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  • Aug 11, 2013, 02:02 PM
    forevermytc
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    Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    Your age and immaturity is coming through loud and clear. You have no clue what kind of a mess you are in. You won't listen to sound advice either. It will be interesting to hear what happens with this story in a few months.

    Hmm its funny how you think I should be mature when I'm only 16! I haven't even had a job. And heck yes I'm immature and I love it and looks like my teacher don't mind either ;)
  • Aug 11, 2013, 02:02 PM
    talaniman
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by forevermytc View Post
    She thinks he likes me more than an average student. And thinks that sometime he has a little too much interest in me. She warns me that if it gets out of hand she will call the school. But I don't plan on telling her anymore. She doesn't even know about the trip.

    I go with what your moms says. Instead of being a dumb selfish teen ager, carried away by her feelings, you should listen to your mom. Everyone here has said he is wrong, yet you argue with all the adults and hide things from your mom?

    That's wrong too!!
  • Aug 11, 2013, 02:03 PM
    forevermytc
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    I go with what your moms says. Instead of being a dumb selfish teen ager, carried away by her feelings, you should listen to your mom. Everyone here has said he is wrong, yet you argue with all the adults and hide things from your mom?

    That's wrong too!!!!!!!!!

    Well what can I say I'm just a typical selfish immature child. Who won't except help from no one. I guess I will just die :)
  • Aug 11, 2013, 02:04 PM
    Homegirl 50
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by forevermytc View Post
    You know the situation from the outside. And who give a craap what I do. I can fluck him if I want. And maybe I will get pregnant and have an abortion and then go kill a baby goat and have a satanic ritual! Maybe if you'd like I can invite you and your family! You soul sucker.

    You are very immature. You don't want advice, you want someone to tell you what you want to hear. Go talk to one of your teen friends, then have her run her mouth and your mother will find out what you are up to.
    There are plenty of people who really want help. You don't.
  • Aug 11, 2013, 02:05 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by forevermytc View Post
    Oh would you get off your uptight and calm down. Nothing will or is happing between me and my teacher. Im making a poll. And quite frankly you people are very rude and judgmental. I picture you as a person who would encourage someone to kill themselves. And even give them the extra push.

    Actually, no, that's not true at all. I just hate to see someone not only mess up her own life but also mess up someone else's in the process. I've been a teacher and had male students crush on me, but I knew better than to encourage them. I've known library patrons and counseling clients who made passes at library staff and counselors, but thankfully nothing came of it because the library staff and counselors remembered and took seriously the ethics they had been taught.
  • Aug 11, 2013, 02:08 PM
    forevermytc
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    You are very immature. You don't want advice, you want someone to tell you what you want to hear. Go talk to one of your teen friends, then have her run her mouth and your mother will find out what you are up to.
    There are plenty of people who really want help. You don't.

    I am immature. But you are a grown adult who is judging a child. Way to go on being a human.

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    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Actually, no, that's not true at all. I just hate to see someone not only mess up her own life but also mess up someone else's in the process. I've been a teacher and had male students crush on me, but I knew better than to encourage them. I've known library patrons and counseling clients who made passes at library staff and counselors, but thankfully nothing came of it because the library staff and counselors remembered and took seriously the ethics they had been taught.

    Sorry I have no reason to be rude to you. You are one of the few that were semi polite while answering.
  • Aug 11, 2013, 02:13 PM
    Wondergirl
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by forevermytc View Post
    Sorry I have no reason to be rude to you. You are one of the few that were semi polite while answering.

    I've ALWAYS been polite to you and worry that you are sliding downhill too fast to stop. I would say the same things to my own kids that I have said to you.
  • Aug 11, 2013, 02:13 PM
    Homegirl 50
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by forevermytc View Post
    Hmm its funny how you think I should be mature when I'm only 16! I haven't even had a job. And heck yes I'm immature and I love it and looks like my teacher don't mind either ;)

    Of course he doesn't mind. He can get his kicks from you because you are not mature enough to see what he's doing. People like that go after girls like you.
  • Aug 11, 2013, 02:14 PM
    forevermytc
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    I've ALWAYS been polite to you and worry that you are sliding downhill too fast to stop. I would say the same things to my own kids that I have said to you.

    OK well I really do like him. And you seem to be helpful so, if I want to be with him should I just stop my talking now and wait till after I graduate and begin talking to him again? Or should I try to forget him forever. Which I really don't want to do, but I'd like to hear your opinion.
  • Aug 11, 2013, 02:16 PM
    Homegirl 50
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by forevermytc View Post
    I am immature. But you are a grown adult who is judging a child. Way to go on being a human.

    I am not judging you, I am telling you the truth and you don't want to hear the truth. You don't like the advice so you become rude and snarky. That is being immature. You are a child playing an adult game with another adult. This does not favor a good outcome.
  • Aug 11, 2013, 02:23 PM
    Homegirl 50
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    Originally Posted by forevermytc View Post
    OK well I really do like him. And you seem to be helpful so, if I want to be with him should I just stop my talking now and wait till after I graduate and begin talking to him again? Or should I try to forget him forever. Which I really don't want to do, but I'd like to hear your opinion.

    Leave the man alone until you are out of school and 18. Tell him to stop messaging you and no more paying for your classes. This means no more texting talking, anything.
  • Aug 11, 2013, 02:27 PM
    Curlyben
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