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Okay dude check this out. What you do is the chick need to see it first. Don't bring it and show it to the parents. God no! Just sneak it to her mail box. Just in case they might see it don't put anything sexual in nature or vulgar. Anbody with teenagers that can help with that?
I'd still ask your Mom for some advice, they are usually good at helping. Goodness, don't you think we or your mom ever went through stuff like this ourselves?? We've been there, done that, and it's not NEW, so get off your lazy rear and talk to Mom. When you place trust in her, she'll be proud to help, and you sound like you need some, so go to the nearest source. Good Luck.
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How about I write a letter thing and u guys tell me wats good and bad about it?
Yes that a good idea.
GREAT IDEA, it's about time! Where is it?Quote:
Originally Posted by someguy222
P.S. after all our work, it won't kill you to rate a few of us either... NOW get to work!
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I have a ton of homework right now and then I have basketball practice every night so I don't have a lot of time to do it. I think that both of us being involved in stuff makes it easier for some reason. I don't know... maybe because we won't have to be as committed to each other at first because we CANT, and then slowly work into it.
Well invite the girl over for some home work buddy buddy. Find out if she like basketball. You're an athlete. Chicks dig athletes.
Well I'm not in any of the same classes... sooo what would be the point of doing the homework together from her viewpoint?
Do you want this girl or not mister?!
It does not matter if you are in the same classes or not - if she likes you as you do her - asking her to do homework with you will be fab! She may know there is no point in doing homework together but she will know it's a reason to hang out with you and will no doubt accept. It's all about reading between the lines.
Be positve not negative. Confidence is an attractive quality to both Men and Women and making an effort is the key here.
So if your negative about things you won't get anywhere.
I agree, it seems like you want to get together, but also want someone to hold your hand in doing so, stop making excuses and start working on it, or you'll get nowhere! Come on, get off your duff and do something, please, or you'll never get out of that starting gate now or in the future. We all have to go through this, the sooner, the better and don't worry about rejection, it won't kill you..Quote:
Originally Posted by DJ 'H'
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Bang on! It's all down to you now someguy222 - let us know how you get on?
Just from a mans' point of view-No more excuses please.This thread has gone on for 2 weeks now .talk is over-get busy and handle your business.The females have given you great advice so now go for it before some confident real man comes along and takes your chick from under your nose and leaves you high and dry.I could have talked to 10 females while your thinking about one! So what if you get rejected ,all MEN do at some point! Man up and go for it! :cool: :cool:
Thanks. If he were my son, he'd be in the living room with her already and I'd be proud he took that step.Quote:
Originally Posted by DJ 'H'
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I am still too young to be a mum but if I were and he were my son, then I would be proud too!Quote:
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I'm 55, have one beautiful daughter, and lost two boys at 5 months. My mom was like your dad, from reading your story, and it's nice to see that you have a healthy attitude about life and are as helpful as you are, keep it up.Quote:
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Thank you Chery - that means a lot to me!
Very sorry to hear about your two sons.
One of my older brothers died to cot death. I never had the pleasure of knowing him (because obviously I did not exist when he was born) but I like to think he is up there watching out for me.
Thanks dear, they were miscarriages (therapeutic abortions really) as I was not supposed to ever get PG due to heart problems, but I did cheat fate and had my daughter - so you see anything is possible with good doctors on your side, and a positive attitude. I'm so proud of her that it still makes my eyes moist just thinking how happy I am to be her Mom. Hope you get the chance to have the same glorious feeling some day, to break that vicious circle we both went through as children - it is possible, thank goodness.Quote:
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One question, why the living room?Quote:
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I talked to her yesterday but we didn't do anything together, because I went to my friends sleepover b-day party.
That way you guys don't do any funny business. We don't like any mens up in out little girls bed room all alone. That is a no no. living room is just fine.
Oh, hahaha
I have a pretty sweet basement so we'd probably be there instead of the living room.
I don't know if I would let my daughter anywhere near your sweet basement to tell the truth!If you can't sit in my living room like a gentleman then you need to go check out somebody else's daughter.Maybe a call to your mother or father will slow your roll a little bit,if not as a father I would deal with you on a more direct basis.Not to threaten but to protect you and my daughter. :p
Well I wasn't thinking about that type of thing... but OK.
What I meant was that there's like a TV and pool table and stuff down there.
Get your mind out of the gutter lol :eek:
Say what you mean and It won't get taken the wrong way.It would be a good idea for you to learn to deal with protective parents. Trust me, they will have the final say in anything to do with their own.Show respect you might get respect! :cool:
Alrite well ill remember that.
I'm leaving to go to my friends house until tomorrow night so if you have ABSOLUTELY ANYTHING that you think would be helpful, important, smart, or anything at all that I should know, POST THEM.
Yeah I got something smart to say. I she slaps you silly then you did something wrong. If not then you be just fine. Dude just think about it. Dude just use common sense on this okay? Its really not that hard.
Because we were talking about doing homework together. We are not talking about jumping bones the first time she steps into the home, people need to get to know each other.. What happens in the other area of life in the future is not as important as this current issue, and should be tackled step by step.Quote:
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From your last few post I have to ask are you ready for this young lady?It doesn't seem like it especially with the amount of advice you've been given it seem like you would have a lot more feedback and be forth coming with a whole lot more facts.Is it just me or do I smell a rat?? :confused: :eek: :cool:
Yea I forgot about the homework part, I was thinking we were just going to be chillin.Quote:
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What? Explain the last sentence at least...
It just seems to me that after 7 pages of good advice and encouragemet you would have told us more about how this relationsip is progresssing.You haven't told us how she has reacted to your advances or have you met her parent,or nothing to gage if our advice is helpful or not .kinda hard going blind like that you know. :cool:Quote:
Originally Posted by someguy222
Just in case you forgot... you were worried about what friends would think; you don't know if she will like you or not; and wanted advice on how to get to know her... then you think about the basement with the poolroom, etc. Then, 'oh, by the way, going to spend the night at a friends', but if you have more to say, post it... hello! Good thing this is not a scratch and sniff monitor that I'm using here. Why don't you pass by a few ideas of your own on us and we'll let you know if your ideas are good or not, maybe that will get you off your lazy duff. As I said before, we can't hold your hand and get you there, you have to do a little more than what you've been doing, like maybe get out of the basement or away from you ever-so important friends. Hope you have not gotten a bet started with them as to how far you'll get with our advice, because unless you come up with something on your own, mine stops here.Quote:
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I talked to her again and I asked her if she wanted to go see a movie Monday night (not as a date, just as friends) and she agreed. Anything else you would like to know about it?
Good job buddy!! You are on your way! Just play it cool and make her laugh for god's sake!!
Wish me luck everybody!!
Hey everyone it went smoothly we both had a good time and she said she wanted to do it again sometime. U think I got something here?
I would say you do. Play on playa! Good luck to you. Glad things went good.
When should I ask her to do it again? When would be too soon? (remember that wasn't a date it was just going to a movie as friends)
Find out what days you are free and what days she is free then go from there.
Well I already know that we are both free every Monday, I have bball on Tuesday and Wednesday and Thursday, plus a game on either Saturday or Sunday. Her swimming season is over so she's free most of the time.
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