Ask Me Help Desk - Is it really that bad? I didn't see anything wrong with it.

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Originally Posted by Kitkat22

There are sick, twisted people in this world who would do anything to anybody to get their kicks.

You have left yourself open to someone seeing those pictures.
Not only that, think of the young people who are raped and murdered because of something like this.

There's no question in my mind at all that you are younger than you say you are. I hope you're scared and I hope you have enough sense to stop this behavior.

What happens if one of those pictures turn up on a porn site?
You can't undo what you've done
but you can learn from it.

Im not lying about my age. You can check my Facebook if you want.

Okay. So, your age isn't a question here. You've also responded to just about everyone who has posted a response to you on this thread. That's admirable!

What are you going to do now?

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Originally Posted by Clough

Okay. So, your age isn't a question here. You've also responded to just about everyone who has posted a response to you on this thread. That's admirable!

What are you going to do now?

It is really scary that this is a #1 hit on Google. I really don't want that. I understand what everyone is trying to say about those pictures and that anyone could be able to see them at one point but I highly doubt they would. They guys I sent those pictures to are a lot older than me. They're probably more worried about whether they themselves are in trouble.

Is that you in all of the sites that can be found by clicking on the following link?

LINK

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Originally Posted by Clough

Is that you in all of the sites that can be found by clicking on the following link?

LINK

Wow. Yea, that's me. I use this user name for everything.

Now you see how exposed you can be! Do you really want that much exposure?

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Originally Posted by Clough

Now you see how exposed you can be! Do you really want that much exposure?

No, I don't

Then I would suggest that you start using a new user name and don't share it with anyone else, except those whom you really want to know what it is.

You can even start using a different user name on this site. However, your original one will remain. The posts will also remain. If things get changed too much, then it destroys the integrity of the threads.

Please just be really careful with what you post on any site. You never really know how much exposure you're going to be getting! Please also read the Rules and Terms of Service of this site carefully!

Thanks!

I can see that you're modifying your avatar. This should be interesting...

I can see now that you're modifying your options.

Kind of scary that someone can see what you're doing, don't you think?

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Originally Posted by Clough

I can see now that you're modifying your options.

Kind of scary that someone can see what you're doing, don't you think?

How can you see that?

Okay, it's getting really late for me! I need to get some sleep!

Believe it or not, I need to be able to get up to play for church this morning!

I responded to one of your earlier threads. I hope that you'll respond in kind on it.

I'm glad that you removed your avatar that was an image of you! I hope that you'll be working hard in the future to protect yourself from potential danger!

Later...

Goodnight! :)

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Originally Posted by Simone21295

How can you see that?

I have a number of different things open on the Internet and on this site that allows me to see different things.

I have enjoyed discussing things with you!

Please be careful!

Later...

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Originally Posted by Clough

I have a number of different things open on the Internet and on this site that allows me to see different things.

I have enjoyed discussing things with you!

Please be careful!

Later...

Ok. Thanks for your help

Simone.. I hope you see how people here are concerned about you. There are people all over this world who can find out anything they want about anybody.

Everyone knows someone who can access anything on a computer they wish too. I wish it weren't so but it is.

Be careful... people are able to do anything today with a computer they wish too. Talk to someone.

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Originally Posted by Kitkat22

Simone..I hope you see how people here are concerned about you. There are people all over this world who can find out anything they want about anybody.

Everyone knows someone who can access anything on a computer they wish too. I wish it weren't so but it is.

Be careful...people are able to do anything today with a computer they wish too. Talk to someone.

Ok. Ill tell them when I go back to school that I would like someone to talk to.

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Originally Posted by Simone21295

Ok. Ill tell them when I go back to school that I would like someone to talk to.

I'm so happy you are going to talk to someone. Tell them everything that's bothering you. Tell them about the pictures. Pour out your feelings and please stop the nude photo exchanging. Blessings to you and you are in my prayers.:)

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Originally Posted by Kitkat22

I'm so happy you are going to talk to someone. Tell them everything that's bothering you. Tell them about the pictures. Pour out your feelings and please stop the nude photo exchanging. Blessings to you and you are in my prayers.:)

Do I have to tell them that? Since it is illegal, wouldn't that be like a confession or something? Or am I watching too much Law & Order?

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Originally Posted by Simone21295

Do I have to tell them that? Since it is illegal, wouldnt that be like a confession or somthing? Or am I watching too much Law & Order?

Once you start talking and your comfortable with that teacher or counselor, I think it would be good to ask what would happen if someone sent nude photos to someone. They may already know and confession is good for the soul.

It's up to you whatever you want to tell them. Just tell them the things that are bothering you. Let us know what happens.

Simone a girl I went to school with did something similar but she posed nude on web cam.

A few weeks later the guy she posed nude for threatened to tell her cousin. She did not realise that he knew who she was. Thought he was a stranger. He had recorded her and held it over her head for months. One day he tried to blackmail her into doing things with him. Which is when she told her parents what had happened.

This ended up getting around the whole school. She got so embarrassed and wouldn't come to school anymore.

Your lucky your mum found out before it got too far and you couldn't turn it around.

Don't do it again. Its not worth a few minutes of fun.

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Originally Posted by aimee_tt

Simone a girl i went to school with did something similar but she posed nude on web cam.

A few weeks later the guy she posed nude for threatened to tell her cousin. She did not realise that he knew who she was. thought he was a stranger. He had recorded her and held it over her head for months. One day he tried to blackmail her into doing things with him. Which is when she told her parents what had happened.

This ended up getting around the whole school. She got so embarrased and wouldnt come to school anymore.

Your lucky your mum found out before it got too far and you couldnt turn it around.

Dont do it again. Its not worth a few minutes of fun.

Simone... I'll be thinking of you today and saying a prayer. You can turn your life around starting today. Aimee and the others have given you great advice. Love yourself and think of the great young woman you can be by making good choices... Blessings:)

Ok. I will really try not to do these things again. Thank you for your advice and concern for me.

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Originally Posted by Simone21295

Ok. I will really try not to do these things again. Thank you for your advice and concern for me.

Be good and study hard and no more sending nude pictures of yourself to anyone at school or anywhere... :)

OK, I have 1 more question. Should I tell my boyfriend about what I did? My mom taking away my phone really hurt our relationship. I bearly get to talk to him now and I definitely can't see him. Were putting our relationship on hold for now. This is all my fault. Should I tell him?

Hi again, Simone21295!

What have you told him so far about why you can't see each other, please?

Thanks!

I told him 1 of my ex bfs was trying to get back with me by sending me pictures while my mama was checking my phone. I told him about last year when I did that but we weren't dating then.

Was what you told to him the truth?

Concerning you sending images, unless there is the chance of your images being found somewhere, my thought would be not to tell him. It's one of the things that's now in your past.

Kind of a tough call though...

Simone.. What's past is past. The important thing is to be the best person you can be and learn from your mistakes.

No, its not the truth. He doesn't know I sent pictures too. He thinks I told the guy not to but he did it any way.

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Originally Posted by Kitkat22

Simone..What's past is past. The important thing is to be the best person you can be and learn from your mistakes.

Thanks for the help. Ill just keep this to myself.

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Originally Posted by Simone21295

No, its not the truth. He doesnt know I sent pictures too. He thinks I told the guy not to but he did it any way.

If he were to find out that you also sent pictures, then there will be a problem. So, it's best that you tell him.

Just be upfront with him and begin by telling him that there's something that you really need to get off your chest and that you're sorry for lying to him and that you know how much trouble it causes and that you won't do it again.

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Originally Posted by Clough

If he were to find out that you also sent pictures, then there will be a problem. So, it's best that you tell him.

Just be upfront with him and begin by telling him that there's something that you really need to get off of your chest and that you're sorry for lying to him and that you know how much trouble it causes and that you won't do it again.

He won't find out.

How can you be sure about that, please?

In different states, Ive heard of people your age going to jail about stuff like this. You may think you are innocent, but when it is reported you can be in serious trouble. I would hate to see anyone else go to jail for something like this. Im just a year older than you, but keep what you have private, and you won't have to ask.

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Originally Posted by Simone21295

He wont find out.

So you're not willing to come clean with someone who thinks that he knows you? You should consider even being in a "relationship" right now if you're going to insist on being so irresponsible and selfish.

Just because you get a cheap thrill out of sending guys your naked image doesn't mean that "it's not hurting anyone". Your mother should be commended for keeping close tabs on you. It sure looks like she needs to.

You are worried about your phone, when you should really be ashamed of yourself.

Use your better judgement, and common sense, in the future.

I was just up late thinking about this old account and I just wanted to let those who cared to know I'm all right. I don't do these things anymore and I'm still with my boyfriend and I still never told him and never will =). He came to my graduation, my mom likes him, and I think my life is just a lot better now than it ised to be.

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Originally Posted by Simone21295

I was just up late thinking about this old account and i just wanted to let those who cared to know im alright. I dont do these things anymore and im still with my bf and i still never told him and never will =). He came to my graduation, my mom likes him, and i think my life is just a lot better now than it ised to be.

Thanks for letting us know. Im glad things are better for you and I hope your future is even brighter. Congrats on your graduation. Great job!!

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Originally Posted by Simone21295

I was just up late thinking about this old account and i just wanted to let those who cared to know im alright. I dont do these things anymore and im still with my bf and i still never told him and never will =). He came to my graduation, my mom likes him, and i think my life is just a lot better now than it ised to be.

I'm so glad you came back to let us know how you're doing. So often we give advice and the poster never comes back to tell us how it worked out.

Congrats on your graduation. You should be very proud of yourself. I hope you keep us posted on how things go from here on out. You can do great things, you just need to set your mind to it. :)

This deffinately NOT okay child Pornography is ILLEGAL this behaviour is deffinatly innapropriate.You don't want to be labeled as a sl*t or sc**k this can make experiences at school awful .DON'T do it ,It's not right and obviously you already know that due to in your question you asked "is it bad".

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Originally Posted by califdadof3

Thanks for letting us know. Im glad things are better for you and I hope your future is even brighter. Congrats on your graduation. Great job !!!!

thank you =)