Ask Me Help Desk - Young possible pregnancy.. please please help I have no one to turn too

You are in my prayers and let us know . Please

I still have one more question.. what are the chances now, saywe didn't have sex but did sexaul things. What are the chances now? & will the 72 hour thing help a lot more

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Originally Posted by penguin52

i still have one more question..what are the chances now, saywe didnt have sex but did sexaul things. what are the chances now? & will the 72 hour thing help a lot more

Did you ask him if you had sex? You can ask him again. If you didn't have sex the chances are slim that you are pregnant.

I wouldn't trust a drunken cousin. Tell your mom about this.

I asked him & he said we didn't. But I still want to be safee. Can I still take the morning after pill? And what are side effects of being pregnant, and do they occur early like days later?

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

I wouldn't trust a drunken cousin. Tell your mom about this.

I agree with Wondergirl.. you need to tell your mom. She will help you through this. If the cousin lied and you did have sex, she'll know anyway if you are pregnant. Tell her.

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Originally Posted by penguin52

i asked him & he said we didnt. but i still want to be safee. can i still take the morning after pill? and what are side effects of being pregnant, and do they occur early like days later?

You can still take the morning after pill... more effective the earlier you take it, but it still can be a benefit. IF you did become pregnant, which if contact was as limited as you believe it was would be unlikely, implantation of the egg would not have occurred yet. This is why it can still help to use the morning after pill even at this stage.

Sometimes possible symptoms will start before the next period is due, but they can often be similar to premenstrual symptoms so not always easy to know for sure until later for most women.

As others have mentioned, I too hope you learn from this experience and make better choices for yourself from now on. I wish you well...

I hope you have thought about what I have told you about telling your mom.

There is no way she is going to hate you. You might get yelled at and she may cry, but you are still her daughter.

Let this be a lesson to you. Don't drink anymore. You are so young you couldn't see the danger and now you're learning the hard way.

Your cousin is a danger to other little girls. You both should have known better.

Tell someone, even if you're not pregnant the shame of incest will eat away at you.

Things will never be the same between you and your cousin and both of you will drift apart.

Forgive yourself and try to bring something from this that may help someone else in your family who may trust this guy.

Please tell your mom...

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Your cousin is a danger to other little girls.

Kit, I hate to say this, but unless you have proof, this is a very serious statement to make.

The cousin is also 15, he's just as much a victim here as the OP. They both drank and they both did something stupid. Just because she's a girl doesn't mean she's a victim.

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Forgive yourself and try to bring something from this that may help someone else in your family who may trust this guy.

Why are you assuming that this kid is a molester because of one incident where two people were at fault?

Unless there's proof that this boy has done this to someone else, please, let's not label him as a molester. If you do, than the label fits the OP as well. Girls can molest too.

This has me upset. This wasn't forced on her, not from what I read. If this goes to court, well, they were both drunk, both underage, and both at fault.

Bad idea? Yes. Big mistake? Yes. Stupid thing to do? Hell yes. Molestation? I don't see it.

Please do not label this 15 year old cousin when it's clear that they both did something stupid.