I'm in my 60s and remember all the guys I dumped and got dumped by when I was a teen. I learned something from each situation -- how to be nicer/kinder, how to be more diplomatic, how to be more accepting that a relationship wasn't going to work. Dating and early relationships are a training ground for finding "The One" you will eventually partner with or (hopefully) marry. We find out what we like and don't like in the opposite sex and also who we are what kind of people we are.

What are you learning about yourself?

My ex out of nowhere even though I haven't msged her that much at all with in the span of time since she broke up with me finally decided to message me and told me to stop talking to her and before that according to are mutual friend who I had a slight conversation with about her mentioned I annoie her a lot even though I didn't message my ex that much since the break up occurred like honestly maybe 4 times with in a span of a month each message being sent very far apart from each other but she hasn't deleted me or blocked me at all... and its been 2 days since she msgd me telling me to stop talking to her...


All threads have been merged together

Drop messaging her and why don't you block her so you aren't tempted

Myabe she's been busy for the last 2 days with a new boyfriend.
How in the world would we possibly know what she's thinking?

Wow, that is some run-on sentence you've got going there.

As for why she hasn't blocked or deleted you... hmm... ask her?

Maybe she wants to see that you are getting a life

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Originally Posted by N0help4u

Drop messaging her and why dont you block her so you arent tempted

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I have stopped... I already said I harldy msgd her..

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Originally Posted by odinn7

Wow, that is some run-on sentence you've got going there.

As for why she hasn't blocked or deleted you.....hmm....ask her?

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We;; u get what I'm saying so whatever...

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Originally Posted by joypulv

Myabe she's been busy for the last 2 days with a new boyfriend.
How in the world would we possibly know what she's thinking?

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Uh no that's not the case at all I know very well that's not it...

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Originally Posted by joypulv

Myabe she's been busy for the last 2 days with a new boyfriend.
How in the world would we possibly know what she's thinking?

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And I wasn't talking about you reading her mind I'm sure she's not the only one who's not delete there ex after breaking up with them...

That was just one of a million possible reasons.
A common one is curiosity! I shouldn't be telling you that though. That's why I said something cruel - in the hopes you'd get angry and start saying she's not for you anyway. Which is the only healthy way to deal with being dumped.

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Originally Posted by chace_don_C

i have stopped....i already said i harldy msgd her..

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Stopped and hardly are hardly the same thing. Why do you feel she should block/delete you? Maybe she hasn't really given it a thought.

There is no reason for her to block you. She just does not need to message you. Perhaps she wants you to suffer by looking at her page and seeing all the fun she has without you.

The issue is, why have you not blocked her or stopped talking with her.

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Originally Posted by chace_don_C

we;; u get what im saying so whatever...

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Maybe "whatever". It makes your question much easier to read, and more people are willing to look at it, if it has some sort of punctuation in it. It's ridiculous to have to read it a few times to try and figure out what you're saying.

So anyway... You've got an answer for everything, don't you?

You came here asking something that is technically impossible for us to know the answer to... how can we really know what she is thinking? There are all kinds of reasons she didn't block you... we don't know her. We don't know what she is thinking.

I saw a good answer here... why have you not blocked her? You're never going to get over this if you can't let go.

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