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  • Dec 15, 2011, 08:51 AM
    Wondergirl
    Arrrrgggghhh! Why are you off your meds? (This might be the key to many of your school and Tasha problems!)
  • Dec 15, 2011, 08:53 AM
    Aurora_Bell
    Yes! Do your teachers know that you have ADHD? They may need to edit how they explain things to you. And yes, why are you off the meds? Being back on the meds might help you concentrate on the subject at hand.
  • Dec 15, 2011, 08:54 AM
    misshelpfull
    ITS NOT MY IDEA its my dr's thank you for caring though
  • Dec 15, 2011, 08:57 AM
    misshelpfull
    You they know
  • Dec 15, 2011, 09:03 AM
    Aurora_Bell
    I think you should ask your parents to make an appointment with your Doc, and explain what's happening at school.
  • Dec 15, 2011, 09:03 AM
    Wondergirl
    Do you know why the doctor took you off meds?
  • Dec 15, 2011, 09:07 AM
    misshelpfull
    You she would and I have never been in jail I don't want to go lol , I am a pritty good kid wonce you get to know me
  • Dec 15, 2011, 09:09 AM
    misshelpfull
    I don't know and you I'll try to get back on them for you guys and for me too I need to pass school
  • Dec 15, 2011, 09:09 AM
    Aurora_Bell
    What do you mean about jail? What would she do? I'm confused...
  • Dec 15, 2011, 09:11 AM
    Aurora_Bell
    If you just explain to your doctor and teachers that you are having a hard time, I am sure they will understand and try to help you help yourself. I went to both of the schools in Fredericton, the larger one was a bit harder because I got swept under the rug with so many other kids there, but the new school on the North End is a fantastic school, with amazing teachers. I would have never have passed grade 10 math if it weren't for the teachers at that school!
  • Dec 15, 2011, 09:11 AM
    misshelpfull
    Never mind its for an aothe comment and she would do anything to make me mad
  • Dec 15, 2011, 11:46 AM
    ScottGem
    Miss, we can give you advice, we can try to give you moral support. But we can't DO for you. You need to DO for yourself. This means making your father take you to the doctor, talking to the school nurse if you get sick at school. Trying to talk to a counselor or therapist.

    I think you are a good kid who is getting overwhelmed by things going on. You are at a difficult time in life, not quite an adult but more than a child. Its not easy and there is nothing wrong with seeking help to cope. But we can only do so much. You need to force the issue with your father to get you the professional help you need.
  • Dec 16, 2011, 04:37 AM
    DaniCalifornia
    Make new goals within school! You should continue, darling. I'm not far off your age, and I dropped out early in the year to move in with an (EX!)boyfriend. And now, I'm living with my mother, who I struggle to get along with, applying for a ridiculous amount of jobs, and not being asked in for interviews. I'm an intelligent woman, I just didn't go through with the qualifications to prove it! Please listen to me when I say don't quit!

    X Dani
  • Dec 16, 2011, 05:35 AM
    misshelpfull
    I woont and you can do anything if you put your mind to it I know that is true, and about the mom thing I'm the same way just with my dads girlfriend.
  • Dec 16, 2011, 05:42 AM
    DaniCalifornia
    Sorry Misshelpfull, this was a response to your new question asking whether you should drop out of school. Yet again, I think the threads were merged. This is getting confusing now.

    And I know how you feel about your dads girlfriend. I REALLY do. I had the same situation, except in my case, they broke up and she refused to leave our house. So she became a squatter. I started receiving death threats from her!

    X Dani
  • Dec 16, 2011, 05:47 AM
    misshelpfull
    My really mom did the same
  • Dec 16, 2011, 05:51 AM
    Kahani Punjab
    Miss Helpful,

    Firstly, welcome to this great site!

    You are in a piquent situation, no doubt, but a bit of patience, conversation, communication and counselling will help, no doubt, but you also need to dare. I mean take courage.

    But, one thing I will like to appreciate is that you are a COURAGEOUS, GREAT and INTELLIGENT girl. Everyone faces problems in life. You are not ALONE to face such difficulities, and it is also important to remember that the adversities bring gold to us.
  • Dec 16, 2011, 05:52 AM
    misshelpfull
    I know and thake you
  • Dec 16, 2011, 05:53 AM
    misshelpfull
    I meen thank you
  • Dec 16, 2011, 06:00 AM
    Kahani Punjab
    Miss Helpful,

    Do not lose heart. I hope everything will turn out for good. But, you must remember that by trying to involve yourself in other things or by indulging in games, fun and entertainment, you can sort of overcome your pain to some extent. I believe the big GOD is looking at you (a little helpless girl) facing such a difficult situation, and will surely come to your rescue. But, go to a counseller, for sure.

    Good luck!
  • Dec 16, 2011, 06:12 AM
    misshelpfull
    Forever lol
  • Dec 16, 2011, 06:13 AM
    Kahani Punjab
    Miss Helpful,

    What does "forever LOLZ" mean, dear?

    If you (as it seems) ask if you can be happy forever, the answer is yeah.
  • Dec 16, 2011, 06:26 AM
    DaniCalifornia
    "LOL" is - Laugh out loud, and the "Z" exaggerates it.

    And Good luck misshelpfull. Keep us updated.

    X Dani
  • Dec 16, 2011, 06:33 AM
    misshelpfull
    For sour
  • Dec 16, 2011, 06:34 AM
    misshelpfull
    You it dose but its hard to be happy now and if I were forever
  • Dec 16, 2011, 06:37 AM
    misshelpfull
    Can people just message me please this is getting confusing thank you
  • Dec 16, 2011, 06:40 AM
    Aurora_Bell
    Misshelpfull, we don't do private Messages to give out help. We like to keep it public.

    I think what is confusing here is the threads are being merged, and there is no mod notes with the merges. Maybe if we could quote which response we are responding to, that might clear things up.
  • Dec 16, 2011, 06:42 AM
    misshelpfull
    OK?
  • Dec 16, 2011, 06:50 AM
    ScottGem
    Your threads were originally merged, then I merged in the new one you started about school. Dani was the only one who replied before it was merged. This is because there is a lot of background in the original threads that will help members understand your situation and better help you. So please keep your responses to this thread.

    You can quote from a specific post if you want to make it clear what you are responding to, or address a specific person. (i.e. @Scottgem... )

    But we prefer that all responses be kept public.
  • Dec 16, 2011, 06:59 AM
    misshelpfull
    All right
  • Dec 16, 2011, 07:45 AM
    misshelpfull
    (Grrrrrrrrrr) I hate music class it's pritty bad when I have a better life on the web
  • Dec 16, 2011, 07:55 AM
    Wondergirl
    What do you do in music class? Study composers or sing or play an instrument?
  • Dec 16, 2011, 08:05 AM
    Aurora_Bell
    I took a look at this site here, and it seems pretty comprehensive. Have a look, if it doesn't help I'll try and find another site for you.

    Introduction to Reading Music
  • Dec 16, 2011, 08:10 AM
    misshelpfull
    Thank you so much and we play keybord something I suck at
  • Dec 16, 2011, 08:13 AM
    Aurora_Bell
    Once you master the keyboard, you can play anything! I used to do the keyboard and the clarinet. Once I knew those two, I taught myself the flute and the sax.

    But I know what you mean. Keyboard can be tricky at times.
  • Dec 16, 2011, 08:23 AM
    misshelpfull
    Awsome I wish I had time to lear the geatar
  • Dec 16, 2011, 08:38 AM
    DaniCalifornia
    Aye keyboard is difficult. I was lucky enough to have learned it from a young age, and was the only one in the class to be able to play with both hands.

    Would have been different if it were the guitar or something though. I'm rubbish!
  • Dec 16, 2011, 09:00 AM
    misshelpfull
    Lol know, I love guitar and I sing
  • Dec 16, 2011, 11:09 AM
    misshelpfull
    It feels like all my teachers are out to get me grrrrr la
  • Dec 16, 2011, 11:29 AM
    misshelpfull
    I love science

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