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  • Sep 20, 2007, 06:05 PM
    GlindaofOz
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl
    How did he do that then--have sex and not ejaculate?

    (I'm not saying he's anything, but that is highly unusual at his age, to have that much control.)

    It happens. I never believed it before but I had a guy friend tell me that it is possible. That he has had sex and never ejaculated. I was flabbergasted I just assumed that the male equipment pretty much insured a that "a round was shot off" every time.
  • Sep 20, 2007, 06:08 PM
    Wondergirl
    Hmmm, even for a teenager? How old is the boyfriend?
  • Sep 20, 2007, 06:08 PM
    kayyoss
    Its possible.. . Like if we are just messing around.. . He's very controlled of his body.. . And I don't know he like doesn't like to ejaculate.. . Lol I know that sounds weird but like I don't know its just how he is.. . Cause he knows what can happen if he does.. . *during sex*.. . And yeah.. . He is controlled and very responsible. Its very possible.
  • Sep 20, 2007, 06:11 PM
    kayyoss
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl
    Hmmm, even for a teenager? How old is the bf?

    Same age as me
  • Sep 20, 2007, 06:14 PM
    Wondergirl
    Wow! I never heard of a 15 y/o male so in control of himself before. Thank you.

    P.S. Then what does it mean in your question that you two "finally had sex"?
  • Sep 20, 2007, 06:20 PM
    kayyoss
    What do you mean? As in, we never did before, and we finally did.
  • Sep 20, 2007, 06:22 PM
    kp2171
    Not trying to preach here, but you need to know these answers before you have sex.

    Really, REALLY... you just can't ask this kind of a question AFTER. Glad you used protection. Not thrilled someone who isn't ready to handle being pregnant doesn't understand how it all works (if you did, you wouldn't have posted)... its like remembering to put on a parachute but not sure about how it all works after you jumped.

    My mother became pregnant at 16. It happens. Shed tell you that she wouldn't change a thing, but don't think for a minute it didn't change her life.

    Condoms can fail. See my avatar? That's my son, conceived while my wife was using birth control and when she was tracking her cycle.

    Are you tracking your cycle? Do you know when you are most fertile? Do you understand the reasons your cycle might be off?

    These are things you need to learn and think about, whether you are having sex now or not.

    Glad you are seeking help. You need to keep educating yourself about your body and you need to be making decisions that don't make you run in a panic to a computer.

    Hope you are up to the task and the responsibility.
  • Sep 20, 2007, 06:26 PM
    Wondergirl
    I meant, What part of it was "having sex"?
  • Sep 20, 2007, 06:29 PM
    kayyoss
    What are you talking about? Having sex is having sex..
  • Sep 20, 2007, 06:31 PM
    Wondergirl
    Ok. Thanks.
  • Sep 20, 2007, 06:37 PM
    kayyoss
    OK I know Everyone's saying I shouldn't worry about anything, but a lot of people say a sore throat is a sign of pregnancy? Is that true? *i know I wouldn't be having signs this early, but I'm just wondering"
  • Sep 20, 2007, 06:45 PM
    GlindaofOz
    A sore throat is also a sign of a cold or allergies which is more likely.

    I'll say it again. You used protection. There was NO semen. You are NOT pregnant. The only person who has ever become pregnant without semen in the history of the world the Virgin Mary. Unless you feel that you are going to be housing the next scion I think you are okay.

    If you keep fixating on it you will actually "trick" your body into acting/looking/feeling pregnant. The mind is pretty amazing and can meld the body to its will.
  • Sep 20, 2007, 06:55 PM
    deway2010
    Asap means as soon as possible
  • Sep 20, 2007, 06:57 PM
    GlindaofOz
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by deway2010
    asap means as soon as possible

    What are you talking about?
  • Sep 20, 2007, 06:58 PM
    J_9
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by kayyoss
    a lot of people say a sore throat is a sign of pregnancy? is that true?

    No this is not true. Now some people here may disagree with me, but I am in the Maternity portion of Nursing School.

    A sore throat is not a sign of pregnancy. It is a symptom of a cold, the flu or strep throat.

    You really do need to stop fixating on this Kayyoss. You have already been given the best advice you can get without a doctor's appointment.

    There is nothing more we can say.
  • Sep 20, 2007, 08:30 PM
    worthbeads
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by J_9
    No this is not true. Now some people here may disagree with me, but I am in the Maternity portion of Nursing School.

    A sore throat is not a sign of pregnancy. It is a symptom of a cold, the flu or strep throat.

    You really do need to stop fixating on this Kayyoss. You have already been given the best advice you can get without a doctor's appointment.

    There is nothing more we can say.

    Exactly! Just stop having sex, PERIOD! END OF STORY! HAVE A NICE DAY! ESTA LA VISTA, BABY!
  • Sep 21, 2007, 04:53 PM
    kayyoss
    blarghhh I'm like falling apart. Lol I'm sick.. . My boobs hurt.. . Well not like my boob but like if there's like a bone or something behind them? Or like hard muscles.. well w/e they hurt.. . I still got to wait 10 more days until my per. Then ill be 100% OK and won't worry about anything anymore cause nothing will happen with my and my boyfriend after that. Anddd yeah. Anddd my chest and ribs hurt when I take a deep breath... so does my back (lower) but I think I just need to crack/pop it. Cause it feels like it needs to be.. blahhh I'm a mess =X :D lol
  • Sep 21, 2007, 05:05 PM
    J_9
    You may have a respiratory infection rather than pregnancy. Pregnancy does not effect the lungs/breathing until the later stages.
  • Sep 21, 2007, 05:12 PM
    kayyoss
    Grrreat. So I'm going to die?? Jk :] oye hopefully it stops soon cause my doctor scares me
  • Sep 21, 2007, 06:58 PM
    kayyoss
    What does it mean if like I can realllly like REALLY notice the veins in my chest area? Like they were noticeable at first.. . But like now they are REALLY REALLY noticeable.
  • Sep 21, 2007, 07:01 PM
    GlindaofOz
    It means that you are looking too hard for things to freak out about.
  • Sep 21, 2007, 07:05 PM
    kayyoss
    No like, I never really noticed them until I was getting changed and saw like massive blue lines on my chest I was like holy **** where did those come from? Nah a lot has like got away from my head... mostly cause I'm sick right now. And I've been doing things to keep it off my mind.
  • Sep 21, 2007, 08:06 PM
    star3114
    Chicky... take a chill pill and get a hobby... seriously. You are searching for things to freak out about. Find a better outlet for your time and brain power or you will end up driving yourself insane... literally.
  • Sep 22, 2007, 07:34 AM
    kp2171
    Look... you've been told the answer several times over, including posts by our health expert.

    Stop saying "but"... "but"... "but"...

    no... an increase in ear wax doesn't mean you are pregnant, nor does a hangnail. Morning breath does not mean you have conceived, and neither does bad gas.

    Well, my wife had AWFUL gas the week we think she conceived... and she was "lazy" (exhausted is a better choice) and she watched a ton of bad TV for a month... and she never watches bad TV.

    So maybe if you are a lazy couch potato watching reality shows and hanging under a gas cloud, well then you might be pregnant.

    Otherwise, back off the paranoia or see a doctor. Anything else is just looking for attention.
  • Sep 22, 2007, 09:11 AM
    J_9
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by kayyoss
    what does it mean if like i can realllly like REALLY notice the veins in my chest area? like they were noticeable at first . . . but like now they are REALLY REALLY noticable.

    It may mean that you are dehydrated from that chest cold, you know, when you felt the bone behind your boobs.

    Now look, stop grasping for straws. You would not get ANY symptoms of pregnancy this early. NONE!!

    The first symptom of pregnancy is a missed period. If you are having "symptoms" it is most likely something else and should be checked by your doctor.

    Since I have said over and over again that the first symptom is a missed period, and you haven't missed yours yet. I unsubscribe from this question. Please contact us again about this AFTER you miss your period.
  • Sep 22, 2007, 09:24 AM
    worthbeads
    Snap out of it you ignorant girl! Just don't have sex again and forget that this whole thing ever happened!
  • Sep 22, 2007, 09:28 AM
    worthbeads
    Someone should really just shut this post down already!
  • Nov 30, 2007, 12:42 PM
    deytonsmom
    15? Why??

    I do hope that you are NOT pregnant and everything works out fine :)



    Oh WOW I didn't see that it was 11 pages LONG!! Hahahahaha didn't read it all either
  • Nov 30, 2007, 02:28 PM
    angel0772001
    Sweetheart take it from me wait. I also don't want to preach to you but I got pregnant when I was 17 I love my daughter to death but there are a lot of consiquences that come from it. Enjoy being a teen have fun. If you do decide to have sex again please get condoms with spermicide and use a form of birth control. I don't know if you have a health clinic there but its confidential and they can help you there. I know that you probably hear this a lot but babies are lots of work and if your not ready for one you should take the precautions. Good luck Sweetheart.

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