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  • Mar 28, 2007, 01:44 AM
    Krs
    I went to a catholic only girls school!

    Don't beat yourself down! Ive been there. Your age is a tough age, just learn to over come it. Trust me . I was like you when I was your age.

    You won't be lonely forever :) you won't x
  • Mar 28, 2007, 03:39 AM
    talaniman
    At an all girl school what makes you think that everyone but you is hooked up, and that makes you ugly? Okay now, what else is going on in your life?
  • Mar 29, 2007, 06:01 AM
    smcthatgirl2
    What else is going on. Well nothing major I just don't feel great about myself in fact I never do. I don't know . I know that not everyone has a boyfriend in my school considering it is an all girls school! But still everyone has had some experience well people my age! I just can't see myself ever being somebody's girlfreind, I'm not the type of person a guy would pick. I am not good enough for them well apparently so
  • Mar 29, 2007, 06:25 AM
    Krs
    Stop beating yourself down.

    You know what you have to remember - if you put yourself down people will see that and for that obvious reason won't pick you, people like confident happy people ;)

    Besides as I told u before, you are still young with plenty ahead of you so give yourself some credit
  • Mar 29, 2007, 08:27 AM
    talaniman
    Maybe you need to talk to a trusted adult to address your issues, a school counselor maybe or a teacher you admire.
  • Mar 29, 2007, 08:33 AM
    Rockabilly1955mama
    Screw that fool! Men are ridiculous at times. He clearly is bound to hurt you, and you can do better.
  • Mar 29, 2007, 02:46 PM
    Jack_Jack 238
    Try not too be around him so much and every time you see him back off for a while and have him come to you and talk if that doesn't happen then just ignore him he is not worth any of your time.
  • Apr 10, 2007, 05:15 AM
    smcthatgirl2
    Yeah I don't talk to him anymore. Well he doesn't talk to me so why should I bother! Mean men suck. I pray I will meet some nice ones becoz its been all baddddddddd so far!
  • Apr 10, 2007, 10:46 AM
    Rockabilly1955mama
    No worries hun. There's a lot of bad guys out there that seem like they're out to hurt you. But sooner or later, you'll find your Prince Charming. It's only a matter of time.

    =]
  • Apr 12, 2007, 10:55 PM
    Gurshalyulo
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by smcthatgirl2
    i just feel so lonely. i like this guy and he likes someone else. ive liked him for a couple of years now and it just kills me everytime i see him. i think hes bit of a player coz he knows lots of girls. we are family friends so i see him quite a bit and he is always quiet around me and never talks even after i make conversation. i think he just doesnt like me and i dont no wat i have done to deserve him treating me like im not there. he always avoids me and can't even make eye contact with me. and its not coz he likes me im pretty sure its the opposite. when he does talk hes never friendly i dont no wat i shud do!!

    From what I'm reading this is almost the complete opposite but my best friend is going through the same situation... she dated this guy 2 years ago, but their relationship ended in havoc.. and he never liked her afterwords.. and now he's got his head so far up this other girls he can see out her nostrils... but anyway... she told him how she feels.. and she said I really like you still, and I don't care what you think, because no matter what you say ill still like you.. and the day after that she came with a cheek-2-cheek grin on her face saying he was superrrr nice to me..
  • Apr 19, 2007, 03:55 AM
    smcthatgirl2
    Are you saying I should tell him I still like him? Because he already likes someone else, he even has a pic of them on his myspace. That's great for your friend :) but I just don't think it would end that way for me... :S
  • Apr 19, 2007, 03:21 PM
    Gurshalyulo
    You never know if you would try.. just say something like lately my feelings for you have been growing and I wanted to know if you feel the same way about me.. if you don't I'm still cool with it, etc etc.. But don't say anything like listen, I am madly in love with you go out with me now, take it slow and act like your still close but not tooo close to really liking him
  • Apr 22, 2007, 12:51 AM
    smcthatgirl2
    I don't think he is a very nice person, I have realised that now and I think if I went on and on about it to him he would just hate me more, so I just won't talk to him, I avent for a while, ad he doesn't even care, I guess there lies my answer
  • Oct 17, 2009, 05:21 AM
    jessicahhhh
    Hey love I've got the same problem as well, there's this guy I had a thing for, for ages an the night I met him I brought 2 mates with me . He started flirting with them an trying to get with me an I ended up getting with him then after that he just ignored me an didn't even won't to be around me an now he's saying to my friend that he wants her to be his babey boy. An that pissed the hell out of me. An now I'm trying to let him c that I love him. It mabey stupid to sum but to me I just have boy trouble a lot an I know what your going through an dw he's a looser just like a lot of them so go find that mr right :)

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