I told you, look at my Profile

To scottGem. I did but it doesn't tell me if you're a dude or not?

Are you asking whether I'm male? I've told you before you need to be more specific in your postings.

To ScottGem. Yes I am asking that.

Yes I am a male

OK then that answers my question

Now how old are you?

Old enough to give you good advice.

Oh OK then.

I am just small minded I guess that you don't want to talk to me that much I know.

My cousin asked me to type that sorry about that ScottGem.

If your cousin wants to ask a question, tell her to start her own account and post in the appropriate forum

She is now

Hello ScottGem?

This is not chat site. You post your question and wait for someone to answer.

I know but I have no one else to talk to

But you make it seem like it because you talk to me still.

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I know but I have no one else to talk to

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That has nothing to do with your using chatspeak.

I'm here. What don't we know about you that would be important to know?

I like horse backriding and slow walks on summer nights that enough?

What more do you want?

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what more do you want?

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A lot.

I'm beginning to understand your problem.

What is my problem?

You don't like yourself very much.

I like myself I just don't like talking about myself some times

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That's not why I think that. Your original question says it plain and clear: 1) you need some one to always ask if you're all right when you're sad, 2) you need someone to tell you "I love you," 3) you need someone to protect you, 4) you need someone to stay with you until you die, 4) you want someone good-looking. That's a lot of neediness. Needy people don't like themselves and want the rest of the world to take care of them.

Apparently you've slopped through school and haven't taken any pride in learning the material you were taught.

It doesn't seem like you have learned social skills in how to get along with older people who are wiser than you are as well as people in person and online.

You just need to find a decent guy and slowly build up a relationship with him. Start by starting a conversation and finding out some stuff about him. Then you can progress onto flirting. If you notice he begins to like u then ask him out. Believe me he will be relieved he doesn't have to ask the question. Trust me I'm a guy.

To wondergirl. I have staied in one room for most of my days at school just one room all day that is why I have some problems who would you like it if you had to stay in one room all day?

To johncolly4. Yes I do thank you for noticing that but I don't ask out guys really you should go to Zodiac Signs - Learn About Astrology Signs and look up Pisces.

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to wondergirl. I have staied in one room for most of my days at school just one room all day that is why I have some problems who would you like it if you had to stay in one room all day?

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I went to a small school in the country with dairy cows next door. There were three grades to a classroom, so I stayed in one room for three years, and I learned how to spell too.

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to johncolly4. yes I do thank you for noticing that but I don't ask out guys really you should go to Zodiac Signs - Learn About Astrology Signs and look up Pisces.

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Please don't live your life according to what your horoscope says!

To wondergirl. I don't its about the signs not like a horoscope it tells you about the sign and what it's like to date the sign you are going for.

To scottGem. I would like to talk to you if you don't mind please.

I guess I have problems talking to guys sometimes and I just don't know what to say what kind of subjects should I talk about?

I guess that I have my own problems that I can't commuitcate wow I'm upset now.

Hello anyone?

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to wondergirl. I don't its about the signs not like a horoscope it tells you about the sign and what it's like to date the sign you are going for.

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Yes, I understand. I am a Scorpio but can also fit any other sign depending how one reads it. Please don't hang your hat on zodiac signs. Get to know the person in real life and in real time. And don't limit someone to what his or her sign says.

Well when your talking to a guy just be yourself. You could talk about the weather, politics, or science or just talk about everyday stuff. k.

Actually, they want to do the talking. Can you listen and ask good questions and look interested? If so, they will consider you the most fantastic conversationalist in the world.

You need to give yourself a break! I was always the shy quiet girl at school, it wasn't until I started college and started socialising with different people that I found my first love. I know it gets said all the time, but if you stop looking, it will find you. You are only 16 and have plenty of time for boyfriends, enjoy being you while you are single.

It doesn't take a scientific formula to talk to guys. Just talk about everyday things. When you have guys as friends, most aren't tons different than you girlfriends. Once you get to know them better, the conversations will get more serious. In the meantime, don't worry about trying to get it exactly right- there isn't really a right way. Learn about who the guy is, find some similar interests you have and go from there. Once you find out that you both like one thing, or have had a similar experience, it will be easy to talk to him. Also, you could consider jumping into a conversation with guys instead of conjuring one up- this will take a lot of pressure off you to be half of the conversation.