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Originally Posted by enchanting5555

About how she threatened me to throw my clothes away, how I'm being forced to dress her way, how I feel as if shes not caring, how I feel like I have no freedom to be who I am, it just really hurts, bad.

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Is this new with her?

Are you dressed like her now or will be for school tomorrow?

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Is this new with her?

Are you dressed like her now or will be for school tomorrow?

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I'm not sure. I'm worried about tomorrow morning when she sees me. But I'm OK at school just not at home. But I figured maybe I should just wear my own clothes and if she makes a big deal of what I wear tomorrow then..

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Originally Posted by enchanting5555

I'm not sure. I'm worried about tomorrow morning when she sees me. But I'm ok at school just not at home. But I figured maybe I should just wear my own clothes and if she makes a big deal of what I wear tomorrow then ..

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I have a silly question. Who bought your clothes? Did you pay for them yourself, or did your mom buy them for you?

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Originally Posted by enchanting5555

I'm not sure. I'm worried about tomorrow morning when she sees me. But I'm ok at school just not at home. But I figured maybe I should just wear my own clothes and if she makes a big deal of what I wear tomorrow then ..

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So wear something nice that she will like, just to put her mind at ease. If this was a one-time rant, she will probably move on to other stuff.

Is she maybe upset with something else in her life about you or someone else in the family (and took it out on you)?

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Originally Posted by Alty

I have a silly question. Who bought your clothes? Did you pay for them yourself, or did your mom buy them for you?

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I bought them myself once by myself and sometimes with friends. We got to the mall together sometimes to go shopping and its fun!

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

So wear something nice that she will like, just to put her mind at ease. If this was a one-time rant, she will probably move on to other stuff.

Is she maybe upset with something else in her life about you or someone else in the family (and took it out on you)?

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Everything in my wardrobe she doesn't like :(
And I'm not sure if she has something else she's unhappy about in life.

I have the same problem with my mom, it's not a bad, but my mom doesn't want me to wear skinny jeans because "it doesn't let our parts breathe". But then what am I suppose to wear skirts and dresses everyday! No, if your mom doesn't like the way you dress then maybe you should let her go clothes shopping with you and not aeropostale or american eagle, but like a target or walmart. Ask her if this is okay or let her pick some stuff out and agree on some stuff. And I'm not saying this as a good thing, but you'll be in a public place, she shouldn't start yelling at you there. It would help me if I would know exactly what you wear like low cut tops or short shorts. And maybe what your mom thinks is a good outfit.
Just try to relate and compromise.

It might help if you tell us what her style and your style are like. Like your wanting to wear average jeans and T shirts and she wants you to wear hip huggers and belly shirts? If she is insisting you wear clothes that get you in trouble with the school maybe she should talk to the school