Ask Me Help Desk - I like a girl from gym class but she's in 8th grade and I'm in 7th

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Question: I like a girl from gym class but she's in 8th grade and I'm in 7th {"why": "i'm her age in 6 days", "source": "recevil"}

Oh you are a RUDE little brat... aren't you. That Unhelpful you dished out was VERY uncalled for. I hope she tells you off.

What part of my answer can you NOT grasp. I remember the 8th grade VERY , VERY well, you've never been in it yet. Nothing I said was was the least bit inaccurate.

YOU are a 7th grader...SHE is an 8th grader.....THAT is what YOU said...and thats all that matters to everyone else in the school.

Rejection is a 3 of 5 for me they don't always go my way

Rest assured that no one feels confident 100% of the time. To gain confidence we have to step out of our comfort zones and feel good when we achieve our goals and learn from it when we don't.

Your first step is to talk to her for the first time. Until then you can't live on "what ifs."

You are only 12 years old. You have a lot of life's lessons yet to learn.

[QUOTE=smoothy;3685075]Oh you are a RUDE little brat I'm no brat mister I've seen a lot in the 12 years I've been on this rock I lost many people in my life and I don't got many left I got friends that would turn on me in a second I've got a horrible life buddy so chill out

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Originally Posted by recevil

Rejection is a 3 of 5 for me they don't always go my way

You are only 12 years old! You have a ton of rejection in your future. Learn to accept it gracefully, learn from your mistakes.

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Originally Posted by smoothy

Oh you are a RUDE little brat I'm no brat mister I've seen a lot in the 12 years I've been on this rock I lost many people in my life and I don't got many left I got friends that would turn on me in a second I've got a horrible life buddy so chill out

Age doesn't matter... you could actually be OLDER than her... and all everyone is going to see you as that 7th grader when she is an 8th grader, and she will have her reputation ruined for cradle robbing, and THAT is exacty what Jurniour high kids WILL call it. High school kids will too, after high school is over, it won't matter... but right now it means everything.

You see, I'm one of those people who if their birthday was a few days later than it was... would have been a year behind where I was throughout school. I graduated at 17 and was already through the first quarter of college before I turned 18.

You haven't seen much in 12 years... no way.. no how... you only THINK you have. I've got underwear older than you. I've got hunting boots three times your age. Heck... I've been riding my Harley for the last 32 years... and I've ridden it on two continents, and 8 countries... I've seen Desert SHiled and Desert Storm unfold and run their full course daily in ways very, very few people did. And I didn't watch it on the news either, I was almost killed on 9/11 in the Pentagon, and I spent the next several months dealing with some of the problems that happened in Manhattan that same day. I could write a book, several actually on the things I've seen and participated in the last 32 years SINCE I graduiated college. I've seen far, far more than most people have. You even use something every day that I had a hand in inventing. But I'm not saying publicly what it was.

Actually keep that thought in mind a few more years... you will find it comical that you made it. Its all about perspective... you just haven't had enough time on this rock to have much yet. But you will, everyone does as long as they live long enough.

And as was pointed out.....expect a lot of rejection.....in Jr High, and Sr High...expect far, far more rejection as a guy if you try to chase after girls in higher grades. A boy can get away with dating a girl one, and sometimes or rare occaisions two grades lower...but a girl that does it with a boy in a lower grade will be a laughing stock. Double standard? Yes it is, but life is full of them, best get used to it now.

You've seen a lot haven't you lost thing that others wouldn't understand feel things such regret, remorse,fear, and the end. However they don't understand the end do they what you think is going to happen in the end do they think it's just an old man's ramblings? Let me tell you there are people out there who believe you not people who are just listening but people who believe you know more than you know less then you but the one thing they can't and you and me can't say is we've see it all they might know secretes that must never be spoken knowledge that must never be herd and see thing you would never believe we don't know all but in my eyes we should stop before its to late because with great knowledge comes too thing do you know what they are tell do you?

WTF? Why do you keep speaking cryptically? This started as a normal question but now you are speaking like you have some higher knowledge of the world using deep meanings and cryptic ramblings. Are you an alien being? One of the Illuminati? What is going on?