Ask Me Help Desk - Views on thongs?

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Originally Posted by ScottGem

Actually its NOT OK. At 12 kate has to wear what her parents want her to wear. Her parents are still reponsible for her and what they say goes.

Now I'm not saying she shouldn't wear them, I've already weighed in on that. But you shouldn't be encouraging her to not listen to her parents (not that I think she wouldn't, she doesn't sound the type).

Who said she was encouraging her to notlisten to her parents

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Originally Posted by Miss lovley

who said she was encouraging her to notlisten to her parents

The tone of her posts seems to indicate she is telling kate to do whatever she wants.

But she obvioulsy read kates post and would know kates mum has no problem with it

Well id hardly say she has no problem wi it,

But I do what I want :-p

Does your mum tell you to stop wearing them?

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Originally Posted by katekatekate

well id hardly say she has no problem wi it,.

but i do what i want :-p

Kate
Answer me this. If mom and dad told you to stop wearing them, would you openly defy them? If they refused to buy them for you, wouldn't you have to wear what they provided?

No but she thinks I'm too young and doesn't like it when I have them showing above my jeans or wear them with skirts

They've never bought me any

I buy them myself

And where do you get the money from?

Okay so she doesn't have a problem she is the same as my mother as long as she does not see them she is fine and she will NEVER buy me one unless I had to wear something fance and you could bee panty lines

I get pocket money

Yeah it kind of like that miss lovely, I guess..

I don't see it as that much a problem is it?

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Originally Posted by katekatekate

i get pocket money

And if they stopped giving you pocket money or just gave you enough for other things?

My point is would you openly defy your parents over underwear?

I do not see it as a problem

BUT

I wouldn't let my 12 yr old daughter wear one at least for another yr or 2

If your mum doesn't tell you to stop wearing them THEN DON'T

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Originally Posted by ScottGem

And if they stopped giving you pocket money or just gave you enough for other things?

My point is would you openly defy your parents over underwear?

I would but that is me

I feel if I BUY THEM I'm going to wear them and if they gibve me money then they should know I am going to buy thongs

I don't know. I'm sure id still get somehow they are not expensive.

I love thongs. I started wearing them at 13, almost 14. At that time I wore grannies too sometimes but now I only own thongs/g-strings and maybe like 4 pairs of booty shorts, which I still wear a thong underneath. I like them because they are way more comfortable. Grannies give you a wedgie, but thongs are designed to sit in your crack so you don't have to worry about a whole bunch of cloth wedged up there, there is just the little string or small strip of cloth that's designed to be there. I like stringy g-strings more but I like thicker cottony ones sometimes too. Victorias Secret signature and PINK brands are great. I have a few from aerie (american eagle) aero (aeropostale) and fredricks too. Aerie ones are pretty cool cause the have the band cloth which is scalloped and then a really thin strin that goes between your cheeks so its uber comfy. PM me if you want to talk more about it, I'm just tired of typig. Lol- amy (16)

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Originally Posted by katekatekate

hey, i just wondered what everyones view on thongs and g strings r.

im 12 and have been wearing them for about a year and love them. my mummy wasnt too sure about it at first but got used to it. i am worried people will think im too young though

how old is everyone else startin to wear thongs etc? and what styles are best? whats your favourite ones?

kaate.

Hi Kate its not wrong at your age to start to wear them as you are getting older and the thought of wearing big pants is embarresing. I started wearing them around your age and a lot of girls start younger. I think the thing with this type of underwear is that it is seen to be an adult thing and you are soon to be a teenager so you are becoming a young adult. I myself have stopped wearing thm now I am still in my teens but find that lacy hotpants are a lot comfier but they look nicer than big pants and I think that they look better than thongs. (you should try them). Even though they are attractive they can be so uncomfotable and to be honest who is going to see them I would rather go for comfort than look. But if you want to wear thongs there is nothing wrong with that. As for nice styles you can get diamonte ones from dorothy perkins they are pretty or new look is often a good place to buy them and at your age you shouldn't be thinking about nice styles stick to spongebon they are much better then allof the sexier underwear! X

I think your to young to wear them I started at that age. And I think you should wait until high school with boys find out you wear them they will think you have sex already and that you are quick that you would do it with anybody. Even if you didn't they still lie about it. You can wear once in a blue but don't wear it all the time its bad for you anyway you can maybe get a infection don't wear it to bed either. I'm 18 and I got a 1 year old daughter I no how high school is and middle school. I think you should wait until high school. But if you really want to you should not tell anyone in school about it and don't let it show. People say their comforble they is but its more for sexual stuff that your not ready for yet

I saw the girl that takes care of my daughter at the daycare today, she was bent over and her thong was a triangle in the back... It was so gross. The whole thing was out of her pants. I got over wanting to puke and thought about this old thread.

Wellllllllll I'm about 15 and every girl I know wears thongs and their totally hot I like the black ones or the invisible one

Hey sawyera bisiga, I'm totally into thongs, what are the invissible ones?

Everyone has there own style I wore them for years, I may have started that young but not sure... I completely understand how you could think they are very cute and all that matters is what you think of yourself in them... Now if you were doing it for someone else then yes I would say stop but Im pretty sure that's not the case here... Now I can't stand them... lol

stonewilder disagrees: Actually once you get used to thongs you never want to go back to regular panties because they feel like they are trying to ride up your crack.

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While you have every right to disagree with me, since this question is one of opinion using a negative comment was not appropriate.

I had friends that I know were wearing them when they were about 12 or 13. If nobody sees it then why should it matter? Some people think it is pretty slutty. But I don't think it is if you don't try to show it off or anything.

If you want to wear thongs, at your parents let you, then wear them

However, you should realize that thongs (if worn a lot) give teens/women yeast infections.

I feel cute in a pair of boy shorts, or low waisted panties. Thongs are OK. I wear them if I don't want a panty line. But other than that, I think some cute panties.. not granny panties.. can be every bit as cute as a thong..

I saw where you said you wear them under skirts.. Don't do that.. that's just nasty in my opinion.. because if your skirt comes up.. everyone will see everything just about..
Also.. definitely don't let them ride up your back.. in my opinion it looks trashy.. guys may also think you're easy.

If you're going to wear them, wear them like a real lady does.. Every girl should want to come off as classy.

By the way, I am almost 20
I started wearing thongs when I was 14 I think. I suppose every girl is curious about it.

Keep on keeping on.

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Originally Posted by katekatekate

hey, i just wondered what everyones view on thongs and g strings r.

im 12 and have been wearing them for about a year and love them. my mummy wasnt too sure about it at first but got used to it. i am worried people will think im too young though

how old is everyone else startin to wear thongs etc? and what styles are best? whats your favourite ones?

kaate.

I think you are too young to be wearing them... most people start when they turn a teenager... but if your parents except it then I guess its okay

Comment on ScottGem's post

Thongs are so comfy I hate underwear , I don't think boys can really give input on this topic and for girls unless you've tried a thong you can't discriminate. Most girls start wearing them at 12. ALTHOUGH it is actually unhealthy to wear them too often

You're a little young for that I'm 2 years older than you and I just wear thinner underwear...