Ask Me Help Desk - I'm going to mess up yet another relationship aren't I

You need to get away from your perceived, fantasy world and look around you at the real one. She is hardly your girlfriend, and you have no business punching someone in the nose. There are better, adult ways to deal with insults and abuses.

Reminds me of that guy on Christmas Eve who showed up at his ex in-laws' party and was dressed in a Santa suit. He shot up the people there and burned down the house after shooting an 8 y/o girl in the face. He decided he had been abused by his ex-wife and was going to show all of them, yessiree bobtail.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

You need to get away from your perceived, fantasy world and look around you at the real one. She is hardly your gf, and you have no business punching someone in the nose. There are better, adult ways to deal with insults and abuses.

Reminds me of that guy on Christmas Eve who showed up at his ex in-laws' party and was dressed in a Santa suit. He shot up the people there and burned down the house after shooting an 8 y/o girl in the face. He decided he had been abused by his ex-wife and was gonna show all of them, yessiree bobtail.

What does that have to do with defending some one who isn't there to defend themselves, maybe I don't have any business punching people in the face, but he has no business calling my girlfriend, and yes she is my girlfriend, a slut, and yeah, there are more adult ways of dealing with things like that, but if you haven't noticed, I'm fifteen

When you start justifying your own bad behavior, that means you have learned nothing, and will make the mistake again.

Get a clue dude, because he was wrong, doesn't make you right. If violence is the only solution you can come up with, your not just thinking wrong, but doing wrong, and that comes with a price to pay too.

You can do better, if you want to.

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Originally Posted by AManWithNoName

what does that have to do with defending some one who isnt there to defend them selves, maybe i dont have any buisness punching people in the face, but he has no buisness calling my gf, and yes she is my gf, a slut, and yeah, there are more adult ways of dealing with things like that, but if you havnt noticed, im fifteen

Oh, finally. Now you're just a kid, just 15 y/o and hardly responsible for himself. What happened to all that tough talk about law enforcement classes (certainly you're learning something more legally important than how to pick locks, like ethics for instance?), and the SWAT and Blackwater stuff. And now you are calling her a slut too?? Who's going to punch you in the nose?

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Oh, finally. Now you're just a kid, just 15 y/o and hardly responsible for himself. What happened to all that tough talk about law enforcement classes (certainly you're learning something more legally important than how to pick locks, like ethics for instance?), and the SWAT and Blackwater stuff. And now you are calling her a slut too????? Who's going to punch you in the nose?

I didn't say she was a slut, I was finishing the sentence, there were comas there, so what I said was he had no business calling my girlfreind, then I said yes she is my girlfreind, because you said she is hardly my girlfriend, then I finished the sentense, what I said was he had no business calling my girl friend a slut, understand?
Im studying law inforcement, I'm not in it yet

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Originally Posted by AManWithNoName

Im studying law inforcement, im not in it yet

I said in a post above, "What happened to all that tough talk about law enforcement classes (certainly you're learning something more legally important than how to pick locks, like ethics for instance?)"

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

I said in a post above, "What happened to all that tough talk about law enforcement classes (certainly you're learning something more legally important than how to pick locks, like ethics for instance?)"

Yes I am, but I'm not a cop yet

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Originally Posted by AManWithNoName

yes i am, but im not a cop yet

So you won't learn ethics and civilized behavior until you're a cop? The police forces I know about don't hire people who have a history of punching and other bad behavior.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

So you won't learn ethics and civilized behavior until you're a cop? The police forces I know about don't hire people who have a history of punching and other bad behavior.

They would, they don't care about what you did before you join, it only matters what you do while you're a cop

You certainly don't know anything about police forces, you will go though a very complete background check, including interviews with mental health professionals and a lie detector test.

If you have a history of violence they will not even give you a chance to complete the interview process.

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Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck

You certainly don't know anything about police forces, you wil go though a very complete background check, including interviews with mental health professionals and a lie detector test.

If you have a history of violence they will not even give you a chance to complete the interview process.

Aperintly you don't, yeah background test, yeah lie detector, but aslong as your honest they'll let you in the force, and just because I punched a kid in the face doesn't meen I'm a bad kid, hell, it was an accident, I'm sorry for doing it, godamn, don't go telling me that I can't do what I want to do with life just because I made some mistakes, and don't you dare tell me to go with god, I have a feeling that's comeing up, there is no god for me

Just try not to screw up

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Originally Posted by AManWithNoName

Aperintly you don't, yeah background test, yeah lie detector, but aslong as your honest they'll let you in the force, and just because I punched a kid in the face doesn't meen I'm a bad kid, hell, it was an accident, I'm sorry for doin it, godamn, don't go telling me that I can't do what I want to do with life just because I made some mistakes, and don't you dare tell me to go with god, I have a feeling that's comeing up, there is no god for me

A policeman has to be literate too (ten mistakes in a quick count of only this post of yours). And no, they won't give you a pass for "being honest" about your uncivilized past. They don't want hotheads on the force. And don't say punching that kid was an accident.

We are not keeping you from getting what you want out of life. You are making very poor choices. Police forces don't want immature, out-of-control people even to apply.

Geez kid, you're immature. Embrace advice, don't bash it. We're telling you that you have problems, very clear ones. Either you want to accept that or not.

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Just because I punched a kid in the face doesn't meen I'm a bad kid, hell, it was an accident,

No it wasn't, that's BS, which is lame. You made a mistake and sorry doesn't cover it unless you correct that mistake.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

No it wasn't, thats BS, which is lame. You made a mistake and sorry doesn't cover it unless you correct that mistake.

How do I go about doing that?

Apologize to the affected parties, and mean it, and start thinking before you act. To be better, you must do better.

Leave the excuses for your own behavior behind, and take responsibility for your actions.

For example, talking crazy after drinking to much, stop the behavior of drinking to much. (Not saying you do, just saying as an example) Sometimes apologies are not enough, but if thats all you have, better to learn from the mistake, by not repeat it.

Ok, so I apoligized to everyone who was there, and I let the dude punch me back, in the face
So me and her are good

Sigh, why would you let this kid punch you?

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Originally Posted by 411Help

Sigh, why would you let this kid punch you?

Or is that his easy answer to get us off his back? I mean, gee, that was days ago. I find it hard to believe the kid's parents haven't done anything about it. I sure would have.

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Originally Posted by 411Help

Sigh, why would you let this kid punch you?

I punched him, I let him return the favor

You really need an older guy to talk to. Not one of your tough guy friends either, more like a male counselor at school, or a relative, father maybe. You have anger issues, that will land you in jail one day.

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Originally Posted by talaniman

You really need an older guy to talk to. Not one of your tough guy friends either, more like a male counselor at school, or a relative, father maybe. You have anger issues, that will land you in jail one day.

I talked to my guitar teacher about it, he just said I'm young, and I'm going to make mistakes, and ill eventually learn, and if I don't, I'm probubly going to end up dead
But who wants to live forever, not me
Is it wrong that I fingered my girlfriend in the movie theater, is that frowned upon, or something

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Originally Posted by AManWithNoName

I talked to my guitar teacher bout it, he just said I'm young, and I'm gonna make mistakes, and ill eventually learn, and if I don't, I'm probubly gonna end up dead
But who wants to live forever, not me
Is it wrong that I fingered my gf in the movie theater, is that frowned upon, or something

Yes. It's against the rules of the theater. So now you're going to mess up this girl's life too?

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Yes. It's against the rules of the theater. So now you're going to mess up this girl's life too?

Not my idea, hers
And I would never mess up her life

You're so stubborn. I don't think any of us should waste any more time on you.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Yes. It's against the rules of the theater. So now you're going to mess up this girl's life too?

I would gladley ruin my life, if it means that she'll be happy

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Originally Posted by AManWithNoName

I would gladley ruin my life, if it means that she'll be happy

Then stop touching her. Deny yourself for her.

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Originally Posted by 411Help

You're so stubborn. I don't think any of us should waste any more time on you.

You just want to talk about my smokin and drinking, I'm fine, if I end up dead because of it, so be it, not your problum, mine

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Originally Posted by AManWithNoName

Whys that?

Why do you think?
'smoking makes you stink
Its unattractive
Waaaaaaaayyyy to bad for [I]your[I]age
And sometimes even rots your teeth

You could stand an attitude adjustment for sure. Any one who doesn't love themselves enough to at least try and be a good human being, sure can't care about another, and I don't care what you say about your feelings for this female.

So if you would rather be dead, than change your own behavior, you'll probably get what you want. That's completely your choice.

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Then stop touching her. Deny yourself for her.

It wasn't my idea, she grabbed my arm in the middle of the movie, and just slided my hand down her panties

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Originally Posted by talaniman

You could stand an attitude adjustment for sure. Any one who doesn't love themselves enough to at least try and be a good human being, sure can't care about another, and I don't care what you say about your feelings for this female.

So if you would rather be dead, than change your own behavior, you'll probably get what you want. Thats completely your choice.

You don't understand, she's the only thing that's going good for me, ever wake up in the morning and look at the razorblade on your sink, and just think to yourself, wow that's a real inving sight, just a quik slit, and no more hurt, well I don't hafto think like that anymore, I have her

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Originally Posted by AManWithNoName

You don't understand, she's the only thing that's going good for me, ever wake up in the morning and look at the razorblade on your sink, and just think to your self, wow that's a real inving sight, just a quik slit, and no more hurt, well I don't hafto think like that anymore, I have her

Then be a man and tell her no more touching private parts, hers or yours. Honor her if she's so special to you. Stop treating her like the slut you claim her ex called her. Teach her to honor herself too. You could do her a real favor.

And it takes more than "a quik slit" -- so you don't even know how.

You certainly have an amazing fantasy life.

Go

Are you a troll?

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Originally Posted by 411Help

Are you a troll?

What?

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Then be a man and tell her no more touching private parts, hers or yours. Honor her if she's so special to you. Stop treating her like the slut you claim her ex called her. Teach her to honor herself too. You could do her a real favor.

And it takes more than "a quik slit" -- so you don't even know how.

You certainly have an amazing fantasy life.

Amazing fantasy life, are you making fun, I'm thinking of killing myself, a gun, a knife, but no, I'm not going to do it, not yet, I have the girl, she makes me happy, she gives me a goal, I'm going to better myself for her, not for me, I've done too many things for me, not anymore, I'm changing, if I'm going to die, I'm going to die a good person, not the person I see in the miror every morning, not the person who tells me to jump, a good person

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Originally Posted by AManWithNoName

Amazing fantasy life, are you makin fun, I'm thinkin of killing my self, a gun, a knife, but no, I'm not gonna do it, not yet, I have the girl, she makes me happy, she gives me a goal, I'm gonna better myself for her, not for me, I've done too many things for me, not anymore, I'm changing, if I'm gonna die, I'm gonna die a good person, not the person I see in the miror every morning, not the person who tells me to jump, a good person

I'm not kidding

I almost cryed after reading that

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Originally Posted by 411Help

Are you a troll?

What?