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  • Nov 14, 2008, 09:05 PM
    thepo3

    Hey I'm new to this and I'm not sure if anyone is still answering in this thread but I am now in this situation I have fallen for my 'straight' best friend and don't no what to do :( I am recently recovering from anorexia as I had other issues and he's been there every step of the way for me and I have just recently told my mum that I am confused about my sexuality as I'm sure I love him but I love girls too I will be getting counselling soon but I just need some advice first if anyone can help
  • Nov 14, 2008, 09:15 PM
    THEpurplepeanut

    Hey I'm only 13 but I think you should just tell him how you feel and don't be afraid to show your pride in being gay ( sorry if that offended you in any way) Don't be afraid to be who you really are and don't care what other people think what really matters is how deep you feel for your friend. I f you really want to go that way then I say "Rock On". But just go with your gut if it doesn't feel right then don't do it. I hope this helps :)
  • Nov 14, 2008, 09:59 PM
    thepo3

    Hey thanks I'm really not sure what to do I don't really want to risk losing him as a friend so...
  • Nov 29, 2008, 06:16 PM
    THEpurplepeanut
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by thepo3 View Post
    hey im new to this and im not sure if anyone is still answering in this thread but i am now in this situation i have fallen for my 'straight' best friend and dont no what to do :( i am recently recovering from anorexia as i had other issues and he's been there every step of the way for me and i have just recently told my mum that i am confused about my sexuality as i'm sure i love him but i love girls too i will be getting counselling soon but i just need some advice first if anyone can help

    Don't worry about the counseling it'll help you get through your problems, and about this whole "gay-straight" thing my opinion is to just take a step back and look at yourself and try to figure out which way your life is going and follow the path that seems to suit your personality the best. I'm not against being gay but I just don't know what else to tell you because I don't really roll that way (no offense) p.s. great job beating anorexia, it's hard to beat and I'm in the same boat, being a 13 year old girl isn't easy when you see a bunch of really under weight people on TV. So with this whole best friend thing don't tell him now just think if you really want to go that way and if it works out I say "Rock on man!" so good luck and have a happy thanksgiving! :D
  • Dec 1, 2008, 03:06 PM
    thepo3

    Hey thanks a lot for your advice :) and happy thanksgiving to you to, if any one else has advice I would really appreciate it thanks.

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