Ask Me Help Desk - Loosin Weight For Love

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Originally Posted by chuff

I suppose I can give it a try. I just find it hard to sit through movies for some reason. If a plot doesn't grab me right away, I start picking apart the movie, the acting, the plot holes, the lack of consistency in the story, and start predicting the end. I actually annoy people doing that, several years ago, I was watching the Bone collector and 11 minutes in I predicted the murderer, the motive, and the conclusion of the movie, then fell asleep. When I woke up the movie was over and everyboby else that was watching was furious with me, because I nailed everything.

Forget the plot and just focus on Renee.. LOL

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Originally Posted by xkwxwdx

no he hasnt said anythin to me but when i see him lookin at other thin girls thats what worries me i feel the need to have to be skinny

Well your still a teenager, so he's looking at other girls because his hormones are raging. Even if this relationship doesn't last forever (and given your age, that could be a possibility) he's not going to dump you because your not a certain weight. If he does then that would mean he's more concerned about cometic appearances and not your emotional, mental, and physical health. Is that someone you want to spend your time with?

Sometimes guys look at girls that are skinny and say to themselves "Why doesn't the girl eat something." Just because he's looking at skinny girls doesn't mean he's thinking "I've got to get me some of that boney skeleton girl." In fact I think I'm the first guy that's ever said that, and I said it just now to make a point that no guy thinks like that. I would not worry about this at all, in fact if anything all it's going to do is make you start being stressed out, which in turn will stress him out and the relationship and it will all be over nothing.

Yeah true , we have lasted like 15-16 months and its only recentley I've started worrying about my weight for some reason :S

chuff agrees: I think men are from Earth and women are from Venus!
LOL
There is no better place then venus :p

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Originally Posted by xkwxwdx

yeh true , we have lasted like 15-16 months and its only recentley ive started worrying about my weight for some reason :S

Maybe your getting over the "honeymoon period" and not starting to settle in the relationship and as a result your bringing in some unnessary drama. This weight thing might just be a cover or the excuse to bring something new into the relationship, even if it's not healthy for you or the relationship, it's something different.

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Originally Posted by Krs

chuff agrees: I think men are from Earth and women are from Venus!
LOL
there is no better place then venus :p

Yeah I'm sure Venus is beautiful but your on Earth now so why do you women continue to act like you from another world!

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Originally Posted by Geoffersonairplane

Forget the plot and just focus on Renee..LOL

Trust me it's not that easy for me. I just saw Scarlett Johenson yesterday in the Black Dahlia, and although she's incredibly beautiful (and by the way she's not skinny so think about that) all I could think was "Your like 21 years old and this part should be of somebody in their 30's. And don't get me started on Josh Hartnett (sp?) who was playing a homicide detective who in my mind should be at least 40 or older. It just came off so fake watching these who both look like teenagers playing these roles. Plus the plot holes were incredibly huge. Like bigger than most movies I sit through.

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Originally Posted by chuff

Yeah I'm sure Venus is beautiful but your on Earth now so why do you women continue to act like you from another world!

Who's "acting":D?

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Originally Posted by chuff

Yeah I'm sure Venus is beautiful but your on Earth now so why do you women continue to act like you from another world!

Am I? :cool:

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Originally Posted by Krs

Am i?! :cool:

I don't know, that's why it's so confusing to guys.

Comment on xkwxwdx's post

No tjhat is a really good weight. It Is healthy!

Comment on curlybenswife's post

Yes the better the food the better the weight loss. Eat healthier, exercise more. Try working out at a gym. As for your weight, you are in the normal (healthy) zone. You do not want to get underweight. Starvation would give you constant fainting!