Ask Me Help Desk - I love my English teacher so much is this a crime?

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

I notice the OP has 4 (or 5 ?) threads about her love for this teacher, everything from writing songs to stories and back again. This is an obsession and someone else has to see it.

I agree completely.

Ref previous post by me:

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/...-430581-2.html

I believe its an obsession too.

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

And I had a favorite teacher, someone who actually shaped my life, encouraged me, inspired me. Your MIL sounds exceptional but I think the majority of teachers are.

I agree with you. I was just saying that I don't think this verges on abuse, but rather on the OPs obsession that's not healthy.

I don't understand u guys!just answer my question:is it a crime to love a teacher?

This was answered above in #8 - and then that answer ("no, it is not criminal") has been repeated throughout the thread.

Are you trolling for attention?

By the way, has she ever discussed the need to use proper English and spelling with you?

What do you mean ha?listen to me this teacher changed my life and I loved her as I love mum I guess this is not a mistake
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I am watching talking and saying bla bla bla its like your living wz me to judje me.I won't let anyone of you to talk about my teacher because you don't know her and you don't know how I love her.so *** stop all this ENOUGH!

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Originally Posted by nothing lasts

i am watching talking nd saying bla bla bla its like ur living wz me to judje me.i wont let anyone of u to talk about my teacher because u dont know her nd u don't know how i love her.so *** stop all this ENOUGH!

Sorry, don't understand a word you typed. Could you please type in complete words and sentences like the rules at the site require?

If you loved your English teacher so much then why did you NOT pay attention in her class, and learn her teachings? You're using lazy "textspeak", and it's against the site rules. This gibberish has to be translated.

You asked a question. You got answers. Now, after 8 months have passed, you come back to argue.

I wonder what has happened to you in this time that you feel the need to beat this dead horse?

No, it's not a crime to love your teacher. God wants us to love each other. In a healthy manner.

You'll look back one day and see how silly, and disrespectful, you're being to ADULTS.

Go study.

Okay, we've seen a photo of the OP. I think I'd like to see a photo of the teacher - as well as her credentials because her student is getting nothing from the class.

Well, as the old expression goes - " its like ur living wz me to judje me."

Note the writing style changes from post to post:

"I LOVE MY English teacher, she means so much to me. Without her I really don't know where I'd be, but everyone mocks me because I love her. No one understands my feelings, I am really so sad. Why? Is it a crime to love a teacher? Oh help me I am really so sad"

My brain hurts. I don't think that's even chat speak, that's just plain laziness and bad grammar.

I have to wonder if the English teacher that changed her life realizes that she didn't learn a darn thing in her class.

I have to wonder what the teacher changed. She certainly didn't help you with your future. My 8 year old writes better than this.

I don't even think it's text speak. I don't know WHAT it is.

What you feel for your teacher is not love.

If you keep this up and all your friends keep teasing you about it
I can just about bet there will be viscous rumors started about this teacher.

They don't have to be true for her to be in trouble. One parent or another teacher can put doubt into someone else s's mind and she'll be in the School officials office being asked about you.

Do you really think you stand a chance with her? You don't. Has she ever given you any reason to think she cares about you other than just being a student. I think not.

Grow up and forget about her. If you don't you're asking for trouble.

Anybody care to jump in about how/why the writing style and spelling have changed?

Is there a possibility this is a troll, looking for attention?

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

Anybody care to jump in about how/why the writing style and spelling have changed?

Is there a possibility this is a troll, looking for attention?

I think he has a friend who paid more attention in English class.

The gibberesh sounds like something from the 14th Century Pygmey Castrations. The omygoombawahhella

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

Anybody care to jump in about how/why the writing style and spelling have changed?

Is there a possibility this is a troll, looking for attention?

I'm thinking troll, but the fact that she takes months off is a bit odd.

The fact is, this thread was dead since January, than the OP comes back just to tell us off. She's either a troll, or not the brightest bulb in the tree. I'd guess a bit of both.

The brightest bulb in the tree? The sharpest knife in the drawer, that I get.

Bulbs in trees? Gotcha' (or at least I hope I do or I'll NEVER live this down).

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Originally Posted by Altenweg

I'm thinking troll, but the fact that she takes months off is a bit odd.

The fact is, this thread was dead since January, than the OP comes back just to tell us off. She's either a troll, or not the brightest bulb in the tree. I'd guess a bit of both.

He or she probably failed English so he could redo it again. He may be a she or both. He doesn't do well so he uses his special language and the she (WHO is the smartest) uses pretty good English. Viola'

I just read this entire thread, and believe me, it was hard and confusing. I really believe that there is something wrong with this child. Possibly abuse, I could be wrong.

The fact that the original discussion was back in January, and now several months later, he/she picked up where it was left off leads me to believe that she/he is in need of attention.

My heart goes out to this child. I strongly suggest that he/she gets the proper help.

That's all I have to say about that.

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

The brightest bulb in the tree? The sharpest knife in the drawer, that I get.

Bulbs in trees? Gotcha' (or at least I hope I do or I'll NEVER live this down).

LOL! It's more easily understood at Christmas time. Bulbs on trees, evergreens. She's not the brightest one. She's definitely not the star on top. :p

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Originally Posted by Altenweg

LOL! It's more easily understood at Christmas time. Bulbs on trees, evergreens. She's not the brightest one. She's definitely not the star on top. :p

Not even in the tree... :rolleyes:

It is not illegal to have these feelings but she will lose her teaching credentials and job, and go to jail if she acts on any feelings between you. Also, I don't think anyone questions the intensity of your feelings or their validity. I and others though, do question an adult teacher inappropriately encouraging such feelings from a student who is a minor and 16. You also say this teacher is like a mother to you - the confusion of maternal feelings and romantic love demonstrates that you are blurring some lines with how you are percieving this relationship, or how it's playing out between the two of you. We don't date our mothers or have crushes on them but we can certainly feel passionately about family.

I think your relationship with her is a bit too personal, and would recommend you to not see her outside of school and only relate to her on a basis of teacher and student. When you graduate from school and you are also 18, you might be able to have a relationship with one another but it would still cause her considerable problems with her career and current job because everyone would know you had been her student.

Am I also to understand both you and the teacher are females? Part of your intensity of feelings for her might be because when you are coming to grips with different sexual preferences than the masses, and you find someone with whom you can be yourself and who does not judge you for it, it can make you feel more love and acceptance for yourself. It can cause you to really just love being who you are so much more than usual, and to love being with the person because they make you feel that way about yourself. But there are many people your own age who will also connect with you in this way - it just takes time to find them.

IN the meantime, telling your friends about all this love for your teacher could be enough to get her fired, and spending time outside of school with her could get her fired, and going any further such as with romantic contact or communications between the two of you could get her jailed. All around, this is not a healthy relationship for you - any more than living on chocolate cake might be really appealing but would be really, really bad for you.