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Originally Posted by AnnieMac713

I think your too young to worry about being on the pill.I think the longer you wait, the better off you'll be Good things are made to wait, I was 18 when I lost my virinity.You have a lot of life ahead of you, its better if you wait.. THINK ABOUT IT.........;) ]

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It is good to wait but if you have a partner who is serious then don't deny yourself the opportunity to develop that relationship and let it blossom, you could have an active happy and safe sex life if your responsible about it.
Don't lose it just because of peer pressure with a one night stand, sex is HIGHLY ADDICTIVE you can't have it sporadically as you'll find yourself wanting it regulary and becoming frustrated. You might already know alll this and have just run out of money for rubbers?

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Originally Posted by raggablue

it is good to wait but if you have a partner who is serious then dont deny yourself the opportunity to develope that relationship and let it blossom,

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WRONG, WRONG, WRONG!!

If the situation is that you would lose a relationship if you don't give in to sex with your partner, then it is NOT a serious relationship. Love is not lust. If your partner cares about you, then that partner is not going to pressure you to give in to something you aren't ready for.

Relationships need to blossom MUTUALLY.

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Originally Posted by raggablue

it is good to wait but if you have a partner who is serious then dont deny yourself the opportunity to develope that relationship and let it blossom, you could have an active happy and safe sex life if your responsible about it.
don't lose it just because of peer pressure with a one night stand, sex is HIGHLY ADDICTIVE you can't have it sporadically as you'll find yourself wanting it regulary and becoming frustrated. you might already know alll this and have just run out of money for rubbers?

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I wouldn't call sex 'highly addictive' its just up to those who like it more but I would have to agree with scott here, I speak with expirience here when I say this but some relationships change once engaged in sex and depending on the partner in this discussion he might just be in it for sex and then dump her as I have had done to me and so I would strongly recommend that you wait a little while before giving in to his 'lust' and see if you are 'truly' ready to go to that level with him because if you are unexpirienced in sex then he may think that you aren't worth it and then you will just become another notch on his belt and move on to the next chick who is willing... I realise I am only 15 as you are but I have 3 years of expirience which I realise isn't much compared to the adults in this discussion but its more than nothing and trust me sweetie, its not a nice feeling to be judged by the way you have sex and be dumped for your performance..

ScottGem,

"One can gain experience from listening to and learning from the experience of others."

Never gonna happen.

I don't know what it was like for you as a teenage but I knew everything. lol

You're right of course but it's going over some heads I'm afraid.

This is an amazing board, and I love participating, and I have lots of life experience to share, and I have lots of opinions to share, and I try quite hard at times to get a point across, but all said and done all I can do, all any of us can do, is answer the question, give them the information - what they do with it is up to them.

I have tried to encourage young people to listen to other people on here, people with lots of experience, for one simple reason... They just don't have the time to learn it all. But do they listen?

All we can do is read the question, come up with the most helpful answer and start typing. Hopefully they will come back and read it and hopefully it will help them through one more day. Nothing we do on here is going to change anyone's life - if only.

I'm sorry, and I hope I'm wrong about that, but that's the reality.

I dinn't say anything about pressurising, because that's not acceptable.

I didn't say it would be easy (learning by listening), just that's its possible.

I Pretty Sure U Can't Go Without A Parent, Try Going To A Teen Clinic! They Should Have One Near You! Teen Clinic Let Teens Get Checkup's N Birthcontrol Without Da Parent Knowing! Are Talk 2 Ya Mom N Set A Docs Appt.

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Originally Posted by DEZDABADDEST

I PRETTY SURE U can't GO WITHOUT A PARENT, TRY GOING TO A TEEN CLINIC !! THEY SHOULD HAVE ONE NEAR YOU! TEEN CLINIC LET TEENS GET CHECKUP'S N BIRTHCONTROL WITHOUT DA PARENT KNOWING!! ARE TALK 2 YA MOM N SET A DOCS APPT.

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Please, in the future, no allcaps and no chatspeak. Thanks.

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Originally Posted by Tuscany

Wrong- progression can be marked by how you use the information given to you. Others have stated that they have learned from a friend who got an std. GREAT way to learn. Kinesthetic learning does not mean you have to do the actual act to learn about it.

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Where were you educated? Kinesthetic learners learn through process of trial and error and through the physical act of doing, if you've studied latin you should find the route and clarify your understanding

Let us all remember that Delly posted on December 8, and has not been back since December 10.

Exploring your body and welcoming sexual maturity is all part of going from teen to a fully grown human being, and no matter how much a person listens and learns, one will NEVER really understand. You could spend hours describing and educating someone on sex and they will still be blown away at how undescribable sex is. And curiosity is the only thing they will feel in their mind. You seem te be distancing yourselves from us , the age gap does not have to be a wall between our ideals

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Originally Posted by raggablue

exploring your body and welcoming sexual maturity is all part of going from teen to a fully grown human being, and no matter how much a person listens and learns, one will NEVER really understand. you could spend hours describing and educating someone on sex and they will still be blown away at how undescribable sex is. and curiosity is the only thing they will feel in their mind. you seem te be distancing yourselves from us , the age gap does not have to be a wall between our ideals

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The problem is that we're trying to PROTECT the youth we're talking to. Curiosity is great--but the problem comes up when consequences happen. It was a lot easier to enforce the consequences when what happened was --you got married, or you had the baby in secret and placed it for adoption. NOW--adults are paying for the "curiosity" of teens... and you wonder why we want you to sit on your hands until you're old enough to PAY for a baby?

Get real... we all understand the curiosity, and the urges, and how hard it is to abstain sometimes--believe it or not, we were all there once.

Ragga--I can't BELIEVE that you're promoting that someone as young as 15 (or THIRTEEN!) should be having sex. Are you out of your mind?

If you can't pay the consequences--and I do mean ALL of the consequences, including bills, emotional and mental consequences, shame, guilt, whatever--then you shouldn't be having sex. Period. Your parents, and society, should NOT have to pay because you were "curious"

"Is there anyone so wise as to learn by the experience of others?" - Voltaire

If you read the other thread I definitely do not promote underage sex

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Originally Posted by J_9

Let us all remember that Delly posted on December 8, and has not been back since December 10.

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I agree.. what I think we have here is a opinion war.. kind of silly really hehehe

Sorry but I disagree. What we have here is adults and young people communicating. We may not always agree or even like what the other is saying but any communication is better than none. Personally I think this has been the most interesting thread I have read in a while. Most youngsters we normally deal with would have spat in our faces and stormed off by now.

Yes they'll give it to you. They have to give it to you. Doctors are souposed to encourage safe methods of sex.

I doubt "give" they will give you a prescription that you can take and purchase the birth control pills.