You need to get away from your perceived, fantasy world and look around you at the real one. She is hardly your girlfriend, and you have no business punching someone in the nose. There are better, adult ways to deal with insults and abuses.

Reminds me of that guy on Christmas Eve who showed up at his ex in-laws' party and was dressed in a Santa suit. He shot up the people there and burned down the house after shooting an 8 y/o girl in the face. He decided he had been abused by his ex-wife and was going to show all of them, yessiree bobtail.

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You need to get away from your perceived, fantasy world and look around you at the real one. She is hardly your gf, and you have no business punching someone in the nose. There are better, adult ways to deal with insults and abuses.

Reminds me of that guy on Christmas Eve who showed up at his ex in-laws' party and was dressed in a Santa suit. He shot up the people there and burned down the house after shooting an 8 y/o girl in the face. He decided he had been abused by his ex-wife and was gonna show all of them, yessiree bobtail.

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What does that have to do with defending some one who isn't there to defend themselves, maybe I don't have any business punching people in the face, but he has no business calling my girlfriend, and yes she is my girlfriend, a slut, and yeah, there are more adult ways of dealing with things like that, but if you haven't noticed, I'm fifteen

When you start justifying your own bad behavior, that means you have learned nothing, and will make the mistake again.

Get a clue dude, because he was wrong, doesn't make you right. If violence is the only solution you can come up with, your not just thinking wrong, but doing wrong, and that comes with a price to pay too.

You can do better, if you want to.

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what does that have to do with defending some one who isnt there to defend them selves, maybe i dont have any buisness punching people in the face, but he has no buisness calling my gf, and yes she is my gf, a slut, and yeah, there are more adult ways of dealing with things like that, but if you havnt noticed, im fifteen

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Oh, finally. Now you're just a kid, just 15 y/o and hardly responsible for himself. What happened to all that tough talk about law enforcement classes (certainly you're learning something more legally important than how to pick locks, like ethics for instance?), and the SWAT and Blackwater stuff. And now you are calling her a slut too?? Who's going to punch you in the nose?

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Oh, finally. Now you're just a kid, just 15 y/o and hardly responsible for himself. What happened to all that tough talk about law enforcement classes (certainly you're learning something more legally important than how to pick locks, like ethics for instance?), and the SWAT and Blackwater stuff. And now you are calling her a slut too????? Who's going to punch you in the nose?

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I didn't say she was a slut, I was finishing the sentence, there were comas there, so what I said was he had no business calling my girlfreind, then I said yes she is my girlfreind, because you said she is hardly my girlfriend, then I finished the sentense, what I said was he had no business calling my girl friend a slut, understand?
Im studying law inforcement, I'm not in it yet

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Im studying law inforcement, im not in it yet

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I said in a post above, "What happened to all that tough talk about law enforcement classes (certainly you're learning something more legally important than how to pick locks, like ethics for instance?)"

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I said in a post above, "What happened to all that tough talk about law enforcement classes (certainly you're learning something more legally important than how to pick locks, like ethics for instance?)"

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Yes I am, but I'm not a cop yet

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yes i am, but im not a cop yet

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So you won't learn ethics and civilized behavior until you're a cop? The police forces I know about don't hire people who have a history of punching and other bad behavior.

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So you won't learn ethics and civilized behavior until you're a cop? The police forces I know about don't hire people who have a history of punching and other bad behavior.

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They would, they don't care about what you did before you join, it only matters what you do while you're a cop

You certainly don't know anything about police forces, you will go though a very complete background check, including interviews with mental health professionals and a lie detector test.

If you have a history of violence they will not even give you a chance to complete the interview process.

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You certainly don't know anything about police forces, you wil go though a very complete background check, including interviews with mental health professionals and a lie detector test.

If you have a history of violence they will not even give you a chance to complete the interview process.

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Aperintly you don't, yeah background test, yeah lie detector, but aslong as your honest they'll let you in the force, and just because I punched a kid in the face doesn't meen I'm a bad kid, hell, it was an accident, I'm sorry for doing it, godamn, don't go telling me that I can't do what I want to do with life just because I made some mistakes, and don't you dare tell me to go with god, I have a feeling that's comeing up, there is no god for me

Just try not to screw up

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Aperintly you don't, yeah background test, yeah lie detector, but aslong as your honest they'll let you in the force, and just because I punched a kid in the face doesn't meen I'm a bad kid, hell, it was an accident, I'm sorry for doin it, godamn, don't go telling me that I can't do what I want to do with life just because I made some mistakes, and don't you dare tell me to go with god, I have a feeling that's comeing up, there is no god for me

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A policeman has to be literate too (ten mistakes in a quick count of only this post of yours). And no, they won't give you a pass for "being honest" about your uncivilized past. They don't want hotheads on the force. And don't say punching that kid was an accident.

We are not keeping you from getting what you want out of life. You are making very poor choices. Police forces don't want immature, out-of-control people even to apply.

Geez kid, you're immature. Embrace advice, don't bash it. We're telling you that you have problems, very clear ones. Either you want to accept that or not.

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Just because I punched a kid in the face doesn't meen I'm a bad kid, hell, it was an accident,

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No it wasn't, that's BS, which is lame. You made a mistake and sorry doesn't cover it unless you correct that mistake.

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No it wasn't, thats BS, which is lame. You made a mistake and sorry doesn't cover it unless you correct that mistake.

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How do I go about doing that?

Apologize to the affected parties, and mean it, and start thinking before you act. To be better, you must do better.

Leave the excuses for your own behavior behind, and take responsibility for your actions.

For example, talking crazy after drinking to much, stop the behavior of drinking to much. (Not saying you do, just saying as an example) Sometimes apologies are not enough, but if thats all you have, better to learn from the mistake, by not repeat it.

Ok, so I apoligized to everyone who was there, and I let the dude punch me back, in the face
So me and her are good

Sigh, why would you let this kid punch you?

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Sigh, why would you let this kid punch you?

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Or is that his easy answer to get us off his back? I mean, gee, that was days ago. I find it hard to believe the kid's parents haven't done anything about it. I sure would have.