Ask Me Help Desk - I'm fourteen and I need to know if I'm pregnant.

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Originally Posted by peaceandlovex3

ok so let me fill you in and then can you PLEASE give me some help!

my last period was february 28. i had unprotected sex on march 15 and 16. i've checked a lot of sites that say that was during my "fertile ovulation" time. so what i want to know is it possible that i may be pregnant? my period is not due until the 27th but it would be really great to have some help now!

symptoms:
i tire easily.
i'm going to pee a lot more than often[don't know if its a mind trick or what]
i feel sick off and on, but not too much.
sometimes i have the urge to eat crazily, other times food makes me sick.
my breasts are noticably sore and oddly, my nipples are very sensitive!
and wether its just me or being pregnant, i've gained a few pounds recently.

i'm just freaking out and i would really love to hear from anybody who has an opinion or if they experienced the same things during pregnancy.

also, i have slight cramps, but not like my period.

MEGAN<3

I think you need to take a pregnancy test ASAP
Just take the test && get it over with so you know what to do about this whole situation
&& next time make sure you use protection so that this sort of scare doesn't happen again! Lol

Hey Im 14 years old also .Im 3 weeks pregnant .I went to a health center to get tested. I had the same problems and you should follow my steps.. Go to a health cente. They won't tell your parents if you don't want them to .

You are 14 and you will think differently when you get older, a LOT differently. Does the father want to be a dad? Also is this the person that you want to spend the rest of your life with if you are pregnant, is this a guy that will help you raise your child or leave you when he finds out? When I was younger I had a friend that was 15 who thought she wanted to get pregnant and she was caught in the back of a older guys car having sex and was made to go to court and she had to carry around a doll with her, she had to wake up in the middle of the night to feed it and rock it to sleep and she couldn't do anything. She cried everyday and definitely changed her mind about the whole situation! You are way to young to make your own decisions and if your mom wantes to give your baby up for adoption she could. You have rights but you have to understand @ 14 yrs old your mother would Literally be raising you and your kid which is un-fair to her and she can have that baby put up for adoption if she wanted to. You need to focus on school and other activited and from now on use protection or talk to your mom about birth control.

Hello.
So to any any of you who may read this and wonder, I was never pregnant. Perhaps the over imaginative mind of a fourteen year old, maybe it was one of life's little lessons; the world trying to help me escape the trouble I could have found myself in. You have a much different take on things at eighteen, than you do at fourteen - I can realize that now. To those of you who may find yourself in this situation, I suggest enlisting the help and advice of an adult - one who knows you, and one that you trust. It is not healthy to try and go it alone, whether you may find yourself pregnant or not. And even though this site offers plenty advice, and the people who respond mean well, the internet is no substitute for someone who actually knows you, and can help you deal with the situation. It probably seems crazy, and difficult to admit sexual activity to your parents at a young age, but if you feel that you are old enough to make the decision to do such an adult act, you need to do the responsible thing and inform your parents. They can make sure you get the appropriate doctors check-ups, such as pap smears and STD testing, to prevent problems such as cervical cancer, becoming sterile, or more very serious, long term, life threatening illnesses. You will also need a form of birth control, and ALWAYS condoms. Sex is not a game to be played with these days. And it is not a bargain you can make with your body, and life. It would be hypocritical of me to tell any of you to wait - on that note, however, I will let you know that I sincerely regret my decision to not wait a while to become sexually active. At least until I was in a better place in my life, and in a state to better handle things. There is a big emotional responsibility that comes along with sex, on top of the physical responsibility that you will have.

I wish you all the best, with whatever situation you may find yourself in, and I just hope with all of my heart that I can reach somebody with this. Helping to change even one person's life for the better would make it all worth it.

I know this is a five year old question, but I need to know. Were you pregnant? And did you keep the baby?

14 year olds should not have sex. But I'd take a test. And if its positive, sit your parents down and tell them. They will probably be mad. But they will still love you.
-hope I helped!