Hi someguy,

I noticed that in one of your replies you mentioned you and your female friend talk about school. I don't know if you both attend the same school, but the suggestion I am about to offer, it won't matter too much. Have you ever thought of asking her if she might like to set up a study date? (You can do this with just her or with a group of friends as well) You don't always have to go to the same school to be able to study school subjects together.

Maybe she has some subjects in school that she has trouble with, if you excel in areas of subject that she may not, perhaps you could help her with her studies?

Or.. if you have trouble with certain subjects, maybe she could help you (ask her, she'll probably really appreciate that you're asking her for help. :) )

I would class you as friends already so maybe its time you find the right moment to make your right move ;)

Can I help?

Well if I were in your shoes I would just ask her out...
What will you lose if you do so? Nothing!

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Originally Posted by Knowledgefinder

Hi someguy,

I noticed that in one of your replies you mentioned you and your female friend talk about school. I don't know if you both attend the same school, but the suggestion I am about to offer, it won't matter too much. Have you ever thought of asking her if she might like to set up a study date? (You can do this with just her or with a group of friends as well) You don't always have to go to the same school to be able to study school subjects together.

Maybe she has some subjects in school that she has trouble with, if you excel in areas of subject that she may not, perhaps you could help her with her studies?

Or.. if you have trouble with certain subjects, maybe she could help you (ask her, she'll probably really appreciate that you're asking her for help. :) )

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She does go to my school, but unfortunately we don't take any of the same classes.

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Originally Posted by ineed2know

yea u should try doing that! i like a friend..he invite me to a game....i cheered him on....he said thxs 4 coming gave me a hug..i felt good! so i probably think she'll do the same....k let me ask u this....
how often do u talk to her?

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Yea she invited me to her regatta that was in our town (she's on the crew team) but unfortunately I couldn't go.

If you really like this girl and you were want to make this relationship work with her and you just don't want her for sex then just be patient and be her friend talk on the phone and then it could lead to the both of you going out and then what ever else more. If you can't stand patience then I suggest you find anther girl that don't want to be your friend first and that doesn't mind giving it up right away

Ah, that's too bad about not studying the same subjects, someguy.

You still have a lot of options left open to you though.

You should try finding out what she enjoys or what you both have in common (such as the sports) and take part in something together. Does she like movies? Has she mentioned recently to you any particular movies she might be interested in seeing?

You could also try inviting her to an upcoming school dance as a friend.

After you both have been hanging out as friends for what you feel is a comfortable amount of months, try asking her out on a date. The worst she can say to you is no, or share a specific reason with you for why she cannot go out with you. You'll still be able to remain friends through it all.

No one here can really tell you the right time to ask her out or become more than just friends with her, that's something you must figure out for yourself by getting to know her and learning what works with her and what doesn't.

It's pretty clear that she does have an interest in you just for being you (een if you end up finding out that you won't be boyfriend material to her) Even if it comes down to that she may not want you as a boyfriend, being her friend is something pretty special in itself, it's a gift in its own right. A friendship is something that can last a lifetime if it works out.

Best of luck to you. :)

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What would be the best way to ask her for her cell #?

No I would ask her face to face...
That way you get to see her immediate reaction.

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Originally Posted by someguy222

hi, im 15 and theres a girl i wanna ask to the sophomore dance but idk if she will go with me. i dont wanna just go ask her because i want to try to have the best opportunity for her to say yes because i really like her a lot. we r kinda friends, im also friends with some of her friends, and shes friends with some of mine. i say kinda becuz we pretty much only talk online. for the last 2 months or so she hasnt been answering my instant messages (her friend told me that her internet is messed up so thats y she doesnt answer). i dont think that i did anything to make her mad at me, maybe i instant messaged her too much or something, i dunno. so what are my chances with her going to the dance with me?

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Hi my name is danielle and I'm a girl well and I kind of feel what your {friend} is feeling lay low for a little while and just talk to her and tell her how you feel if you make your moves 2 fast then your chances with going with her to the dance are very low I say that maybe if you can consider asking someone more closer to you and then trust me she won't say yes if she doesn't know you because you never know unless she tells you who she likes and stop thinking about yourself and think about how she feels!

What are some good places for a first date for a high schooler? We've hung out twice, and we both really like each other, and have since the fall pretty much. Any thoughts would be great.:)

Its been a while since my first date, but we used to go bowling or to the ice skating rink, where you can talk, but it isn't so private...

I walk into town with my boyfrends and we go eat or something, but like a public restaurant[ Not anything HUGE ] or a bowling alley Might work, you still get to be alone with her and talk.

The first time we hung out we went bowling with some friends lol. The other time was last Sunday, we went to the mall with a few people. She's also in my lunch period and we see each other 4-5 times in the halls per day. Hope that gives you a better idea.

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what are some good places for a first date for a high schooler? we've hung out twice, and we both really like each other, and have since the fall pretty much. any thoughts would be great.:)

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Try a movie or just a dinner at a cheap restaurant. Or just go on a double date with some other friends and let them pick the activity.