Originally Posted by
justcurious55
love,
how is it that less than a week ago you swore there was nothing more than kissing going on and you two were going to wait until you were older and ready for sex. and now today you're pregnant? one part of your story has to be a lie. which is it? if you were a virgin a week ago there is no possible way you could be pregnant and actually know that you are today. now i'm thinking you really must not have had an sex education at all yet. so i'm being entirely serious when i say this, let me explain to you how making babies most commonly goes...
when you have sex, his sperm can live inside your body for up to nearly a week. so you may not conceive the day you have sex. you may not actually conceive until about 5 days later. and then its just a waiting game. some home pregnancy tests claim to be able to give you accurate test results up to 5 days before your missed period. but even with those ones, that still at least a few weeks of waiting and even if the first test is negative, its recommended that you take another one if you actually miss your period. and sometimes even when you've missed your period, you still have to wait another week to take a test. and sometimes there's other reasons why your period is late. so you spend weeks worrying that you're pregnant and being stressed out, which can also make your period late-the stress.
so that's how i know that either you weren't a virgin and lied to us before about there being no sex. or you're lying to us now and you don't know if you're really pregnant or not. or you're lying and still a virgin and there's no way you're pregnant.
and just in case you are pregnant, your father can't just kick you out. if he did, i'd recommend calling child services. although i have to warn you, if it all came to that your boyfriend has a good shot at being arrested for statutory rape because the authorities would have to get involved to help you make sure you and your baby got the proper care and adequate housing (even if its consensual, in the eyes of the law, its a form of rape because you are considered to be too young to consent to it. like it or not, thats the law).
and what does gawjuss mean???? that does not sound like english...