Wow! Illinois doesn't even require parallel parking. I'm surprised your state does. I've rarely needed to know how because of pull-in parking everywhere. There's definitely a trick to parallel parking.Quote:
Originally Posted by beth911
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Wow! Illinois doesn't even require parallel parking. I'm surprised your state does. I've rarely needed to know how because of pull-in parking everywhere. There's definitely a trick to parallel parking.Quote:
Originally Posted by beth911
My mom told me that she didn't think they required it anymore. But they did and I couldn't do it so I failed. I hate driving though. I hate it with a passion. Anyway, back to J.
Yeah, the written part you could pass in your sleep.Quote:
Originally Posted by beth911
My favorite question was:
If you see a pedestrian in the crosswalk in front of you, do you:
a. drive around him
b. stop and let him cross
c. nudge him a little with your bumper so he hurries
d. just keep going
I'm afriad about tomorrow. I sure, hope they don't put me in the mental hospital or anything. That girl told the teacher I wanted to kill myself and so the school called my parents but I told my parents I had no idea what they were talking about and that I never said that.
I didn't think I would pass it but then I couldn't help but laugh when I took it. I really did too. I talked to this one girl, she said it took her like 3 tries. Iv'e never passed a test in my life and I got it the 1st time.Quote:
Originally Posted by Wondergirl
Could you give him a note? Would he read it? (I would tell you what to write.)
Iv'e tried. The one note, he said his friend took and wouldn't give back. I thought everything I said in it was perfect to get him to stay. I tried giving him another one. I told him to not let anyone get it but he didn't even take it. He just said "I'll just lose it." So, I told him to call me then. I wanted him to call so I could tell him what it said but he wouldn't let me. I tried telling him that I wanted to tell him what that note said but he just said "I made my desicion. I thought we were clear on this." I tried to tell him how much I wanted us to be together and he just said "Too bad, that isn't going to happen."Quote:
Originally Posted by Wondergirl
Wondergirl, where'd you go? Your not ice skating without me are you?
Well, I think I'm off to bed. Unless you had anything to tell me really quick.
What will you do?
I don't know. I was hopeing that you would help me with that. As for, now. I really need some sleep. I just started screaming because I seen my hand up in the air from the corner of my eye and I thought it was a face. I'm so tired, I don't know what is going on. I know I probably don't make sense now and I'm probabley misspelling a lot. But I wouldn't be. I am just so tired. So, I will be on tomorrow. Shoud I worry about it? I mean do you think some point in time, he will talk to me? It bothers me to see him just be OK with the whole thing.
It will work out.
Or,Quote:
Originally Posted by beth911
E) Squeal Tires On Pavement! S.T.O.P.
Couldn't resist! :)
Beth, J doesn't want a needy girlfriend. That's what you are. Stop. Right now. Stop.
Now, think about it. What can you do to act NOT needy around him?
I don't know what I can do. Iv'e just been trying to hide all the tears and stuff when he's around. Iv'e been making it look like I have moved on even though I can't. A lot of people are starting to become my friends now. They say to talk to them in the hallway to make him jellous. How do I know he will talk me again? Or, how do I talk to him again?
Ok, What can I do? What can I do? What can I do? I feel like a little dog begging for bacon.
I'm home and here now. I hope you went to bed.
Ok, now I'm here. I'm really confused. I need to get this over with ASAP. I feel like I am moving on. I really don't want to. In a way though, I think it would be better but it isn't what I want. I said, I would never give up on us being together, even if I wanted to give up. That's what I'm going to do too. I WILL NOT GIVE UP. Right now I feel like I don't care. Give it time though, and it will hit me and I will hurt so bad. Hopefully it won't get that far and I will have him talking to me by Friday. Else, I have to wait an extra 2 weeks because of Christmas break. I won't be able to handle that. OMG. Tell me anything you can that will work. I only have 2 days. Please, please, help. QUICK.
Do you want to be in his life or not?
Okay just by reading this seems like you are being a bit over clingy to this boy in my experience with men not that I have had many men but from one expierience I'm kind of going through you have to understand that if he doesn't want to talk to you or read your letter or even call you its because he probably needs time to figure out what is going through his mind and what he wants men don't like clingy women one bit unless they are that way to you just kind of have to let this go day by day and see what happens just walk away for a while till he is ready if he is ever ready to talk to you then just sit down and have a conversation in relationships they go both ways not on just what one person wants in life you have to feel that way or else nothing will ever go rite for you not sure if this helps but I learned to do this with my sons father who has a lot of dulision that we are going to get back together and that is never going to happen things didn't work for us and I walked away because I wasn't dealing with his excuse my french but he obviously doesn't get the picture so I'm not trying to referr you as my ex but in ways you kind of are just because if this boy doesn't want to be around you rite now or talk to you then just let it go till he is possibly ready to talk to you I hope this helps if not then I'm sorry I know its hard going through what you are going through but in the end it might have a better outcome and mabey you guys are not meant to be you have to believe in god because no matter what he will always be by your side I believe in him but nothing ever goes my way lol you just have to be paitent I will be here if you need any more opinions hope all works out for you take care
Of course I do. Now, all of a sudden this other girl is his "BFF." I remember him always saying to me "but I thought we were bff's."Quote:
Originally Posted by Wondergirl
Am I doing the right thing by ignoring him? What am I supposed to do? I need to know BEFORE tomorrow. Else, I'm going to have to go 2 more weeks of misery.
Just got an e-mail from him. He said he's doing fine and making friends and that in a week or 2 his dad is taking him to the recruiter for the air force.
Does that mean he will drop out of school?
I don't know. I need to get him to want to talk to me. I need to soon. Then maybe, just maybe I can keep him from going in the air force. If I could have him but he still joins that's still a million times better than this. I would still miss him but if I just knew that we were still going to be together, I would feel so much better. This girl at my school keeps wanting to call him and talk to him for me but I think he would get mad. She keeps telling me to try to look really nice and everything to make him jellous. He might just get mad though. I need to do something quick before it's too late. He's already becoming friends with other girls. My mom says that he's just doing it all to make me mad. It's so hard to get him to talk to me so I usually ignore him but I need him back ASAP!
If I'm not online, try to still tell me everything you can. I will be on later to read it, but tomorrows it. Then, I'm out of school for 2 weeks. Sometime in those 2 weeks, I am supposed to get my license and he is supposed to do what I was just talking about. He scored really high on the test. Like a 96%.
You don't "need him back ASAP". That's what's messing up your head. You made him the reason for your happiness, for your very existence. He's not the reason. Until you figure this out, there's no hope for the two of you.
I just realized something a few minutes ago. Before I knew him, I was hanging out with people I THOUGHT were my friends. I was into drugs. I got really bad grades. Never even showed up at school. I was always trying to run away and I was always trying to hurt myself. Then I met him. He let me know that, if they were my friends, they wouldn't get me into dtugs, they would get me out of it. He would get mad at me for not doing my work or showing up at school. He didn't want me to get hurt or in trouble so I didn't. Now, without him, I'm starting to head right back where I was. And when I promise myself something, I KEEP IT. If I can't talk to him SOON, I WILL do what I have to. GOOD LUCK TO EVERYONE HERE. YOU Didn't"T HELP ME LIKE PLANNED. I WILL HAVE TO DO THIS ON MY OWN. ITS THE ONLY WAY. And, IF it DOESN:T WORK....... GUESS WHAT???? I SURE WON"T COME HERE BECAUSE IT WON'T HELP ANY. I WILL JUST HAVE TO GO OFF TO A BETTER PLACE AND R.I.P.
When was the last time that you ever took someone's advice to heart that has been given to you on this site concerning your life situation?Quote:
Originally Posted by beth911
When's the last time anyone actually gave me advice?
Almost every time you have posted, you have been given the advice of others. Now, Wondergirl has been the primary one to stick with you. Here is a bit of advice from me right now. If I were you, I would be careful about showing anger on this site or "crying wolf" let alone the times that you have ignored the advice of others and just simply went on writing your diary here. Because, this thread, like others I remember, could also end up "hanging by a thread" and the "thread" just might end up breaking.Quote:
Originally Posted by beth911
I'm sure that you know what I mean.
You got very good advice the very first post, but your reply?Quote:
Originally Posted by J_9
Now this whole thing is about you, and you refuse the obvious, you can't control hs feelings. You go on and on about what you want. You need to accept he doesn't want a relationship with you, and end this "How come I can't have him" post, that is going nowhere. As a man I can tell you that it not going to happen. Sorry.Quote:
That's it? I don't get like any real good help? Anyone who understands and knows exactly what to do? I mean, OK, if I want us to dtay toegther but he doesn't, what do we do?
You need to accept the fact that you need to shut up
So you want advice, but it has to fit into your narrow parameters first before you accept it as valid?Quote:
Originally Posted by beth911
Read this carefully: YOU have to get your act together first before you have any kind of chance to get J back.
I got another e-mail from him and he said that he doesn't like me or my personality. That was yesterday but I read it today. Then today he seen me talking to that one girl, then he said "Do you still go in the library for lunch?" I told him that I do and he said he had to tell me something. Then when I went into the library, he came in and I said "if this is something that I don't wanna hear, I don't wanna know, don't tell me" he said in a voice that sounded like he was afraid of telling me or nervous "You aren't going to like this but one of your friends came up to me in the hallway and started asking me a bunch of questions. If you keep talking to people about me, I will tell people things about you that you won't like." I told him "ok now go to lunch" then he said "like your ex" then he walked away. I asked her what she said to him and she said she didn't talk to him. I tried to keep her from doing it but I know she kept wanting to talk to him for me.
Next time I see him, will be after he signs up for the air force. I'm not so worried about him going in if he still talks to me. It's if he doesn't talk to me. Then, what am I going to do?
I'm half tempted to find someone else, just as I am half tempted to kill myself. I know neither of them will happen. I'm just going to wait in pain until he decides to come back. I said I would never give up. Why can't he feel the same about me? What did I do to deserve this?
Welcome to real life, where we don't always get what we want. Deal with it.
Welcome to the real life, where you get on my ignore list
"Need to talk about a bad relationship"
You already know it's bad for you, why keep damaging yourself? Love is a two way street, and he doesn't feel the say you feel about him. Get that through your head and leave him be. We win some and lose some. Learn from what you did wrong, if anything, then forget it and move on. Babe Ruth struck out 1330 times in his career. But he stepped up to the plate and took his cuts, which is why he also hit 714 home runs. The point? You CANNOT succeed without multiple failures first. EVERYONE FAILS AT SOME POINT. You cannot succeed every time you try, but you can learn from your failures, believe in yourself and your abilities, and try again, strengthen by the knowledge that comes from experience.
The lesson: Failure is a part of success. Do not let the prospect or the reality of failing deter you from trying again. Brush it off and move on. Temporary failure only becomes permanent if you let it happen.
When i say that i will never give up on him, i mean it
Have you always had a problem facing the truth??
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