Focus on really getting over her and move past this,hopefully,last relapse.

Let the ex sort out her own problems,you had a lucky escape-no contact and move on.

Sorry that you got used. It's painful when you want someone so much that you would do anything to get them... Even if they don't feel the same way.

I've recently experienced something like this with a girl I was kind of talking too. We went out with her friends and ended up making out with me. The next day she, after she sobered up, she put up her guard again and doesn't really talk to me anymore. She had ex issues anyway... :rolleyes:

It kind of sucks because she was pretty cool, but we all have to live with the consequences of our actions. You need to recover from these consequences by staying away from her. She is using sex as a weapon to get what she wants. That is a sign of emotional immaturity, insecurity, and lack of self-respect.

You can find someone better. Like I tell everyone else, you need to put yourself out there and see who you meet.