I never said you are a bad person. You do realize that just like guys look for qualities in girls, girls do the same with guys. Sure you can find a girl but you are limiting yourself with options when you come off as insecure, and emotional in some areas that many girls are looking for you to be stronger in.

Okay thank you everyone. I'll have to do it I guess... Thanks for your help.

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Originally Posted by posaunus

Please stop. I don't want trouble and am in enough deep sh*t already. Just because I have problems doesn't mean I'm not a good person or can't get a girl.

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No one said you'd never find a girl. But until you learn to accept things, accept when someone doesn't feel the same way you do, you're in for a world of hurt.

You can't force someone to love you. I know it hurts when you think you love someone, and they don't feel the same way. But you hanging on to her will only end up hurting you more.

If you tell her you'll always be there for her, you're setting yourself up to be used. She knows how you feel about her and she keeps stringing you along. She won't stop. She knows you can be her crutch when she needs you, that she can use you. Why give someone that power over you?

What you're doing to yourself by not cutting all contact, is not allowing yourself to move on. You have to let her go. Yes, it will be hard. Yes, it will hurt. Crushes hurt just as much as real love when they're over. But you will never get what you want from her. As long as you hold on to the hope that she'll change her mind, you won't be able to move on and actually find someone to love.

I DID IT! I feel weird but good :) thanks
And thank you everyone

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Originally Posted by Alty

No one said you'd never find a girl. But until you learn to accept things, accept when someone doesn't feel the same way you do, you're in for a world of hurt.

You can't force someone to love you. I know it hurts when you think you love someone, and they don't feel the same way. But you hanging on to her will only end up hurting you more.

If you tell her you'll always be there for her, you're setting yourself up to be used. She knows how you feel about her and she keeps stringing you along. She won't stop. She knows you can be her crutch when she needs you, that she can use you. Why give someone that power over you?

What you're doing to yourself by not cutting all contact, is not allowing yourself to move on. You have to let her go. Yes, it will be hard. Yes, it will hurt. Crushes hurt just as much as real love when they're over. But you will never get what you want from her. As long as you hold on to the hope that she'll change her mind, you won't be able to move on and actually find someone to love.

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Good advice as usual.