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  • Dec 5, 2005, 07:04 PM
    nymphetamine
    Okay well ask her out for Monday then.
  • Dec 5, 2005, 07:20 PM
    someguy222
    As a date this time or same as tonight?
  • Dec 5, 2005, 07:30 PM
    nymphetamine
    Since you hit it off then make it a date this time.
  • Dec 5, 2005, 07:33 PM
    someguy222
    Alrite ill call her sometime this week.
    Got any kissing tips? Lol
  • Dec 5, 2005, 07:55 PM
    nymphetamine
    Some of us girls prefer not to kiss on the first date because of very good reasons but there are some very good tips in the teen section of the forum in a post called " makin out."
  • Dec 5, 2005, 09:03 PM
    talaniman
    Slow down,what's the rush! :cool:
  • Dec 6, 2005, 12:16 PM
    someguy222
    I was half-joking
  • Dec 6, 2005, 04:25 PM
    someguy222
    Sooo what does everyone besides the 2 that already responded think of my progress so far?
  • Dec 6, 2005, 05:05 PM
    talaniman
    Someguy 222
    Tower to pilot "you're on your own! :cool:
  • Dec 6, 2005, 07:34 PM
    someguy222
    How long should it be until I do certain things... like make out with her, eat dinner at her house and actually like meet them, and like stuff like that...
  • Dec 6, 2005, 07:54 PM
    jeffatl
    Jesus, you young guys are always jumping the gun... Slow down buddy, let her control all of that stuff. If you push her, there is a good chance you will scare her off... :rolleyes:
  • Dec 7, 2005, 07:42 AM
    DJ 'H'
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by jeffatl
    Jesus, you young guys are always jumping the gun......... Slow down buddy, let her control all of that stuff. If you push her, there is a good chance you will scare her off..... :rolleyes:

    I totally agree - 1 step at a time!! Don't get ahead of yourself.
  • Dec 7, 2005, 11:04 AM
    momincali
    Someguy- Just read through your entire thread and I hope things are progressingly nicely for you.

    Why don't you invite her to your next game and then to a pizza joint afterwards unless of course you suck at Bball LOL! (JUST KIDDING). Since you're only 15 and I'm assuming somewhat cashless, taking this girl out doesn't have to cost you much. Walk to the park and push her on the swings, buy her a hot dog or a rose or both. Show her how to skateboard if she doesn't know how already (assuming you do). Ride your bike somewhere nice. Don't rush the kissing stuff, it will all come in time but you must be patient, patient, patient. If you behave like a gentleman and respectfully treat her like a lady then she will be pretty excited about introducing you to her parents. This doesn't mean you have to be boring, just not a hormone screaming adolescent. I agree with everyone who has suggested you keep yourself in the living room when you're over there. You need to be in plain sight of her parents because you don't want them to dislike you or mistrust you before they've even gotten to know you. Good Luck!
  • Dec 7, 2005, 01:38 PM
    someguy222
    good advice ^^^^
  • Dec 9, 2005, 07:25 PM
    someguy222
    Date ideas
    Hey can u guys recommend some good places to go on a date while still early in the relationship? In case u didn't read my other posts, I've been going out with her for a couple days, so if u could gimme some ideas that would be great...
    Thanks in advance...
  • Dec 9, 2005, 10:08 PM
    s_cianci
    There's always the old standby, the movies. Can also try bowling, miniature golf (weather permitting), inexpensive restaurants, amusement parks, a drive to the beach or mountains, a quiet neighborhood tavern (if you're both 21 or older), or just stay home and watch a movie on video or DVD and order pizza.
  • Dec 10, 2005, 07:14 AM
    fredg
    Dating
    Hi,
    Never assume that someone can read your other posts. They are sometimes difficult to find!
    How old are you? Do you drive?
    These are questions you need to answer to get some some answers; cuase if you don't drive, you are limited.
    Next, Have you asked HER what she likes to do? Talk with her, find out what she likes, for fun, etc, then figure out something from there. Unless you have talked with her some, you might end up trying to do something that she doesn't like.
    Best of luck.
  • Dec 10, 2005, 08:33 AM
    someguy222
    We r both 15 so we can't drive yet. No mini golf, beach, or amusement park right now since its mad cold here (we live in rochester, ny the 2nd snowiest area in the US)

    Keep the ideas coming guys!
  • Dec 10, 2005, 09:03 AM
    lilfyre
    I don’t know how old you are no info in your profile, Barnes and nobles is a good place to go and share a cup of coffee, pick up a book this way you might find out what she is interested in. It may seem corny but just say I am going to Barnes and nobles to pick up a book, would you like to take a ride with me. This way you can sit and converse. Then there are movies, malls, dinner even if it is burger king. Just ask her to go with you. It is hard to answer not knowing how old you are :confused: .
  • Dec 10, 2005, 09:08 AM
    someguy222
    I said we were 15 like a half hour before you replied
  • Dec 10, 2005, 09:14 AM
    lilfyre
    Sorry, well that wont work, my last post sorry. 15 lets see, my daughter is 14; she likes to go ice skating, movies, loves to tour the mall, (hot Topic) way cool, burger king, Mickey Dees, and just hanging in town with all her friends.
  • Dec 10, 2005, 09:21 AM
    someguy222
    Mickey dees?
  • Dec 10, 2005, 09:28 AM
    lilfyre
    Mac Donalds
    http://www.mcdonalds.com/images/global_splash/arch.jpg

    Micky DeesMac Donalds thats what we call it here in NJ
  • Dec 10, 2005, 10:06 AM
    talaniman
    Someguy222
    Hot chocolate movie and a pizza are perfect on those cold snowy days after you cruise the mall. :cool:
  • Dec 11, 2005, 11:32 AM
    someguy222
    Any more ideas guys?
  • Dec 11, 2005, 12:09 PM
    talaniman
    Date places
    :D How many do you need?Any ideas of your own? :cool:
  • Dec 11, 2005, 12:12 PM
    someguy222
    I had ideas similar to those ones, but I was wondering if people had any more original ones I hadn't thought of.

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