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When the time is right for you, it will happen. Don't take it personally. I didn't have my first boyfriend until I was 21. And I was always the cute, outgoing, smart girl. I would get down about it a lot too, but just have fun you're only 16! In ten years from now you will look back and realize it's not that big of a deal. Don't rush into anything that isn't happening naturally for you. When it's meant to be, it will happen.
Well maybe u just need to get to know the guys before they ask you outQuote:
Originally Posted by swimmer0714
So they can get to know you
Honey, I am a year older than you and I am with my first boyfriend I have ever had. We have been together 9 months and it was my first. Don't worry, you will meet that special first love when the time is right. For both of you.
I am guessing OP has not been back since Mar 24, 2007, 08:12 PM
She may be a yr and 4 months older and out kissing on a guy by now.
Just because you haven't been asked out or kissed doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. I'm sixteen as well, and I've never been kisssed. Like you, I'm pretty, nice, smart, and fun. I have had three boyfriends, but my longest one was a month and all three of them were mistakes. What you need to do first is feel better about yourself, then guys will notice your confidence. Trust me. There's no shortcut.Quote:
Originally Posted by swimmer0714
:) I know exactly what your talking about! I have the same thing going on. I mean, (judging by your screenname thing) we are both athletic(im a runner), we know we are attractive, and fun, but shy. OMG I can tlk really easily to guys I'm not intrested in, but I get sooo nervous around guys I like, I can barely tlk to them. I can't understand what is going on either. Just so you know, Ive never had my first kiss(unless you count when I was 7, which I wouldn't count) or a boyfriend!
Lol I'm exactly like u except I'm a guy :SQuote:
Originally Posted by swimmer0714
Well let me just put it this way... there is nothing wrong with you! Most guys your age are only looking for easy girls. You explained yourself as being smart and pretty, which is really great! But for guys this means commitment and actually trying. They really, really do not want any of the seriousness you would want from a relationship so they are scared to approach you, they much rather get with a girl that is not as smart and pretty and get what they need from her (aka sex).
So before you freak out get depressed, change your name to Candy and start hiking your skirt up to your bellybutton, ask yourself this: Would I want to jeapordize my dignity to get with someone who will only use me for sexual needs? I hope your answer is NO.
Truth be told... I was like you at 16 I had never dated anyone and only kissed one guy when we played Truth or Dare in camp. Now I am 23, graduating from medical school in 2 years and already married to the most amazing man (who I met when I graduated from high school at the after party). Your life doesn't have to end up like mine, but I guarantee you that in the next few years if not sooner you will find someone who actually cares about you.
So keep your head up, goals high and smile. Who knows what tomorrow will bring.
:) Hope this helps!
Don't feel bad, I'm an 18 year old boy who never kissed a girl or gone out with one. If you think of it its almost like we're the same. When you find someone you like, you'll know it. The hard part is talking to them and telling them that you like them.
Danteje your right its so hard to tell them how you feel
I think there is nothing wrong with you... just wait for your time... Like I know girls having their first kiss at 12 and girls having theirs at 18 it just depends on the guys you hang out with o.O Being shy is also hard because I'm 13 and I'm REALLY shy around the girls I like but I can never get up the nerve to ask them out. Like for instance I was going to ask this girl out but all my friends who had before got slapped -hard- so I was really scared.. Maybe all the guys who like you are shy as I am o.O HOPE THIS HELPS =) psst read my question =)
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