oh i can't lose you i am gonna die "

So that means I have to be a nice guy but don't be too nice... treat pplz nice and everything.. always be there for them but not every time... just the right time .

.and listen to what they say..,. but you are the man to give comand don't ever tell her what she want.. you the one making the choise... and don't treat her like queens.. treat her like other pplz..

Still care about her but not over caring.. still love her but not over loving... still be there for her but not all the time .you have life too... go do your things... and never call her too much and saying like I so love you miss you and I want to see you.. give her space .let her miss you and let her say it


But one thing I want to no is... should I be you no be there too care and listen and show my nice guy site to everyone... you no... to the girls.. that I might like later on.. or just some girls... just girls.. so that the girls won't being like oh he is a nice guy... but still want to date me ?


Sorry for such long story.. just need to be out

Hello, Steven!

I am here right now. Just checking some things and making sure that the areas that I moderate on this site are okay for now. But, I don't know that I am good for very much since it is very late where I am right now. (4:17 A.M.) Sorry that I wasn't on last night when I said I would be. Had a major snow storm here. Had things to deal with concerning that.

Am currently getting ready for a party at my home on this Friday for neighbors and friends. If you were around here, I would invite you! Had to cancel the one right before Christmas because of the weather.

Actually, you can get girls being a nice guy. You just have to shop around. Sorry to put it that way. But, it's true!

Sorry about the stuff.. it suck.. where you live ? >..

It OK.. I am and will always be a nice guy don't worried.. it just that I want to change a little bit.. you no to get myself out there and not being the guy that like.. hey he is a nice guy... you no

You said it before, just be a good guy, above all be yourself, and let yourself GROW as you LEARN.

You you you... I am in a relationship... hahahaha I going to try to make it interesting

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ya ya ya....i am in a relationship...................................hah ahaha i gonna try to make it interesting

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Hey, that's good news Steven! I'm glad to hear that you are finally in a relationship! :)

:( you lol... to think about that I don't no if it really a good idea now:(

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:( ya lol...to think about that i dont no if it really a good idea now:(

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Are you saying that you don't know if it is a good idea for you to be in a relationship?

you... it just that my love life ? Lol... some pplz that I no asked me why I don't go out with anygirls?. lol... I do,, I dates them I just don't do relationship... cause when you date someone you just having fun with no agruing , fighting over stupid stuff,, jealousy... like when you in a relationship...

lol and you no.. I am not too cute myself =p... lol I actually thanks for that... b.c some of the girls nowaday always go after the look... so it turn out that I don't have the look is way better... b.c if they like me... that mean they like me b.c of me not b.c of my look ^^>.. so guys have confident and faith in yourself... look is not everything

If you are still in the relationship, Steven, I am wondering how it is going?

No.. I am not.. me and her kind of ended it after 3 days relationship... lol we both send each other a break up message... lol... at the same time... XD... so it cool..

How do you feel about that other than "so it cool?"

Actually... I don't really no how I feel.. I been trying to get myself busy.. so I wouldn't have time to think about her... and keep smile for no reason... and try to be happy so hard?. I don't no why

It sounds like you are doing the right things in order to not get down about it! That is good!

You I mean I like her and I still do... it just that I can't be in a relationship... I just dates somehow...

But it start to kick in now... ahhhhhhhhhh whatever.. just trying to hold it.. dont no how much longer though

I'm trying to remember how old you are. Is it 19?

Yup why ?

You still young and immature.. lol

Oops! Excuse me! Should have reviewed your post. Sorry!

I just wanted to recall correctly. There was someone who was in college who I had dialogged with awhile back. It gets kind of confusing sometimes here...

How is your mom, Steven?

You it deff sounds like she's playing hard to get... mayb she is giving you a sign to make the first move

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ya it deff sounds like shes playing hard to get...mayb she is giving you a sign to make the first move

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lol.. thanks... but sometime you should read the day of the post first before comment it,. ^^ it is a pretty old post... she was history ^^ but thanks anyway

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I just wanted to recall correctly. There was someone who was in college who I had dialogged with awhile back. It gets kind of confusing sometimes here...

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lol.. ok ? ^^

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How is your mom, Steven?

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she doing great... she and my dad is in vietnam now ^^.. they in a vacation also trying to find some kind of asian doctor to heal my mom for good


and is it normal to want your girlfriend back after you break up with them??

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How is your mom, Steven?

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she doing great... she and my dad is in vietnam now ^^.. they in a vacation also trying to find some kind of asian doctor to heal my mom for good

and is it normal to want your girlfriend back after you break up with them??

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I am glad that your mom is doing great! That is definitely good news! I do hope that they are successful in finding someone who can heal her for good! :)

Concerning girlfriends, sure it's normal to want your girlfriend back, especially if you really cared about her when you were together. I have had lots of girlfriends in my life. For one reason or another, things just didn't work out for us to be together. Would I want to be together with some of them now? You bet I would! However, it might not be the best choice on my part if I were to get together with one of them again in a close relationship because of various reasons.

However, people do tend to change in a lot of ways over time. Maybe things would work out for me with some of them. Don't really know... I just try to move forward and do the best that I can with the people that I have in my life right now.

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Concerning girlfriends, sure it's normal to want your girlfriend back, especially if you really cared about her when you were together. I have had lots of girlfriends in my life. For one reason or another, things just didn't work out for us to be together. Would I want to be together with some of them now? You bet I would! However, it might not be the best choice on my part if I were to get together with one of them again in a close relationship because of various reasons.

However, people do tend to change in a lot of ways over time. Maybe things would work out for me with some of them. Don't really know... I just try to move forward and do the best that I can with the people that I have in my life right now

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a good way to put it... lol... i don't really no why but it just weird oh well I'll try to forget it and move on... better off right ^^

Yes, you are better off moving on. Onward and upward, ever forward in good progress with your life!

How did your "date" go, Clough, Ive noticed you're a very intelligent person.. Keep that up.

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you but sometime lol.. it just like randomly stop by her myspace and check on her pix and sometime smile for no reason.. XD... why ?

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How did your "date" go, Clough, Ive noticed you're a very intelligent person.. Keep that up.

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my date?. wat date ?

Hello, Steven!

I am on this site right now, at least for a little while. I still have pictures of some of my sweethearts from the past. I do the same kind of reminiscing that you do!

Concerning the "date," evidently Roast has not read the rest of this thread and not realized that there has been a closure to that concerning you.

You... so it normal... well it just that I just been break up with her for like 4 days ? >.. and I had a date tonight.. lol just got back it was fun... was it right ? Or wrong ?

Was what right or wrong? If you mean going on a date with someone else, that would be no problem. You need to be exploring the possibilities of other persons with whom you might be the most compatible. I dated many people when I was your age.

I'm so glad that you had fun on your date! What did you do?

Well... I went on a date with this one girl... after broke up with my ex 4 days later... does it make me look bad and not respect the ex ? >..

And I just don't no CLOUGH>.. it just seem to me that I can't ben in a relationship it just can't I can't be in one.. I mean I date a lot.. but then the girls drop the Boyfriend word.. I just like "peace "

Am "uncloaking" right now Steven. I will be right back...

Not quite sure what you are meaning here, Steven.

Then just date and have fun. You don't need a relationship to be happy, and it's a load of fun to have different females you like, in your life.

TO Clough : well what I mean is just just kind of like a guy that want to date and no more than a relationship... but then sometime I like some girl.. but I just want to spend more time wit them but then they think that I am their boyfriend


And Tal... thanks lol.. I was thinking about that also