The phrase statutory rape is a term used in some legal jurisdictions to describe consensual sexual relations that take place when an individual (regardless of gender) has sexual relations with an individual not old enough to legally consent to the behavior.[1] Although it usually refers to adults engaging in sex with minors under the age of consent,[1] the age at which individuals are considered competent to give consent to sexual conduct, it is a generic term, and very few jurisdictions use the actual term "statutory rape" in the language of statutes.[2] Different jurisdictions use many different statutory terms for the crime, such as "sexual assault," "rape of a child," "corruption of a minor," "carnal knowledge of a minor," "unlawful carnal knowledge", or simply "carnal knowledge." Statutory rape differs from forcible rape in that overt force or threat need not be present. The laws presume coercion, because a minor or mentally retarded adult is legally incapable of giving consent to the act.

ASEXUAL RELATIONS: Human sexual behavior or different human sexual practices encompass a wide range of activities such as strategies to find or attract partners (mating and display behaviour), interactions between individuals, physical or emotional intimacy, and sexual contact.

First of all don't pursue this. Friends is fine, but NOTHING more. And also, do u really like her? Or do u just like the thought of a girl liking u? But don't lose hope, u'll find someone, find some confidence and get out there!

You know what you must relly like her if u want to date her end she's 11. I say be close friends and wait till she gets older

Are you sick in the head, do you have any idea what could happen to you?

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Originally Posted by StrawberryGum

you know what you must relly like her if u want to date her end shes 11. i say be close friends and wait till she gets older

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With me being a mother, I would've a problem with a 20 year old guy wanting to be a friend with a 11 year old girl. Knowing that he wants to kiss and hold hands with her because he feels that this would be his only chance is a signal that he should stay away from her, far away. He should stay away from any young girl and be around girls his age.

Where do you know this girl from?

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Originally Posted by StrawberryGum

you know what you must relly like her if u want to date her end shes 11. i say be close friends and wait till she gets older

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Bad bad bad advice.

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Originally Posted by xxariesxx

Bad bad bad advice.

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It was very bad advice for sure! I think we are beating a dead horse here. I very much doubt the OP is going to come back. But maybe some other young kids can get something out of the good advice that has been written here.

What bothers me is the calculating tone from. At 20, 2BRO2B already feels he's somehow been cheated out of a sex life, like it's something he has a ticket for, and so he contemplates fondling a child for whom he appears to have no feelings, simply because he thinks she might agree to it.

2BRO2B is clearly an articulate and educated young man. He did not state he has any feelings for this little girl. He just wants to use her for practice and pleasure because he feels entitled. I hope he doesn't follow the advice to buy a woman for sex, but instead learns how to view women as fellow human beings with whom he can develop a healthy relationship.

I kind of understaqnd where you are coming from. But, there are millions of people in the world out there even girls/women who feel like you do. You can meet so much people today and its getting too much easier. I mean internet dateing sites. Bars clubs. Go out there and meet people. She's a child who is not fully grown or developed yet. Seriousely open your eyes and don't look 1 mile ahead of you look in front of u! Cmon! She's 11. Leave the poor girl alone. Let her be a child and meet people as she gets older.

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Originally Posted by xxariesxx

Bad bad bad advice.

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Umm OK I wasn't saying date her I was saying wait till she's older OK

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With me being a mother, I would've a problem with a 20 year old guy wanting to be a friend with a 11 year old girl. Knowing that he wants to kiss and hold hands with her because he feels that this would be his only chance is a signal that he should stay away from her, far away. He should stay away from any young girl and be around girls his age.

Where do you know this girl from?

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Umm OK I wasn't saying date her I was saying wait till she's older ok:)

Listen man for god sake grow a pair of balls and go talk to some girls your age. I don't mean to be harsh but to be honest just reading your post made me sick. Just because you find it easy to talk and be cofident to a child does not mean you should have feelings that way just go talk to some girls your age you will see soon enough its not that hard once you try

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Originally Posted by StrawberryGum

umm ok i wasnt sayin date her i was saying wait till shes older ok:)

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So you really think he should wait 7 years? You don't think there's something wrong with that? By you even stating that he should wait for her is implying that it's all right he has feelings for her. It's not all right.
You're obviously really young and don't know what you're talking about. Please don't give advice on this thread.

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Originally Posted by 2BR02B

ok, I know your all gonna think I'm a pedophile or something, but hear me out. I've been involuntarily celebate my entire life, I was always incredibly shy and have never dated, never kissed, never done anything,and I'm twenty years old. WHile I find it hard to talk to girls, for the first time in my life a girl has gone against convention and told me that she likes me, the only problem being that she's 11 years old. I wouldn't do anything inappropriate, I know it's juvenile puppy-love, but this seems like my best bet at being able to hold hands and kiss a girl, but I guess it'd be illegal, I couldn't let our parents kow, and we couldn't be seen in public... in other words, does anyone think I should pursue this, or am I doomed to loneliness?

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I strongly suspect you are full of crap. I bet this story is just that... a story. But in the off chance it's not. Don't. You WILL regret it later.

PS: I first kissed a girl at age 16... she was 21. I lost my virginity at age 19, with a 19 year old GF. You are only 20. You have a long long way to go before you could ever be doomed to loneliness.