I will never talk to my parents about it, because I'm not even allowed to say "bloody hell" in front of them!
And my dad scares me so I don't like him :P

I can do this on my own, I'm not concerned anymore, I'll find out when I find out

I hate spiders, and I hate daddy long legs too, they're just flying death machines!

I know what the people on here are like, this isn't my first post, everyone is helpful (or tries to be) :)

I think every teen goes through this, its just another step in finding out who you want to be.

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Ok, so im 15 (16 in 2 weeks! woo!) and i've always thought that i was completely straight. I read yaoi and things but i've never been attracted to a girl, but i've noticed while talking to a friend who is similar, i have a fascination about breasts!

My group of friends always pretend to be lesbian with each other and we grope whenever we feel like it because we're childish like that, but i like it so now im paranoid.
I can't visualize myself going out with a girl, but i can imagine a one night stand thing going on, I'm attracted to men, i definitely know that.

I was attracted to women at a stage when i was younger (around 9 ish) at that time i had a bi-curious best friend and she "used" me to test herself so we sort of had sex, i dont know if it counts though because neither of us knew what we were doing, we just went with the flow.
And now im confused and a little dreading of what i am. Can someone tell me?:confused:

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Honey don't even worry about it. If you'e a lesbian that's what you are. If you're strait that's what you are. If you're bi guess what? THAT.IS.WHAT.YOU.ARE. I was the same way when I was 12. Take it from me that you should just do what feels rite. Eventually you will know for sure but for now just chill out a and don't stress

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honey don't even worry about it. if you'e a lesbian that's what you are. if you're strait that's what you are. If you're bi guess what? THAT.IS.WHAT.YOU.ARE. I was the same way when i was 12. take it from me that you should just do what feels rite. eventually you will know for sure but for now just chill out a nd don't stress

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Well, that's dangerous advice.

I do agree that whatever she is, that's what she is and that's who she should be. But, do what feels rite, not good advice to give to a girl just about to turn 16.

How is it bad advice?

Actually, I think I know your point when I think of it, because of that thing with my boyfriend all those years back and I thought that was right...

Maybe I should "do what feels right after thinking it through properly" :)

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Maybe I should "do what feels right after thinking it through properly" :)

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That is a great suggestion.

Yay, I'm brilliant! :D

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Originally Posted by Princess-IMYM

Ok, so im 15 (16 in 2 weeks! woo!) and i've always thought that i was completely straight. I read yaoi and things but i've never been attracted to a girl, but i've noticed while talking to a friend who is similar, i have a fascination about breasts!

My group of friends always pretend to be lesbian with each other and we grope whenever we feel like it because we're childish like that, but i like it so now im paranoid.
I can't visualize myself going out with a girl, but i can imagine a one night stand thing going on, I'm attracted to men, i definitely know that.

I was attracted to women at a stage when i was younger (around 9 ish) at that time i had a bi-curious best friend and she "used" me to test herself so we sort of had sex, i dont know if it counts though because neither of us knew what we were doing, we just went with the flow.
And now im confused and a little dreading of what i am. Can someone tell me?:confused:

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OK look I've been through the same thing your going through right now. OK I'm going to be 16 soon as well but I am certain that I'm a bisexual female. See I believe that you just have to experiment a little to figure out if that is what you want. You see its like buying a new pair of shoes you have to try them on to see if their the ones you want, right? Ya see it all boils down to what U want, (do you want to be with a guy? Do you want to be with a girl? Or do you want to be with both?) So in the end you will know what you want you just have to give it time.

~JeNn(im here for u)

I think I have a preferral for guys actually, I can see when a girl is drop dead gorgeous or if she is very fit, but I can only imagine myself looking good with a guy.

Um... Yesterday my best friend told me that she loved me more than a friend should, but she didn't fancy me, and she was embarrassed about it and said she'd probably get jealous if I went out with someone, but she's going out with my cousin.
I still love her as much as I did before she told me (in the friend way, I don't have romantic feelings for her) but I'm not entirely sure I understand what she meant.
She loves me more than a friend but not in a homosexual way, what does that mean?

Maybe she meant that she loves you like a sister. :)

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ok look ive been through the same thing ur goin through right now. ok im going to be 16 soon as well but I am certain that im a bisexual female. See I believe that u just have to experiment a little to figure out if that is wat u want. U see its like buying a new pair of shoes u have to try them on to see if their the ones u want, right? Ya see it all boils down to wat U want, (do u wanna be with a guy? do u wanna be with a girl? or do u wanna be with both?) So in the end u will know wat u want u just have to give it time.

~JeNn(im here for u)

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When I go shoe shopping I don't try on a pair unless I really like them, so you see, I don't have to try on every pair in the store. Do you understand where I'm going with this?

Experimenting with sex is never a good idea.

Time will tell, not experimentation needed. You are what you are and will be what you are meant to be, just give it time.

She said she was embarrassed about it though, if she loved me like a sister she wouldn't start crying would she?
I thought it would be like how I love this boy but don't want to be in a relationship with him, its hard to explain the feeling but its like I want to marry him and have a family and live together, but I don't want to date him or anything.

And I would never experiment with sex, that's just stupid.
I have grown a brain over the years since I was 9 and impressionable.

The only thing I can tell you is to ask her what she meant. Unfortunately no one else will be able to tell you, only her.

Ask her, talk to her, find out why she said what she did and what she meant. :)

I don't want to push her and she likes my cousin, I don't mind what she thinks about me because she's my bestie and I love everything that comes with her, So it doesn't really matter until she wants to talk about it again, I was just hoping for a little insight :)

Sorry, I wish I had some insight, but it's hard to figure out what's on someone else's mind, unless they tell you.

Good luck. :)

It's all right, I accept her anyway :)

That's what friends are for, acceptance, love, no matter what. :)

You're on the right track. :)

Well, she is my wife.
Last year we got married out side of the co-op in November, to prove how close we were and still are :D
She's like family anyway