Why is there a need to address it. They have an opinion, right or wrong, In every situation and every group, someone is more serious. Perhaps your friends or those with you are to childish and foolish?

I'm crying here all alone in my room because no one gets me. I tried talking to my mum but she thinks I'm annoying and dissed me off. Crying feels good surprisingly, however I don't want to be like this anymore.

Relax. After what you have been going through it's just so normal to be feeling overwhelmed, and under supported because the changes in your life are such a huge deal to you, and rightfully so. For now crying is a good therapy and outlet for those feelings, and I wouldn't worry about it being a long term problem unless you just chose to wallow, and dwell on the scarey stuff and not begin to make adjustments to how you address what is to come, going to school and breaking the old familiar patterns of childhood and becoming an independent adult.

It's really okay to cry now, as you say goodbye to the old you, and make a plan to get to know and support the new you that you are to become. Like any bird who is making the first flights out of the nest. You are growing up and have to accept it, and embrace it, so you can look forward to it.

Anything you have never done before is scarey at first, but it's going to be a THRILL for you soon. Cry while you can, because you will be VERY busy soon.

Please note that your related questions have been merged to keep the whole situation in one place so others will not be confused.

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Originally Posted by natashap25

Even when I am with my family,I tend to feel disconnected,as if I'm not one of them.

With friends,or anyone else,I have no meaningful connections.

Now with my mum I feel irritated all the time and start arguing

I feel like I cant understand anyone and no one understands me

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THIS TO SOON SHALL PASS!
Relax take a breath and know that everything will be OK.
You are growing and changing into a adult.
The feelings you are having will pass.
Try meditating there tons of free self help guided meditations on you tube.
Good Luck!